Are providers okay with being called degrading names by clients

[Tony Gambino]

Originally Posted by Caligula1

Please never call the providers with degrading name ever. You are a genetleman. I understand this is business but...remember you have a mother, wife or SO, ATF, sister , nephew and and female co workers. Try calling the female coworkers working at work for you with degrading names trust me you will not be warned but your ass will be fired on that day typically within the hour sir. That's business too. If the service is poor move on sir with due respect.

please....most moms and sisters aren't hookers....and yeah i'm the customer, not her suitor..shes supposed to make the customer happy not the other way around. Some of you fucktards think you're Richard Gere in pretty woman.

[eccieuser9500]

Originally Posted by citizen44

I'm a huge believer in the old saying "Treat a princess like a whore and a whore like a princess". I'm also just not wired sexually to get off on calling a woman something which is not going to turn her on.

I like my hookers youthful, fun and only slightly jaded.

If I may, I'd like to take issue with your first statement. Correct me if I'm wrong, but a princess is not dependent upon doing dirty deeds dirt cheap. Therefore calling her "my stupid, needy and desperate little fucktoy" is going turn her on because she knows what I'm saying is just about me. Or us in the moment.

Conversely, an actual stupid, needy and desperate little fucktoy longs to be pampered, attended to, and called a princess. So when the whore is doing those dirt-cheap dirty deeds, the showering of attention is going to turn her on while doing so. Which, in turn, turns you on.

My issue is when you write you're not wired to call a woman something that won't turn her on. But then you like "youthful, fun and only slightly jaded" providers. Hard to degrade or dignify her. Somewhat of a fantasy gray area. Middle of the spectrum I suspect many modern men agree with.

Many years ago I learned what tact meant. In the verbal sense, as opposed to a maneuver.

My point; it gets degrading if I bring up money, gifts, or financial benefits as I pound away at my stupid, needy, and desperate little fucktoy as she wishes with all her heart that I would stop talking and hammering. A real princess doesn't give a fuck what you say until you start choking her.

Thank God for public school teachers who care. "Step up yo' vocab'!"

[eccieuser9500]

Originally Posted by Sistine Chapel

^ pretty good analysis

Nice change in Avatar. That's my kind if stupid, needy, desperate little fucktoy.

[Caligula1]

Tony I will hold fire sir, I did mention that this is business and yes you do need to be attended to what you want within their boundaries sir. We all think differently remember that there is nothing wrong in it.

[Tony Gambino]

Originally Posted by Caligula1

Tony I will hold fire sir, I did mention that this is business and yes you do need to be attended to what you want within their boundaries sir. We all think differently remember that there is nothing wrong in it.

exactly..no two sessions or customers want the same thing......there are guys that don't want BBJ.....which I had trouble believing but its true.......you do what you want and i'll do what I want.....'merica !.

[Guest092816]

Agree 100%

Originally Posted by citizen44

While it's all good fun to call BSC providers, and uppity bitches, whores on a hobby forum, it has never even remotely crossed my mind to do that in an appointment.

I'm a huge believer in the old saying "Treat a princess like a whore and a whore like a princess". I'm also just not wired sexually to get off on calling a woman something which is not going to turn her on.

Civvie women like it because deep down, most of them want to feel like a hotly desired sexual goddess to all the guys.

Most hookers already deal with a ton of anxiety with the mainstream views on prostitution and the fears they have with being that exposed to someone they didn't even know ten minutes before. I therefore do not want to do anything that would cause or increase her anxiety like being forceful or even possibly degrading.

In considering my last sentence, I would point out that most hookers are not in the hobby very long. Are there a bunch of lifer hookers mostly immune to social stigma and completely at home with all manner of sexual practices? Sure, but I'm not really into the die hard hooker with a lifer mentality. I like my hookers youthful, fun and only slightly jaded.