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Pmon · 09-29-2016, 05:08 PM

We all know that providers commonly provide protection on dates. But what if the condom doesn't fit well or is cheaply made? I've had a few dates where the condom provided was too tight, which in my case causes junior to beat a hasty retreat, sometimes for the duration of the session. I've also had a couple of cases where the material was too thick, and the effect is pretty much the same. My question for the ladies is, do you care if the gentleman provides the protection? If not, are there any caveats? I know a couple of ladies who absolutely don't want the guy to bring condoms. One of them didn't trust the client not to tamper with the condom beforehand. Another was concerned about the fact that not all condoms (lambskin, for example) aren't specifically designed to prevent STDs. Thoughts?

Tigerhobby · 09-30-2016, 08:03 AM

Hey Pmon,
Well I myself always carry my own protection.... I've got the oh I forgot to grab some... or oh I just used my last one.. so I started carrying my on and I have found most don't. Mind. If they do I'll use theirs.

gimme_that · 10-01-2016, 06:14 AM

I carry my own. As a courtesy to the ladies though I keep the box sealed with a receipt. I burn a lot of rubber on overnights so I wouldn't want a lady complaining I use too many at her expense. And I never have to worry about the excuse that she ran out lol.

Guest072918 · 10-02-2016, 05:46 AM

Seems few ladies in AL realize that flirting and answering question on the boards is a great way to build up interest and business...

Guest082418-2 · 10-02-2016, 06:55 AM

PMON... Sorry I was out of contact last week so just saw this.

I am fine with you bringing your own . I have always thought it was my place pick them up and be prepared. I can do size appropriate if you share in advance what you need.
I have a specific allergy to the noxonol 9. Its a sperm killing ingredient added to some condoms. So I keep a variety of sizes on hand.

Its a hard talk to have and keep discretion in tact for first time friends and almost impossible to have with newbies. I am no longer newbie friendly so I will not have to worry so much about the frustrations and fears associated there anymore.

gimme_that · 10-02-2016, 06:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Woodford

Seems few ladies in AL realize that flirting and answering question on the boards is a great way to build up interest and business...

Flirting isn't any of these ladies issue or reason they may be more silent here and moreso focused on business. They are masters of seduction...professionals. I think some ladies don't answer questions because the truth of the matter is some hobbyist don't want the real truth. Or more formally they can't be their true selves and are somewhat limited to what they can say...or what most guys want to hear versus what they will see.

I'd like to see more local ladies post too. But what a lady says or her opinion on things won't affect me wanting to see her. Would I prefer to see someone I agree with ...absolutely.......but that wouldn't affect business with me. With a vast majority of others.....not so much.......

Guest071717 · 10-02-2016, 07:21 PM

Hello. I generally supply a variety, as I have found one type for everyone does not always work..

There is a new one out, but I have been unable to locate it except by ordering it online. It is supposed to turn that fun part of our lives on its head (heee heee) with the design. Made by LELO... It is called HEX. But if a friend has one they prefer, I don't have issues generally.

Pmon · 10-02-2016, 10:35 PM

Thanks for the replies, all. Heidi and Addison, you've enlightened me as to another reason guys speak so highly of you....your properly prepared. And Addison, I'll have to look into that one by LELO. They make some good stuff...as I'm guessing you already know.

Guest072918 · 10-03-2016, 06:22 AM

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Originally Posted by gimme_that

Flirting isn't any of these ladies issue or reason they may be more silent here and moreso focused on business. They are masters of seduction...professionals. I think some ladies don't answer questions because the truth of the matter is some hobbyist don't want the real truth. Or more formally they can't be their true selves and are somewhat limited to what they can say...or what most guys want to hear versus what they will see.

I'd like to see more local ladies post too. But what a lady says or her opinion on things won't affect me wanting to see her. Would I prefer to see someone I agree with ...absolutely.......but that wouldn't affect business with me. With a vast majority of others.....not so much.......

Gimme - This is where I must disagree. Part of my research before I see a lady is her posts on boards to see if she is fun and flirty. I don't have to agree with everything she posts, but her posts can be a great insight into her personality and can be a good indicator of us having good chemistry. And good chemistry can turn an OK one time session into an ATF that I see repeatedly. It has worked for me many times on a variety of boards, many much more active than this one.

So, IMHO, a lady's posts can be a good indicator to me if she is fun and may make the decision for me to spend my valuable time and $ with her. Few or no posts lets me know something about her as well.

gimme_that · 10-03-2016, 02:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Woodford

Few or no posts lets me know something about her as well.

So what does it let you know? Go ahead and divulge since a large majority of ladies fit this criteria here.......tell them how you really feel.

Guest072918 · 10-07-2016, 05:32 AM

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Originally Posted by gimme_that

So what does it let you know? Go ahead and divulge since a large majority of ladies fit this criteria here.......tell them how you really feel.

Gimme - We all have what we are looking for in the hobby. You list what is important to you in your signature. Good for you.

What is important to me is to have fun and escape from life's troubles for a while. I have enough drama in my civilian life and certainly don't want it here. So, there are many reasons a lady may not post here, but none of those reasons would entice me to see her over a lady that posts fun and flirty posts here.

This forum and other boards like it are opportunities for ladies to advertise themselves to their customer base, to show a little about themelves, in addition to their ads. It is simply a missed opportunity to engage with their customers.

CummingsLane · 10-09-2016, 09:56 PM

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Originally Posted by gimme_that

I carry my own. As a courtesy to the ladies though I keep the box sealed with a receipt. I burn a lot of rubber on overnights so I wouldn't want a lady complaining I use too many at her expense. And I never have to worry about the excuse that she ran out lol.

Smart guy and thanks for putting us first. The one problem I have with using a client's is the chances of it being tampered with and I have never had a problem with how many is being used because our safety comes first at no cost.

gimme_that · 10-10-2016, 01:53 AM

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Originally Posted by CummingsLane

The one problem I have with using a client's is the chances of it being tampered with and I have never had a problem with how many is being used because our safety comes first at no cost.

Two points from this. If a lady meets me and would deem I had the look of a guy that hampers with condoms I would hope she wouldn't have wanted to see me in the first place.

As for the number used......I got really tired of ladies running out, telling me I was using too many, or they never had my proper sized ones. Mostly I attributed to ladies being cheap and wanting me to be more conservative with the condom use. Other than changing condoms every orgasm.....I like to also sometimes change condoms in between different sex positions to insure integrity of it.

CummingsLane · 10-10-2016, 08:45 AM

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Originally Posted by gimme_that

Two points from this. If a lady meets me and would deem I had the look of a guy that hampers with condoms I would hope she wouldn't have wanted to see me in the first place.

As for the number used......I got really tired of ladies running out, telling me I was using too many, or they never had my proper sized ones. Mostly I attributed to ladies being cheap and wanting me to be more conservative with the condom use. Other than changing condoms every orgasm.....I like to also sometimes change condoms in between different sex positions to insure integrity of it.

Good communication is the key to keeping everything fluid. I am sure any special request can be met as long as its known prior and I would never base my trust off looks. It takes more than that to earn mine.

StinaValentine · 10-11-2016, 09:55 AM

Like the other lovely ladies, I am usually well prepared with regular, large, non-latex and FC2. I don't mind if a gentleman likes to bring his own still sealed in the box though. I may even find a new brand I like that way.