this slightly applies to encounters and relationships in our crazy sub-culture. esp #6
what do you think??
http://www.gq.com/story/6-unspoken-rules-of-casual-sex
"6) Stare death in the face.
The moment you start having casual sex is the beginning of the end. The arrangement, while enjoyable and healthy, is transient and unsustainable. It may last for a while, but ultimately, your little microcosm is destroying itself, which, in the words of famed sex columnist Al Gore, is an inconvenient truth."
sounds kinda like Zen sex : be here now - dont hold on for all is transient.