State of the Hobby?

[Ody55eus]

Over the last 10 years has the Hobby gotten safer for both parties and what draws independent women to pursue this lifestyle? Why is it attractive long term for guys to pursue the Hobby? Honest opinions?

[THE "U"]

Originally Posted by Ody55eus

Over the last 10 years has the Hobby gotten safer for both parties and what draws independent women to pursue this lifestyle? Why is it attractive long term for guys to pursue the Hobby? Honest opinions?

For me, no drama and no attachments. I get to fuck bad bitches and I don't have to worry hearing from them after my time is up with them.

[tbone77494]

1) I like getting blow jobs more than SO likes giving them
2) didn't get much 20 year old pussy when I was 20 so I'm making up for it now
3) the girls like dick and figure hell, might as well get paid for it

[cr76]

I like being the star of my own porn fantasy

[nikkivikkisix]

Originally Posted by tbone77494

1) I like getting blow jobs more than SO likes giving them
2) didn't get much 20 year old pussy when I was 20 so I'm making up for it now
3) the girls like dick and figure hell, might as well get paid for it

Well that about sums it up

[LexusLover]

Originally Posted by nikkivikkisix

Well that about sums it up

Have you relocated yet? Or did I misread?

[Sistine Chapel]

Originally Posted by Ody55eus

Over the last 10 years has the Hobby gotten safer for both parties and what draws independent women to pursue this lifestyle?

It seems Eliot Spitzer opened the game up and made it more socially acceptable. Also the useful idiots that insist on getting busted make it safer as well. Where would this hobby be without them. lol

[ajlybj]

I think I'm living my life in reverse, spent all my time working and not meeting ladies. Now I don't want to get to my next life without experiencing some adult fun : s

[gtoman]

Because we can. Some are getting sex with women they could never pick up in real life. Some are out to experience shit they can't experience at home because their SO's won't do it. Some are just into random pussy. And about a million other reasons.

[Victoria of Houston]

Originally Posted by gtoman

And about a million other reasons.

Yes, there are many reasons, on both sides, as to why.

I am curious, OP, if you are searching for your own reasons as to "why" you do it?

If you're having fun and being safe, then fuck everything else. To quote one of my favorite authors; "Buy the ticket; take the ride."

[N.M.]

Originally Posted by tbone77494

1) I like getting blow jobs more than SO likes giving them
2) didn't get much 20 year old pussy when I was 20 so I'm making up for it now
3) the girls like dick and figure hell, might as well get paid for it

I can relate to that ^

[StopShort]

Although I've never run into any safety issues I would venture to say that the hobby is safe, if the right research/screening is done. I think taking the time to do research has saved me a lot of the drama that I see on reviews and in the alert section.

Independent women join the hobby for various reasons. Some have full time jobs and need hobby money as a supplement. Others, just like sex and figure "why not get paid for it?"

The hobby was attractive to me because I wanted more sex than I was getting in the relationships I was in. I also wanted things that civvy women wouldn't give me. Stuff like CIM, FF, Greek, etc. I also wanted NSA. Not to mention wanting to be with hot women of various ages and ethnicities that more than likely wouldn't give me the time of day on the street

[enderwiggin]

For my part, I like seeing what women will do for money.

[spear89]

All of the above

[River Song]

Originally Posted by enderwiggin

For my part, I like seeing what women will do for money.

I like to see what men will pay for those things we do.