What's going on with ncns

[nerdy123]

I have been meaning to schedule with her, and I promise to show!

[Guest100116]

Probably should get out of taco town and come to Houston. At least Houston doesn't have the reputation of ncns.

[nerdy123]

Update! I texted her- she texted back asking for my actual name (Not happening), and other info, and asked if I was a member of a few sites, this included. I said I was, she asked my handle... then the deafening sound of crickets.

[CaligirlJenna]

What time were u texting her? U posted at 10, she usually quits working or (falls asleep sitting up with phone in hand true story lol)bout 730-8 and sleeps while housekeepers are attending the rooms. I'd bet money She'll hit u when she wakes up, FYI if someone won't tell her their first name I know for a fact she won't c them she says " if I can't know who they are I have no business being alone with them".

[CaligirlJenna]

Just wanted to say oneblkman did the gentlemanly thing and not only apologized to both of us he has rescheduled with Vanessa. Thank u hun

[nerdy123]

Originally Posted by sweet.jenna.blue.eyes

What time were u texting her? U posted at 10, she usually quits working or (falls asleep sitting up with phone in hand true story lol)bout 730-8 and sleeps while housekeepers are attending the rooms. I'd bet money She'll hit u when she wakes up, FYI if someone won't tell her their first name I know for a fact she won't c them she says " if I can't know who they are I have no business being alone with them".

Began texting around 7am, she did get back to me at around 5pm, I have no prob giving her a first name- her website asks for full, not happening

[Jislander]

Originally Posted by nerdy123

Began texting around 7am, she did get back to me at around 5pm, I have no prob giving her a first name- her website asks for full, not happening

Ran into this problem before. When asked for first name: Jay. If they really want to know my last name: islander.

Best one I ever heard was one provider refuse to see me if I did not talk to her over the phone. Didn't k ow how to use Burner app at the time, so unable to complete request. Found out after the fact saved myself a few bills. Oh well, hooker logic!

[CaligirlJenna]

So I was just informed by Vanessa that oneblkman. Not only reschedule with her for 9 o'clock Monday morning he said that he would confirm at 8:15 called her at 8:50 and she said she assumed she had got her days confused and said oh I thought it was gonna be tomorrow he said well why not scheduled for 230 3 this afternoon (he asked for location which she gave him. )and said that would work better for me she said OK confirm you know 45 minutes before and he never called so at 3 o'clock she called him or send him a text no response she sent him another text about 8 o'clock at night and asked him what was the reasoning for once again no call no show he blamed it on her and said that she threw him for a loop and first that she was wrong because she thought it was the wrong day but if somebody doesn't call you at the time that they said they were going to call I would assume that I had the wrong day especially considering what had already previously occurred then he stated that he had a mortgage events come up and that he couldn't text her back because it would've been rude to pull out his phone and respond yet at 3:30 yesterday afternoon he was commenting on a review saying that he had just had an appointment with some other girl so obviously he's a liar and was trying to save face by apologizing and said another appointment what I don't get is first off you're new to Eckie so you're not gonna have very many references second off your black man which is going to make it hard to see a lot of Girls in this community because a lot of them are in NBA
And third off when somebody gives you another chance on you have to do is say I'm sorry I don't want to come he could pay her four times her donation and she would not see him now he's a disgrace and he's putting a bad name on himself it's quite pitiful

[Anonymous01]

Originally Posted by CaligirlJenna

So I was just informed by Vanessa that oneblkman. Not only reschedule with her for 9 o'clock Monday morning he said that he would confirm at 8:15 called her at 8:50 and she said she assumed she had got her days confused and said oh I thought it was gonna be tomorrow he said well why not scheduled for 230 3 this afternoon (he asked for location which she gave him. )and said that would work better for me she said OK confirm you know 45 minutes before and he never called so at 3 o'clock she called him or send him a text no response she sent him another text about 8 o'clock at night and asked him what was the reasoning for once again no call no show he blamed it on her and said that she threw him for a loop and first that she was wrong because she thought it was the wrong day but if somebody doesn't call you at the time that they said they were going to call I would assume that I had the wrong day especially considering what had already previously occurred then he stated that he had a mortgage events come up and that he couldn't text her back because it would've been rude to pull out his phone and respond yet at 3:30 yesterday afternoon he was commenting on a review saying that he had just had an appointment with some other girl so obviously he's a liar and was trying to save face by apologizing and said another appointment what I don't get is first off you're new to Eckie so you're not gonna have very many references second off your black man which is going to make it hard to see a lot of Girls in this community because a lot of them are in NBA
And third off when somebody gives you another chance on you have to do is say I'm sorry I don't want to come he could pay her four times her donation and she would not see him now he's a disgrace and he's putting a bad name on himself it's quite pitiful

Paragraphs and punctuation are your friends! I realize that most providers post from their smartphones, but taking a moment, a deep breath, maybe letting the situation sit a day or two (I know of what I speak), gives perspective and helps others understand that perspective.

