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Originally Posted by FlyboyNY
The last two relationships/arrangements could have been considered semi SB/SD I suppose. To me though a true SB/SD arrangement would be one where it would be exclusive. One SD taking care of one SB and she would be exclusive to him. I think those are probably not as common as the ones where the SB's have multiple SD's due to the SD not being willing to support her to the level she desires. The last two I had I think were somewhere in between Client/Provider and SB/SD. Neither were exclusive to me nor did I expect them to be although I was pretty much exclusive to them but we had standing weekly appointments. I felt we were friends outside the arrangement and it made me happy to be able to help them with real life issues and expenses. I am fortunate to have the resources to do that. I know a few others who feel like me and find satisfaction in being part of someones life and being appreciated for being there. A shrink would probably tell me I am just looking for love and approval that I didn't receive as a child. JK on that. I think. I'm conflicted.
Again that is just me and my satisfaction. Before I met the first girl that became my weekly regular three years ago I saw a large rotation of girls and was always interested in the new kid on the block. Now I desire someone who I can be closer to and share more than just a half hour of physical interaction with. Hard to find these days. But nothing wrong with F&L for those that don't need or desire the relationship.
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I mean if you are doing it more so to help people then get laid there are so many more useful things your money could go to to actually help. Local start up programs, a shelter something anything but this.
I just personally seen way to many women fuck up catch a break, fuck up again ask for a hand out. Catch a break then loose like their 5th job in a row due to being a fuck up. Their are exceptions but most people who can't afford to have a sustainable life with basic niceties did so intentionally. Now the escort going for college for 1 you are not going find that here. The escort legit going just for college is a one and done constantly doing so after is because its easy money. College payments are fucked up though. Then there are some girls who did because theres simply a lot of money in it.
The point is you are rarely and I mean very rarely going to find someone that needs help and is making a active effort to help themselves first. Fuck thats just dealing with people in general.