GUYS DO YOU LIKE YOUR COCK TO BE EDGED?

[stephania ricci]

Originally Posted by ICU 812

"Edging"? Never heard it called that but yeah, I do that I guess.

No longer a strapping young stud of 19 (or even 35!) , I'm pretty much a one-shot-woner nowadays.

When I was young man, it didn't matter. I'd just go and go no matter what. But now,when balls-deep and pumping as hard as my back will allow, I will slow it down or change positions to keep the thrill alive.

This is not the kind of orgasm deprivation found in some playful BDSM scenarios. Tthis is just trying to keep it hard and, umm—engaged —for the whole session.

a lot of my clients are in their fifties sixties and even seventies and what I find that works for a lot of them is they like to spend a lot of time pleasuring me to extend their own pleasure instead of cumming immediately. They also like to engage in things like cuddling, stroking, hugging and kissing which I really like because I'm very sensual and I do like a lot of foreplay. So by doing that you can keep your erection engaged for a very long time before you're ready to come. I love that feeling of horniness where you're not coming but you're just super horny like what I'm feeling right now.. I'm about ready to explode and I think I need to go play with myself lol

[bojulay]

Originally Posted by PsychedelicMut

This is for "H"edging.

She was French, but she never dropped her H's

[67cree]

I will let you dominate me and tell me when I can cum. Just take the cum in your mouth or face.

[DallasRain]

Originally Posted by 67cree

I will let you dominate me and tell me when I can cum. Just take the cum in your mouth or face.

hell yeahhh baby!!

[Fastcars1966]

Originally Posted by DallasRain

Alot of my guys love it....it is so hot to tease & edge...then bring out a really BIG ending!!

As long as it comes with a really big ending.

[pashunfroot]

Ive been waiting waiting patiently to see Terralyn in Dallas for her edging skills....I havent been able to make my schedule work and account for the long drive time. Many years ago there was a BBW provider called NewBubbles, she would edge you for hours, to the point were is was borderline painful, her goal..... make u shoot hard enough to hit the ceiling

[joesmo888]

I have found that either she has the talent to make me pop from a BJ or she doesn't. there isn't a trick to it, some are just gifted.

[stephania ricci]

Originally Posted by joesmo888

I have found that either she has the talent to make me pop from a BJ or she doesn't. there isn't a trick to it, some are just gifted.

I don't agree with you because not only have I have given head to over 1,000 men (lol no not from the escort business), but I have also done loads of research into mens orgasm and sexuality. So I know cock like the back of my hand. I have also seen all age groups - from 20's to 70's and it is not true that talent and/or being gifted alone can make a guy pop.

First off there are many factors that can get in the way of a man even being able to cum and/or get hard such as being on meds, (blood pressure, anti-depressants to name a few), fatigue, age, low testosterone levels, being overweight, jet lag, stress, not connecting with someone, etc

Secondly, age and lack of or low testosterone is a big issue when it comes to erections and the ability to cum. When men turn 30 the testosterone levels start their decline and each decade it gets worse. Most men find even their ability to blow large cum loads dwindles as well as they get older. Without sufficient testosterone in the body it is hard for a guy to get hard, stay hard and even cum. I know when guys go on T cream or injections they don't have these issues anymore

What you are saying is that all women should be able to get a man off if they are talented. Not to call attention to my skills and talents(but in this particular thread it is appropriate) but I can deepthroat and lick and swallow balls. Because I can breathe thru my mouth I can stay down a mans cock licking the balls for a long time (if you don't believe me see my TER reviews but keep in mind 3 of the reviews are fake and you will be able to easily figure it out)

I also use a technique called Jackhammer mouthfucking which is very intense and I was in porn so I know how to give a man head to get him off However even in spite of these skills and talents, even I cannot always get a man off. I am not Jesus and no woman is.

I had a guy the other day that was 65 and we did everything and in spite of that he still could not get off even once and yet we had a great connection. He told me it was hard for him to get off even when he masturbates

I am just responding to your message because I don't want women reading this and thinking just because they could not get a guy off that they suck at giving head because that may not be the case. I am also not responsible for making a man cum just like he is not responsible for making me cum. I can be the instigator of an orgasm but I cannot make a man cum. Just like a guy can be the best at cunnilingus but if I am tired or whatever, then I will not cum and it is not his fault

Some men (just like some women) cannot get out of their head and relax. If you go to see someone and you had to fight traffic or had a fight at work or have work related stress then it will not only constrict your arteries (which makes it harder to cum) but it will not allow you to relax and have an orgasm.

Anyway not trying to start an argument with all of this lol but I had to step in and say something because some women are gifted (and I am not referring to myself) but still cannot make a guy pop. If I don't make a guy cum I certainly do not get upset with myself or blame myself or think I suck at giving head because I know there are alot of other factors in the way

There was even a guy who wrote me a great review on TER awhile back where he said that I gave him an amazing bj and yet he could not cum bc he was on medication and he said in the review that it was NOT my fault.

So I just wanted to point this out so that other providers don't think they suck at giving head if they did not make a guy cum

[Sinclar]

I had a session with Ms. Addison Scott a little while ago where she orally edged me for an hour or so. I've never cum so hard in my life. And then she didn't stop, continued right on through that hyper sensitive period but I never got soft. Amazing amazing experience.

[dilbert firestorm]

edging? is that what teasing the head is called?

