"right now" guys

[Emily3292]

How many guys actually have girls that say they're available the second they text her? Seems like I keep telling people I set appointments and I keep getting people that say right now. After I've said it twice I just won't respond until they actually want to set an appointment instead of whenever they feel like texting me. I try to be a very happy and positive person and I would just rather not answer than say something rude after I've repeated the same information repeatedly. What's everyone else's point of view on this? Should I answer even if I'm ruder than I like to or just leave it alone?

[john_deere]

just very happily and positively tell them to fuck off.

clients can deal with your system....or deal without it.

[Emily3292]

I always try to be polite and I know that I'm fairly new so I don't want to be overly picky but my point is more along the lines of if they can't respect me via text then why would I trust someone to respect me during a session? Had 3 guys tonight do it already so I just put my phone up until I feel calm enough to respond politely lol

[Txad99]

I often decide to scratch my itch on a moment's notice and will try to see a girl right away. However, it is also my practice to treat the provider like a lady, even if she doesn't act like one. In your case, I see nothing wrong with asking for an appointed time. It's your business and you conduct it as you see fit.

[Keyhole Arc Blow]

I think some guys have this idea that yall ladies do nothing but sit on icky here with your phone next to you all day waiting for that message or call/text. Even traveling ladies got shit going on besides waiting for the next appointment.

Might be beneficial to include something in your showcase about you needing an hour or however long before an appointment to get ready etc.

[Blue Moon Man]

Because of work scheduling, I prefer to schedule several days in advance if possible. Rarely to I schedule for a visit the same day.

[john_deere]

you're absolutely right. dipshits are going to dipshit, and if they can't follow simple instructions about how to communicate with you, then there's no reason you should allow them any closer.

[westtexasbrowser]

The "right now" phenomenon happens when our dicks start calling the shots immediately by passing the brain. The brain says "make an appointment, plan this out". Dick says "Now! We need it now!" This happens under the following circumstances:
1. I've got 1 hr right now in which no one needs me or cares where I am. Now!
2. My appointment with Girl A fell through 5 minutes before start time. What am I going to do with this raging boner? Now!
3. Alcohol. Now!

[FBSMLUVR]

^^^^^

3 very good bullet points lol

[Guest091618]

Depends. Sometimes I schedule in advance, other times like right now when the mood strikes me I would like to find something within the next hour.

As an aspiring gentlemen I respect the ladies guidelines. When they say they don't do same day appt or like to prebook I honor that. There are those that advertise "don't contact until you are ready to see me" I honor that as well.

You set the guidelines you want. People can follow them or move on to another provider.

[wham bam]

I found that there is normally a reason a provider is available "right now"

[Twain]

I totally misunderstood your title "right now guys" to mean you were available and wanted a customer right now.
I immediately got a boner (thinking about an impromptu session with you) and opened the post only to be slapped down by the true discussion.
Lol
I guess I'm guilty but Em you gotta throw some of us pervs a break.
My schedule is so crazy and my junk doesn't always cooperate. So when I'm in need ..... I'm in NEED. With no disrespect to you. In fact, if I call you it's because I think you're hot and I got you on my mind.
(Please note it wasn't me who called ... But I can sympathize on both sides)

[john_deere]

i don't think her issue is so much with immediate need as it is with stupidity.

[FBSMLUVR]

Lmao @ "only to be slapped down by the true discussion". You're too funny Twain. Btw, you misread it because you thought is was "right now guys", when in fact it was "right now" guys. A bit of semantics I suppose but again, you were thinking with the little head lol.

Twain is right though Emily. You have to understand that we sometimes have a small window of opportunity and have to reach out to see if we can get some before that window closes. If the guys are being dicks about it, sure go ahead and give them shit right back, but if it's only a simple request asking if you're available asap, but you're not and they're ok with that, then you'll need to get used to those kinds of requests, because it's going to happen. Like Twain says, you gotta give us pervs a break. We're not always thinking with the big head lol. And you really should take it as a compliment (if they're being gentlemanly about it that is). At least they contacted you and not a different provider. That has to say something about your popularity and that you're taking care of bizz properly.

[FBSMLUVR]

Originally Posted by john_deere

i don't think her issue is so much with immediate need as it is with stupidity.

Yea, you're probably right JD

IMO "right now" means at least an hours notice for the girl to get ready. And not only physically, but mentally these girls need to prepare. Especially if it's your first time seeing her and they have screening to do. If you're on a first name basis and have seen the lady a few times, then I can understand a quick "right now" request. But even then, you can't get upset if she's not available at a moments notice. If she's not, pull your big boy pants up, pony back up to the bar and order yourself another cold one lol.