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Originally Posted by alaine
Cuddle sessions....I'm interested in adding this to my list of services. Sometimes it isn't sex people are needing as much as nurturing/human touch.
Have you tried a "cuddle" session and how did it play out?
Would you be interested in this type of session? Why?
If you tried it...did it culminate in sex even though that wasn't the plan?
Were you nude, did you bring your PJ's or wear your clothes?
Did you sleep during the session? Was it quiet time or did you talk?
Your perspective appreciated.
Smooches, Alaine
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I've never tried a "cuddle" session as such. However, I can remember several two-hour appointments that ended up being approximately 30 minutes of foreplay and intercourse, and 90 minutes of more or less what you're talking about. Given the context, or course we were naked and in bed. Neither of us slept. It was both "quiet time" and conversation (that is, quiet conversation, really).
I would think that, as a service to offer, there'd be some interest, particularly from old guys like me. The biggest stumbling block I see is that, when a guy is horny and looking to pay for sex, it's easy for him to make a decision about whom to see based on pictures and reviews -- the standard way. I think a guy looking to cuddle and talk would be more interested in a woman's personality, intelligence, and empathy. Those characteristics don't lend themselves well to being recognized in a showcase.
Another caution for the working woman: it seems to me that a prospective cuddle client is much more likely to get clingy. And also to try to weasel free service out of you by email or whatever, since he's looking more for words than friction. Something to keep in mind.
Having said that, at suitable rates, I'd give it a try, when the mood is upon me.