[dRE0D]

Yeah, edging is fine. Build up almost to the point of no return and stop, rinse repeat, and yeah, personally, there is more volume when it's completed.

Also really like post orgasm dick torture. i.e. meaning you don't stop.

[Alyssa XOXO]

Originally Posted by stephania ricci

In case you are not familiar with edging - it is when a guy or lady brings themself close to orgasming and then holds off and keeps doing this until they finally erupt big time.

Guys do you like to edge yourself when you masturbate or like it when a lady does it to you?

Do you find it gives you a more intense orgasm?

Do any of you ladies edge yourself? I have done it and the orgasm does tend to be more intense but now since I take oxytocin (I have a blog post about it in the blog section on my website www.stephaniaricci.com in case you want to know more about it or the scream cream) my orgasms are super intense and I don't need to edge myself anymore.

Great thread hon!

[Guest072918]

Originally Posted by stephania ricci

I don't agree with you because not only have I have given head to over 1,000 men (lol no not from the escort business), but I have also done loads of research into mens orgasm and sexuality. So I know cock like the back of my hand. I have also seen all age groups - from 20's to 70's and it is not true that talent and/or being gifted alone can make a guy pop.

First off there are many factors that can get in the way of a man even being able to cum and/or get hard such as being on meds, (blood pressure, anti-depressants to name a few), fatigue, age, low testosterone levels, being overweight, jet lag, stress, not connecting with someone, etc

Secondly, age and lack of or low testosterone is a big issue when it comes to erections and the ability to cum. When men turn 30 the testosterone levels start their decline and each decade it gets worse. Most men find even their ability to blow large cum loads dwindles as well as they get older. Without sufficient testosterone in the body it is hard for a guy to get hard, stay hard and even cum. I know when guys go on T cream or injections they don't have these issues anymore

What you are saying is that all women should be able to get a man off if they are talented. Not to call attention to my skills and talents(but in this particular thread it is appropriate) but I can deepthroat and lick and swallow balls. Because I can breathe thru my mouth I can stay down a mans cock licking the balls for a long time (if you don't believe me see my TER reviews but keep in mind 3 of the reviews are fake and you will be able to easily figure it out)

I also use a technique called Jackhammer mouthfucking which is very intense and I was in porn so I know how to give a man head to get him off However even in spite of these skills and talents, even I cannot always get a man off. I am not Jesus and no woman is.

I had a guy the other day that was 65 and we did everything and in spite of that he still could not get off even once and yet we had a great connection. He told me it was hard for him to get off even when he masturbates

I am just responding to your message because I don't want women reading this and thinking just because they could not get a guy off that they suck at giving head because that may not be the case. I am also not responsible for making a man cum just like he is not responsible for making me cum. I can be the instigator of an orgasm but I cannot make a man cum. Just like a guy can be the best at cunnilingus but if I am tired or whatever, then I will not cum and it is not his fault

Some men (just like some women) cannot get out of their head and relax. If you go to see someone and you had to fight traffic or had a fight at work or have work related stress then it will not only constrict your arteries (which makes it harder to cum) but it will not allow you to relax and have an orgasm.

Anyway not trying to start an argument with all of this lol but I had to step in and say something because some women are gifted (and I am not referring to myself) but still cannot make a guy pop. If I don't make a guy cum I certainly do not get upset with myself or blame myself or think I suck at giving head because I know there are alot of other factors in the way

There was even a guy who wrote me a great review on TER awhile back where he said that I gave him an amazing bj and yet he could not cum bc he was on medication and he said in the review that it was NOT my fault.

So I just wanted to point this out so that other providers don't think they suck at giving head if they did not make a guy cum

Excellent thread and especially this post, Stephania. Like you evidently, some ladies do know their way around a man's penis and are very talented. I've had ladies that have gotten two pops in an hour with amazing talent. And others can make love to my cock for 45 minutes and get me to pop at will. Yes, other factors can enter in, especially low T and meds.

One of the meds I take for BPH greatly interfered with my ability to orgasm and even made my cum clear and much smaller amount. Did some research and found some supplements that restored my ejaculate to a nice milky white, healthy amount, and can usually get a second pop. May take some patience and work, but usually can get a second pop. Ladies have even commented that I taste pretty good also, without drinking fruit juices.

[Fancylady]

Originally Posted by DallasRain

Alot of my guys love it....it is so hot to tease & edge...then bring out a really BIG ending!!

Good point paid session

[stephania ricci]

Originally Posted by Woodford

Excellent thread and especially this post, Stephania. Like you evidently, some ladies do know their way around a man's penis and are very talented. I've had ladies that have gotten two pops in an hour with amazing talent. And others can make love to my cock for 45 minutes and get me to pop at will. Yes, other factors can enter in, especially low T and meds.

One of the meds I take for BPH greatly interfered with my ability to orgasm and even made my cum clear and much smaller amount. Did some research and found some supplements that restored my ejaculate to a nice milky white, healthy amount, and can usually get a second pop. May take some patience and work, but usually can get a second pop. Ladies have even commented that I taste pretty good also, without drinking fruit juices.

Well thank you. I had to write that comment because that guy made it sound like if the woman is talented she should be able to get a guy off (well or at least him) and there are so many factors affecting mens orgasms that women do not always have control over. Same with men getting a woman off. So I just did not want women to get the idea that if they can't make a guy cum that they suck at giving head because that is not true. I mean we are not Jesus lol.