Protection

[GuyPerson]

Is it normal for a provider to ask you to bring protection?

[whatstheplay]

In my experience, it's not normal, but it happens. Save yourself some grief and always carry one just in case.

[pyramider]

No. the ladies should always provide their own. They know what they like and can tolerate, some have latex allergies. Fucktards bringing their own is sketchy at best. Too many fucktards like to tamper with condoms causing them to fail and then feign ignorance essentially bbing the lady. Or they try to use a condom they have been carrying since high school.

[Buying a *Way to Heaven]

It's unusual. If it's someone you haven't met before, be careful how you respond - don't say anything that could be used later as evidence that you were arranging for sex.

[python54]

I've never run across that. I would think that a provider would feel safer using what she knows is fresh quality protection that works for her. Your personal red jalapeño flavored condoms might get you black listed

[rrabbit6926]

Some provider might not know your size and if your bigger then average or smaller then average best to bring your own for comfort. Normally a provider would provide them hence the name provider..lol

[Guest112917]

I always carry condoms and lube. I get a little sensitive to latex so I always have Skyns with me. I also like them for the feeling. I think I have used mine with about half the providers I have seen. Just the other night my escort asked me if I had any when I picked her up. I was prepared so we did not have to stop on the way to fun town. I also had lube which was good as we ended up going greek.

[Randall Creed]

It's better to bring your own. Never know if she'll bust out some cheap ass truck stop bathroom rubber tires to put on your dick. You can't feel a thing, but you're pounding the shit out of her, trying to feel something. That's a lose-lose endeavor.

To avoid this potentiality, you, the guy, should bring your own as a fail safe. Of course, ladies should check those out, to make sure some douchebag isn't popping holes in them, or that the condom expired in 1998, because some morons actually think getting a random chick pregnant is cool.

Lube, too, because nothing kills a session quicker than trying to fuck with a dry condom...the last one. A quick drop of slickness and....


So, bring your own. Ladies, check them out and make sure they're good.

Too easy.

[TravelingGentleman]

I don't bring my own - I'm not in a position where I can ever have an excuse for having one on me.

I expect the lady to provide them. To avoid sizing issues, even better if the provider comes prepared with female condoms. That lets you jump from activity to activity with no down time in the heat of the moment to don/swap/change protection.

[awl4knot]

Originally Posted by TravelingGentleman

I don't bring my own - I'm not in a position where I can ever have an excuse for having one on me.

I expect the lady to provide them. To avoid sizing issues, even better if the provider comes prepared with female condoms. That lets you jump from activity to activity with no down time in the heat of the moment to don/swap/change protection.

Gee, even a Boy Scout knows to be prepared. Buy a three pack just to be safe and discard what you don't use. Even the best providers can have inventory shortages.

[Guest112917]

Originally Posted by TravelingGentleman

I don't bring my own - I'm not in a position where I can ever have an excuse for having one on me.

I expect the lady to provide them. To avoid sizing issues, even better if the provider comes prepared with female condoms. That lets you jump from activity to activity with no down time in the heat of the moment to don/swap/change protection.

Eventually you will run into a situation where you are not going to get any then. Stop at the gas station and grab a 3 pack. If she is prepared, great. If not you are still going to get what you want. If you do not want to get caught with them, give them to the provider as a little gift before you leave. I keep some hidden very well in my computer bag that goes everywhere with me except to visit the gals and have not been caught yet. I only hobby while on the road anyway.

[joesmo888]

i've had a provider ask one time. very low volume and it was an outcall where we were meeting.

i've had another situation where i arrived and the provider didn't have any so we had to drive to buy some.

IMO a provider should always have them on hand because the hobbyist doesn't want to be caught having them if his SO sees them.

[2dogs]

I've found it to be the" NORM "that I do not need to bring one.

[goodman0422]

I read an article that talked about probable cause in my town. The article stated that "cash and condoms" are enough for le to bring a guy in. They might not get anything to stick but being stopped at either a sting or actual appointment with those 2 things could mean a ride down town. I was stopped on my way out of an appointment once but I was under the impression the cops thought drugs were being sold out of the hotel room I just left.
They let me go when I said I wanted a lawyer.
Long story short, the cash is unavoidable. The girl should provide the protection.
I usually bring one and leave it in my car just in case.

[gimme_that]

Originally Posted by GuyPerson

Is it normal for a provider to ask you to bring protection?

Nope not the norm. But not so strange all the time.

I would however assume these scenarios if a lady running a business suggested I bring some first......without me already suggesting I bring my own. (I always bring my own btw)

Reason she say to bring some:

1. She simply ran out and lost track during a high volume amount of calls.

2. She doesn't provide them at all to save money and ask you to get them. To seem more pc......

3. She provides bbfs to guys who show up who decide they will instead just leave. It's a common upsell tactic some ladies use when guys arrive especially via backpage.

4. She's on birth control or iud and doesn't really care much.

5. She allergic to latex.

6. She already has a client in the room and need you to make a fake store run so she has time to finish the appointment.

7. It's” LE trying to confirm sex for money over phone so when your in person the items are there too.


Reasons I bring my own:

1. I take my health into my own hands. I leave the box sealed until we start the appointment. Lube as well. No one is gonna double dip the chip on me with there own industrial public hair caught on the top cap lube bottle......

2. I know I'll have a nice quality one that fits.......

3. I know it isn't tampered with for an abortion fee or the day after pill upsell.

4. Prevents the cash and dash I left the condoms in the car technique.