All provider that don't see blacks just posted on bio don't hide.

[OldGent]

Man that really sicks this happened to you. That was completely uncalled for and I really respect you being a gentlemen about it. It says a lot about your character. Keep being a good example. Karma does pay off dawg.

[albundy]

Originally Posted by OldGent

...That was completely uncalled for and I really respect you being a gentlemen about it. It says a lot about your character. Keep being a good example. Karma does pay off dawg.

Seriously, man?!? You "respect" him for not calling out a hooker that fucked him over. OK. Whatever.

I know you are supposed to be the "gentleman"around here, OG. But come the fuck on, man! This isn't a dating site, it's a hooker board. It's BUSINESS!!! If she's fucking over customers, she needs to be called out on it.

NONE of these chicks are actually our girlfriends are TRULY in a relationship with us. You ever doubt it, cut the money off and then ask them to hang out with you and then get back to me and let me know how that worked out for you.

[OldGent]

Never implied that Al. I meant his not getting nasty about it. I agree the name needs to get out there but he doesn't have to be a jackass about doing it. And where did the relationship bullshit come from? I'm a trick just like you bro. I have no illusions about the game.

[albundy]

Originally Posted by OldGent

Never implied that Al. I meant his not getting nasty about it. I agree the name needs to get out there but he doesn't have to be a jackass about doing it.

Not mentioning her name just condones her behavior. She will continue it. Name her.

If I get a NC/NS, for example, you better believe I'd be letting people know who did it. It's valuable information. Now, the next black guy that goes through all of the hassle to schedule her and drive over is just going to get fucked over too. But if he had the hooker's name beforehand, he could have saved both him and the chick time and hurt feelings.

[OldGent]

Originally Posted by albundy

Not mentioning her name just condones her behavior. She will continue it. Name her.

If I get a NC/NS, for example, you better believe I'd be letting people know who did it. It's valuable information. Now, the next black guy that goes through all of the hassle to schedule her and drive over is just going to get fucked over too. But if he had the hooker's name beforehand, he could have saved both him and the chick time and hurt feelings.

Again I agree with that and all your points. There is a difference between putting her name out there and "this fucking bitch dawged me". I'm talking the difference between just being honest and acting like a thug which only reinforces stereotypes and wouldnt get him much sympathy.

[albundy]

Originally Posted by OldGent

Again I agree with that and all your points. There is a difference between putting her name out there and "this fucking bitch dawged me". I'm talking the difference between just being honest and acting like a thug which only reinforces stereotypes and wouldnt get him much sympathy.

Yeah, I can dig that. He still should at least name her though and save his fellow black hobbyists some hurt feelings and wasted time.

[mbr815]

Speaking from personal experience, outing a provider's name due to a NC/NS, or any other reason, usually results in some form of backlash for the hobbyist. I can understand why the OP wouldn't want to call her out.

I understand giving up her name would make it much more convenient for other hobbyists (in this case, the black ones) to avoid this provider. I even completely agree that her name needs to come out, but every thread where the hobbyist calls out a provider for something similar to a NC/NS results in backlash for the OP. Every. Time.

With that said, it's somewhat humorous that people are now wanting the provider to be outed, lol. Funny how times change I guess.

[tarafoxxx]

Originally Posted by Infinityg37

This thread was started just to ask providers to put there no blacks allowed on there profile page not to talk bad about anyone. You never know the next non African American she see might be the worst client ever even though he was not black.I have encountered more racism here than anywhere my entire life, really I thought it was all about the green and being treated like a lady.

hey Infinityg37, first i would like to say I am sorry that you have been subject to that unfortunate situation but due to the fact that most African American guys consistently love to play games and Penny pinch... a lot of providers refuse to take that chance with immaturity. personally I have witnessed a African-American guy try to take back their donation after a session and run off like a kid or they would cause a scene in public in hopes that they will receive their donation back just to leave. This was in my first few months of hobbying. A big thing thats going on now is AA pimps are meeting with girls and having them beat up and robbed, fighting etc...

just wanted to post this so you can understand its not a racist thing all the time. We as independent providers value our safety and discretion...

[tarafoxxx]

Originally Posted by albundy

Seriously, man?!? You "respect" him for not calling out a hooker that fucked him over. OK. Whatever.

I know you are supposed to be the "gentleman"around here, OG. But come the fuck on, man! This isn't a dating site, it's a hooker board. It's BUSINESS!!! If she's fucking over customers, she needs to be called out on it.

NONE of these chicks are actually our girlfriends are TRULY in a relationship with us. You ever doubt it, cut the money off and then ask them to hang out with you and then get back to me and let me know how that worked out for you.

So mr.Al I am no longer seeing you??? lol JK but I do treat my regulars to dinner and we hang out and chat.. I see I am going to have to show you the true essence of this Vixen

[1+1]

The fact that she doesn't see AA men could reflect as her being prejudice and that would hurt her business.Preference and Prejudice are two different perspectives.She is wrong for wasting his time and could have asked him to describe himself through the screening phase.Any Marketing that could be seen as discrimination shouldn't be written.Bottom line.Escorts are going to make their money.

[Lena Duvall]

My tip is to start an "AA Friendly" thread for New Orleans. There are similar threads for Houston and Austin and maybe some other cities with beaucoup responses from local and touring providers who have no problems seeing Black clients. Besides that, an ambiguous thread isn't going to change the hearts of escorts who don't publicize that they don't see Black clients to start making that known in ads or before confirming an appointment. I'm not going to play into tropes and generalizations about Black men, or spend my time speculating on why any provider wouldn't see them. What I will say is if this particular provider doesn't have any regards for Black clients, why would she care about sparing the OP from wasting his time or energy?

[albundy]

Originally Posted by tarafoxxx

So mr.Al I am no longer seeing you??? lol JK but I do treat my regulars to dinner and we hang out and chat.. I see I am going to have to show you the true essence of this Vixen

I hope so, Gorgeous. You need to be on my face RIGHT NOW!

[tarafoxxx]

Originally Posted by albundy

I hope so, Gorgeous. You need to be on my face RIGHT NOW!

oowww that made my P.Tongue jump!!!!

[albundy]

Originally Posted by tarafoxxx

oowww that made my P.Tongue jump!!!!

I cannot fucking wait to meet you!!! This is going to be a very LOOOONNNNGGG night.

[tarafoxxx]

"Be Careful"

and since you're up for a while I invite you to visit my site... I would appreciate your opinion been working on it for sometime..I enjoyed our conversation.. have a safe night