And speaking of perspective, I've been NC/NS'd FIVE TIMES in a row by two of the most highly rated providers on this site. I've given up trying to find a reliable provider on here. Back to P411 and TER!

Just sayin'.

[CaligirlJenna]

Point taken anonymous smart asss��I actually use voice typing, because my nails make it hard for me to hit the screen on my phone. It may all run together ,But it is able to be understood and followed at least. honestly I was done with subject, it happens all the time. Except I almost feel disrespected. why waste not only Vanessa's time but my time I do her screening on here . he went out of his way to apologize via text and p.m. to pull the bullshit again. Not very high on the etiqutte nor integrity scale if u ask me . Ok rant is done.

[big35hurt]

Originally Posted by Anonymous01

And speaking of perspective, I've been NC/NS'd FIVE TIMES in a row by two of the most highly rated providers on this site. I've given up trying to find a reliable provider on here. Back to P411 and TER!

Just sayin'.

Seems NCNS has been running rampant lately on both sides. I think everyone just has to make a more concerned effort to make sure line of communication is open up until the time of the meet. Nobody wants their time wasted.

As a seasoned member I am surprised you gave them 5 shot to NCNS you. That is 4 too many if they are top ladies. They know better. Infact. I would be interested who they are. This is an exchange information site. Might help the next guy make a decision. And may help the ladies take responsibility for their actions. Constructive criticism is always good.

Feel free to share names.

[Jislander]

Cali- just a tip because I also use voice typing. I speak sentence, pause and say "period". Helps everything make sense, does take practice.

As far as NCNS who is vouching these guys. I always thought if your not 15mins early, your late! For me, I didn't know seductive Selina liked to NCNS till after the fact, no posts I remember reading. As far as College Girl For You, apparently after her accident that has become her MO, but I hoped things would be diff for me, so that's my fault. Selina at least texted me an hour later saying saying "I had something else to do", CGFU has been crickets.

[Camille Fox]

Here is what gents need to understand when it comes to NCNS and the importance of taking a pattern seriously: a pattern of NCNS is no longer the problem, but the symptom to the problem, that red flag that is telling you something is up.

When a woman is consistently missing out on appts where she is going to be making somewhere between 150-300+/hour, something bigger is going on behind the scenes and it may be something you do not want to be mixed up with.

From our perspective, when you have a client who has a history of NCNS, there is a person who thinks his time is more valuable than others. He will do it again and, if as a provider you do not have anything better to do but to risk wasting your time and reinforce his behavior that his time is more important than others, by all means, knock yourself out and book him.

[Anonymous01]

Camille, I could not have said it any better! I've come to the conclusion that there are many providers AND hobbyists on here that have "issues" (I hope I said it PC enough so I won't get banned like the last time I berated a Mod's flavor of the week).

So the ladies NCNS the stand-up guys that are on here, and we go to higher probablility sources for providers, and the good ECCIE providers loose out.

The guys NCNS the good providers that are on here, and the total situation is just FUBAR.

Don't know what the answer is, but I've got 14 O.K.'s on P411 and I'm on TER's Provider Whitelist. I've been walking around with $1K in my pocket for 2 weeks and can't get hooked up. Time to move to other pastures!

I wish all of the good providers and hobbyists on here the best - my time on this planet is short and I have to make the most of it, so screw the timewasters!

Anon out.

Originally Posted by Camille Fox

Here is what gents need to understand when it comes to NCNS and the importance of taking a pattern seriously: a pattern of NCNS is no longer the problem, but the symptom to the problem, that red flag that is telling you something is up.

When a woman is consistently missing out on appts where she is going to be making somewhere between 150-300+/hour, something bigger is going on behind the scenes and it may be something you do not want to be mixed up with.

[submarineracer]

Maybe Vanessa should get her own voice, if either of you are to be taken seriously?