First time hobbying

[InstantDance]

Hey guys, I've been planning this for a long time and I have finally made an appointment for tomorrow morning. I messaged a provider off backpage because eccie has no presence in the area. She has recent reviews on TER and USASexGuide but I'm still nervous about meeting with her. I'll link to TER if that's allowed, but I'm in a rush and I don't know forum rules.

She changes her number often, but I assume she's using a burner app like I am. Is that a red flag? Could le take a real add and use it for themselves?

And how does tipping work? She only charges 150 an hour which sounds cheap but its not gfe. If she earns extra do I just "drop" a 20?

Any other tips are greatly appreciated. This is going to be wild!

[RafaelH]

Plenty of threads to help out a new guy, you should do some research.

But since you're in a hurry, I'll take a stab at your questions:

Yes you can link to TER.

Multiple numbers in a short time span would concern me, you'd rather meet a lady with stability. I'm not aware of very many ladies using burner phones, though I suppose it's not unreasonable.

Yes LE can use a real ad for themselves. They can do anything they want, including a cop going through with the session then busting the woman.

150 for non-gfe is a bit high but I don't know your market. She won't do extra unless you ask, and then she'll tell you how much more that will cost so you better plan on bringing more cash. Her non gfe could be massage and a handy, in which case you're way overpaying. To get a gfe level you like could add another 100 or more, it depends on her added rates for each added service. Kissing, CBJ, BBBJ, CFS, etc are all going to be extra. You could easily be over 3 bills.

Google all of her numbers and photos (if any), and consider holding off on BP posts like hers until you have more experience in the hobby.

Good luck.

[InstantDance]

https://www.theeroticreview.com/revi....asp?id=288706

Her reviews say no kissing and everything covered. I'll definitely be reading some more before I go through with it, I just wanted to get an opinion on my specific scenario.

[Buying a *Way to Heaven]

Drop a 20? WTF? Maybe you should make your appointments for payday.

Just because a lady changes her phone # doesn't mean she isn't legit. However just because she has a different phone # doesn't mean she's the same lady. BP girls steal each other's pics constantly and 95% are fake to begin with.

Be very cautious with BP, they are infested with pork. I don't call a BP lady until I've seen her advertise with the same phone # and the same pics for a while. Look for any clues in her ad that "she" might be baiting you into doing or admitting something illegal, and for gods' sake if she says anything sex related on the phone, flee.

[InstantDance]

The conversation over text was short but there was nothing I thought was alarming. I asked for availability and rates. She asked for a picture and told me to text her when I was on the way. I'm going to call before going in.


If all goes well and I end up inside I was going to make sure she was naked for there was any discussion of illegal activity. At her rate I don't mind TOFTT, but she seems proven.

[Guest112917]

I will try to help you out a little bit. Several reviews talked about her deep voice with a southern accent. Did that sound like the gal on the phone? Seeing her canned website is better than no site at all. Is the 0090 phone number the one you contacted her with? If she passed these 2 tests, I would feel safe to see her. The first time is the worst for nerves, however, I still get a bit nervous seeing a new gal. Good luck and make sure you do a review afterwords.

[RafaelH]

>She asked for a picture

I would never send a picture.

[2dogs]

Go get it!

[Ed Highlight]

Originally Posted by InstantDance

.... I messaged a provider off backpage because eccie has no presence in the area. She has recent reviews on TER... but I'm in a rush and I don't know forum rules.

She changes her number often...Is that a red flag? ...She only charges 150 an hour which sounds cheap but its not gfe....

Any other tips are greatly appreciated. This is going to be wild!

Originally Posted by InstantDance

https://www.theeroticreview.com/revi....asp?id=288706

Her reviews say no kissing and everything covered.

Originally Posted by InstantDance

The conversation over text was short but there was nothing I thought was alarming. I asked for availability and rates. She asked for a picture and told me to text her when I was on the way. I'm going to call before going in.


If all goes well and I end up inside I was going to make sure she was naked for there was any discussion of illegal activity. At her rate I don't mind TOFTT, but she seems proven.

All the essential ingredients are in place!!!

[InstantDance]

Well Ed talked me out of it. I felt pretty sure but reading it back like that made me feel stupid.. I hope I can do this one day

[RafaelH]

>I hope I can do this one day
You will. Plan a vacation to Houston

[pyramider]

Run away from the hobby and do not look back.

[Buying a *Way to Heaven]

The "send me a picture" thing would put me off, too. It's not a normal thing to ask and I assume the lady didn't provide you with a picture in return (most won't). But there is always some uncertainty with a new lady and you can't rely 100% on trying to screen out the Bad Guys out at the border, you have to plan for all contingencies.

[Ed Highlight]

Originally Posted by InstantDance

Well Ed talked me out of it. I felt pretty sure but reading it back like that made me feel stupid.. I hope I can do this one day

Take your time - Find the right situation, the right lady. Pick some who enjoys/provides the things you like to do. You'll enjoy the hunt and make your experience memorable. Good luck!!

[joesmo888]

you should talk to some guys in your local area sub forum and see who is newb friendly. you should have a mod there too who can help you out