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Guest090620-1 · 08-31-2016, 01:45 AM

I am truly TRULY baffled at the moment. I just received two no reviews in one day. I've already posted my response to my first review, here's the link to that..
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1820249

And here's my response to the second no review (http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1819455) by RipClaw25

When he first contacted me he told me kissing was very important to him. I told him that was no problem at all!... but when we had our session he hardly kissed me at all! I initiated a few times but he never really did. After he came he got up and cleaned up and got dressed so I followed suit. He told me he felt like I didn't kiss him enough and that I rushed him out because he was only there 35 min OK first of all if you want to kiss then reach out and kiss me!! And I never rush my clients I ALWAYS follow the guys lead after they Cum I give them a min to wait and see if they want to go again or if they are done. I do not rush my clients if you pay for an hour then you have an hour with me. How can you get up put your clothes on and act like you're ready to leave and then say I rushed you out.. How?? You got dressed and left I didn't tell you to leave!!!

.. So this brings me to the whole point of this thread.
I truly love being a provider. I REALLY do strive to give stellar experiences each and EVERY time. You're paying a lot of money to spend time with me so I try to maintain a certain level of excellence and professionalism.

But I'm really curious to know why are some of you Afraid to say anything afraid to kiss someone but you have the balls to go meet a stranger?? NONE OF THIS MAKES ANY SENSE TO ME!! if you are not enjoying yourself then WHY would you not say anything?

Like Shrek69 for instance. Said over and over how great of a time we were all having together and how much he enjoyed himself during the session then posts a no review.

Or RipClaw being too afraid to kiss me, left early on his own accord and then blames me for it??

Seriously.... I LOVE what I do and i try REALLY hard to please everyone. But I think it's really unfair to have received both of these no reviews because i feel as if I have done what I'm supposed to do. I look like the girl in the pictures. I am very friendly and nice energetic mischievous ready for fun. I provide lingerie and toys of all sorts, I am punctual and reliable Fetish friendly but I'm NOT going to just let a bunch of people try to talk badly about me when I didn't do anything wrong and I went out of my way to provide an excellent experience. If you cannot do your research and open your mouth and express what you like or don't like (everyone is different and likes different things) then don't be mad at me when it's not exactly what you were looking for when all you had to do was say something. I am HIGHLY skilled and quite naughty but I am NOT in fact a mind reader. If you cannot open your mouth and say something. You can only be mad at yourself.

I want to make you moan and scream, I want to squeeze you and taste you and feel you and enjoy you just as badly as you want me. I want you to have the time of your life when you are with me.

Please just learn how to be honest.
Again everyone is different. Some things are your thing some things aren't.. that's life.. but don't tell a girl you're having a great time if you're not. And if you meet a girl and she does something you don't like or you want more of something, speak your mind!! I'm here to caress and please you, so tell me how you like it and what turns you on. Don't hold your tongue and just leave disappointed.

Savannah Moon · 08-31-2016, 01:49 AM

Really.
LOL

Ripclaw25 · 08-31-2016, 08:41 AM

I'm not going to get into a "he said, she said" debate as that really does no one any good.

I would just like to point out that the "No" recommendations given are a personal opinion. I would also like to say that from my point of view at least I feel that the way you've conducted yourself after receiving them is hurting your business/reputation more than that one line on the review post. I know for myself I don't appreciate things being brought out in the open like this, I'd guess I'm not alone in this feeling.

I'm just going to leave it at that since as I said there's no point arguing what you felt happened and what I felt happened, there's 2 sides to every coin.

cmore197474 · 08-31-2016, 09:19 AM

I think the ros.is way more important than the yes/no. some.are.afraid.to.leave no reviews for reasons like this thread. It leads to confusion. Unless in the massage reviews where confusion is intended. Is a yes/no suppose to mean that I had a.good time, or that I would.recommend to.a.friend., or.I will or .will not repeat. Or on a scale.from 2-10 is a yes but only a 0 or 1 gets a no. I can have a good time but not repeat or recommend to see a girl.at all.costs, but in certain circumstances I would recommend...is that a.yes.Or a.no. is getting an orgasm enough to be.a.yes and not getting cash and dashed enough to be a yes? I like the p411 Okay system best, for. clents.and providers. Let the ros do the explainingi

I will also say in response too the kissing example above, that.as a savannah stated in another thread, as a non smoker, smoke taste or smell will kill the urge to kiss and ruin a session. . That is a courtesy that should work both ways in my opinion.

Cleo · 08-31-2016, 10:04 AM

I can understand Ms Rabbit that you are frustrated and disappointed with the reviews, especially since they do not appear to be the norm for you and you seem to have pride in your work ethic.

