When a lady ask you for references..what to do

[Victoriajolie]

If a lady ask you for references is that most likely she will contact them so she can get green light or okay..
When she ask her contact info..
It is important to provide it...
Now..the contact info you should provide is the initial way you found this provider...
Not the cell phone she gave you after screening..
Please also remember it's important to include link to eccie or website or email as telling me she is known here..Well it sure will slow down the process as it need to be search when on your hand it's a girl you know..
Not all providers are familiar with every ladies on this site
While this message seem to address to newbies a lot of expérience hobbiests have done it
Thanks VJ

[Annie Calhoun]

Originally Posted by VictoriaJolie

Now..the contact info you should provide is the initial way you found this provider...
Not the cell phone she gave you after screening..

This is a REALLY good point, and I'm going to add it to my post on references. It's mainly geared towards newbies, but yeah, even experienced hobbyists might benefit from a reminder.

[MaxiMilyen]

Originally Posted by Annie Calhoun

This is a REALLY good point, and I'm going to add it to my post on references. It's mainly geared towards newbies, but yeah, even experienced hobbyists might benefit from a reminder.

I concur. If a lady doesn't hand out her cell phone info all over the place and gentlemen only get it after they are screened, please don't share it. Not even with another lady for screening purposes, as there are those who don't always have the other ladies best interest at heart, even if they appear to be somewhat reputable or trustworthy. Hard to believe ladies would cause problems for each other, but unfortunately, this is true.

[Flirtatousfemalefan]

Victoria, although it is not common practice to contact a provider via phone. I am thinking if a provider does not respond via email then if absolutely necessary then if one has permission from the referencing provider then do it. In some cases if they are closer to newbies the provider in question would be the only one who has a web presence that you would accept. I dare say that this tends to happen to those who are not members of a verification site. Although I would dare say that you would require more than just mere membership to a site, this certainly would be commonplace to those who would not belong to a board like eccie or ter. Thus their activity would more than likely be extremely limited and that provider would serve to be their key to the world of upscale hobbying.

[plainjoe]

Good point - private numbers should remain private.
Whenever I contact a lady via e-mail that is provided on her website or reviews, I send her a note from my P411 account so that she can screen and/or contact any of the ladies on my OK list.
It works for me so I do not need to send the lady any other lady's phone numbers.
On the few instance when a few references are required, I forward e-mail addresses.

[Fancylady]

Who cares how clients and escorts contact for references.Give references and move on..A lot escorts don't like to help with references because they don't want money going somewhere.Escort giving advice about references to promote business.

[James1588]

Originally Posted by Fancylady

Who cares how clients and escorts contact for references.Give references and move on..A lot escorts don't like to help with references because they don't want money going somewhere.Escort giving advice about references to promote business.

Allow me to translate, please.

"Escort give client cell number after she screen him, is private to her and client should not give cell number to anyone. Cell number for client use only. All client escort paid service all levels in illegal business."

Clearer now?

[Mina Harker]

Originally Posted by VictoriaJolie

If a lady ask you for references is that most likely she will contact them so she can get green light or okay..
When she ask her contact info..
It is important to provide it...
Now..the contact info you should provide is the initial way you found this provider...
Not the cell phone she gave you after screening..
Please also remember it's important to include link to eccie or website or email as telling me she is known here..Well it sure will slow down the process as it need to be search when on your hand it's a girl you know..
Not all providers are familiar with every ladies on this site
While this message seem to address to newbies a lot of expérience hobbiests have done it
Thanks VJ

+1

[destinydevine]

When I screen and ask for ref's I always email the provider here or send to her email,however a sometimes rhen provider does not respond until after the session. It would bears easier to justtext . I won't accept a reference from a Gentlemen if the provider is questionable. I think that there should be some sort of way to get oks through text . Maybe start a thread for reference friendly providers to not put their numbers but maybe let other girls know that if legit they may text if needed.

[MaxiMilyen]

Hobby safely and screen. I would never wish the burden of knowing another lady might be harmed because she reverted to not screening, due to my selfish and irresponsible refusal to respond to her requests, along with others who refuse, and which has convinced her that trying to screen is a waste of time.

Don't see any gent that would rush the process. There are a small minority of reputable ladies that are all that stand between your safety and someone's attempt to slip through and harm you. Accomodate these kind of gents, and you put all at risk. I've had gents tell me they saw reputable providers, in hopes that I am like others who would simply accept their word as this being so. LOL. I am neither gullible, nor accomodating when it comes to mine or your safety. I'll not put another at risk...ever. I also have a false review...why do you think that is? Ladies look and see the gent has seen a reputable lady, so they see him, thinking that I screened. Lots of games ladies....pay attention. Yes I reported it, no they didn't take it down. Don't trust gents, trust reputable ladies....period.


We do not have to publicly unify in order to unify at all. We don't have to like each other, but we do need to consider doing our part. It's up to each of us to decide who we are in this hobby and what it is we contribute to this community, or not.

[katee]

Originally Posted by VictoriaJolie

If a lady ask you for references is that most likely she will contact them so she can get green light or okay..
When she ask her contact info..
It is important to provide it...
Now..the contact info you should provide is the initial way you found this provider...
Not the cell phone she gave you after screening..
Please also remember it's important to include link to eccie or website or email as telling me she is known here..Well it sure will slow down the process as it need to be search when on your hand it's a girl you know..
Not all providers are familiar with every ladies on this site
While this message seem to address to newbies a lot of expérience hobbiests have done it
Thanks VJ

Great advice. If I can't get someone screened it is usually due to missing information or not the requested info. Thanks for posting this.

[Melissa Madyson]

Duly noted thanks for advice...
M.M.

[The Cock Connoisseur]

Originally Posted by James1588

Allow me to translate, please.

"Escort give client cell number after she screen him, is private to her and client should not give cell number to anyone. Cell number for client use only. All client escort paid service all levels in illegal business."

Clearer now?

Omg!!! (Giggling with hand over mouth as a I tiptoe out of the room)
I was already confused after reading the OP response but your translation....priceless.
Thanks for clearing that up



Btw...Thanks VJ