I truly am sorry that you find yourself in this position, however, your public, in depth, and detailed rebuttals are calling into question, your level of discretion.

I respectfully suggest that private communications with only those involved and/or your most trusted support group regarding things of this nature may serve you better?

Mccaffery · 08-31-2016, 10:21 AM

Do providers have access to the RoS?
How is she quoting things not visible to all?

SpicyOnion · 08-31-2016, 10:41 AM

In general, if you go to a restaurant and while eating many times the servers will ask how the food is, do we say upfront the food is bad and terrible? In general (being nice) I don't, I may say I like the food, but simply I may not go to that restaurant if the food is bad for my taste.

SpicyOnion · 08-31-2016, 10:50 AM

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Originally Posted by Mccaffery

Do providers have access to the RoS?

A "true" provider will never care about access to ROS or shows interest in knowing such. Can name a few that belong to this category.

But, ROS and ML are ____, on the other hand I don't think any of the guys have access to their powder room..

..except mods and admins...due to the nature of their job.

Mccaffery · 08-31-2016, 10:55 AM

I only ask, in both disputes she stated things from the RoS.
Someone had to spill the beans or .... she got info somehow.

noleftturn · 08-31-2016, 10:58 AM

Providers are not allowed access to the ROS. WK or a mandle allow the private information to be shared.

Mccaffery · 08-31-2016, 11:11 AM

I know assumptions get us all in trouble, given the expedience of the disputes...

Guest090620-1 · 08-31-2016, 12:08 PM

RipClaw told me himself. So there is no WK or "mandle" involved.. I'm not trying to call anyone out I'm just saying it's my not only my job but it is my passion and my pleasure to please others. I just don't understand why the two gentlemen in question were dishonest about their experience with me. I absolutely ONLY want to make you guys happy so I do everything I can to fulfill your fantasies. But it is extremely frustrating to get two NOs on the same day when all I've ever done is try to please. I did state that just because you busted a nut does not warrant a yes review, but in my opinion their bad experiences were due to their lack of research and also lack of communication. My profile here by website and all of my reviews state that I am a smoker, if this is something that bothers you why is it so hard to ask a provider not to smoke before a session? If you are looking to fulfill a specific fantasy then tell me that so I can do that for you!

You guys are saying I shouldn't have brought it to the public eye but the gentlemen did and no one had a problem with them expressing their opinions. Am I REALLY supposed to just take the two NOs and not try to defend myself? Because I DON'T feel as if I did anything wrong during either session. But I can't see the ROS all I know is the one guy claimed to have an amazing time and then says the opposite online then another guy tells me I rushed him and didn't kiss enough So this will be my last response on the subject but I just wanted to clarify that although their opinion is a NO recommendation, that I am still a quality provider.
I don't agree with the NOs but to each their own...at the end of the day I still love what I do and my only intention is to please. I will take a little everyone's advice moving forward and just work that much harder st being a great provider because after all that's what really matters to me anyways.

Guest013121 · 08-31-2016, 12:16 PM

Ok she got 2 NO reviews and you contradictory assholes want to know why she addressed it publicly? Or why she's reacting the way she is? Or maybe you'd like to bash her some more for addressing it out in the open just as the contradicting schmucks wrote a fucking public review! Jezus Fucking Tits!

She has every right to ask why the NO reviews. She has every right to be upset and probably a little hurt.

So fuck you all for not having some sympathy for the girl for just getting 2 NO reviews in a row! It doesn't only hurt the providers rep. when something like this happens.

BigDeal · 08-31-2016, 12:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Gemma34

Ok she got 2 NO reviews and you contradictory assholes want to know why she addressed it publicly? Or why she's reacting the way she is? Or maybe you'd like to bash her some more for addressing it out in the open just as the contradicting schmucks wrote a fucking public review! Jezus Fucking Tits!

She has every right to ask why the NO reviews. She has every right to be upset and probably a little hurt.

So fuck you all for not having some sympathy for the girl for just getting 2 NO reviews in a row! It doesn't only hurt the providers rep. when something like this happens.

+1

Emmie · 08-31-2016, 12:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Gemma34

Ok she got 2 NO reviews and you contradictory assholes want to know why she addressed it publicly? Or why she's reacting the way she is? Or maybe you'd like to bash her some more for addressing it out in the open just as the contradicting schmucks wrote a fucking public review! Jezus Fucking Tits!

She has every right to ask why the NO reviews. She has every right to be upset and probably a little hurt.

So fuck you all for not having some sympathy for the girl for just getting 2 NO reviews in a row! It doesn't only hurt the providers rep. when something like this happens.

All of this and more! She was a Woman, she could have easily taking this to INFOSHARE and left it there. However, she addressed it openly in a public forum and gracefully took all of the snide remarks.