Whore, Prostitute, Hooker, Courtesan.... Why contribute to their denial?

[Whispers]

When a woman takes money in exchange for sex she is a whore.

She will always be a whore from that moment on in life.

Most men would never knowingly enter into a long term relationship with a whore, marry a whore of father children with one.

Gentlemen..... Why do YOU support their denial?

Yes... I am firmly in grasp of the knowledge that I have been and will be a trick/John....

For the whores in the mix that embrace their choice, how did you come to terms with it?

[Peter Devlin]

Careful with labels.

All are variations on "people". I'll go as far as distinguishing males and females, but even there the real difference is a matter of plumbing. I'll take 'em one at a time, and endeavor not to fear and hate.

Assigning labels is a slippery slope. Caution. What you diminish "out there" is diminished in you. Your world, your experience, even your health.

[Whispers]

I do not fear whores or or my interaction with them. Societies expectations of and forgiveness for the actions of a man are much different than for the actions of a woman.

I know many whores that came to terms with and embrace the word as an accurate description of what they are as well.

What is it about the label that bothers you?

[Laurence1201]

We're subject to America's generally Puritan culture. In other cultures "whores" are given much more respect. Think about it. Years ago before medical advances, women who slept with lots of men were spreaders of disease. So many religions demonized the industry. Same goes for pork. Too many people were dying from it, so it was prohibited by many of the major religions. Trouble is, these age old practices never get revisited in the context of modern life.

[Y_eye_AwE_Ta]

Originally Posted by Whispers

I do not fear whores or or my interaction with them. Societies expectations of and forgiveness for the actions of a man are much different than for the actions of a woman.

I know many whores that came to terms with and embrace the word as an accurate description of what they are as well.

What is it about the label that bothers you?

Why do you say "what they are" as opposed to "what they do"?
Is it just a generic label of a woman's persona to have men pay her for sex? I'm just saying they don't charge everybody.

[Guest013121]

Why are you so concerned with what we refer to ourselves as? If it doesn't fucking bother you, then mind your own biz and worry about what to label yourself. I dare a guy to call me a whore to my face. I'll teach him a lesson he won't soon forget.

There are ways to talk to a lady despite what is exchanged. I certainly don't disrespect my clients or potential clients. Guess whores have better fucking manners. Whooda thought?!!

[Whispers]

Originally Posted by Y_eye_AwE_Ta

Why do you say "what they are" as opposed to "what they do"?
Is it just a generic label of a woman's persona to have men pay her for sex? I'm just saying they don't charge everybody.

The term can be applied in both manners. Because the engage in prostitution the women that advertise and are reviewed her are "whores" by definition. Instead of referring to what they do as prostitution it could be said that they are whoring I guess.....



I don't understand the context of your statement regarding who they charge or don't charge. Is a Dr that is not treating a patient and instead having dinner still a Dr? Yes. So a whore remains a whore.....

[Unique_Carpenter]

Gemma nails it.
Accurately blunt is usually better than clever.

[Whispers]

Originally Posted by Gemma34

Why are you so concerned with what we refer to ourselves as?

I did not display concern for what you want to call yourself. I did ask those that embrace the word if they could explain how they came to terms with it. Your choice of profession defines you. Not me.

If it doesn't fucking bother you, then mind your own biz and worry about what to label yourself. I dare a guy to call me a whore to my face. I'll teach him a lesson he won't soon forget.

So you are in denial. Ok. I've had a lady in my face once many years ago in Houston make a similar statement. I did not disappoint her in person. If the term upsets you so much that you might feel the need to react disproportionately you might want to seek a different profession. Even your most loving suitors probably refer to you as a whore when talking to buddies.

There are ways to talk to a lady despite what is exchanged. I certainly don't disrespect my clients or potential clients. Guess whores have better fucking manners. Whooda thought?!!

I wouldn't agree with that. You've allowed a word to illicit vulgarity and an emotional response from you. Hardly a display of manners. The word is widely used across the site as both a noun and a verb.

[Guest013121]

Originally Posted by Whispers

I wouldn't agree with that. You've allowed a word to illicit vulgarity and an emotional response from you. Hardly a display of manners. The word is widely used across the site as both a noun and a verb.

Perhaps, I misplaced my manners. Or perhaps I didn't. I wouldn't want to appeal to the wrong crowd.

[dumars]

Originally Posted by Whispers

I wouldn't agree with that. You've allowed a word to illicit vulgarity and an emotional response from you. Hardly a display of manners. The word is widely used across the site as both a noun and a verb.

You're not being emotional? Manners works both ways in the real world! It's generally polite to disregard our perceptions of others in favor of respect for those others. Let them unearn that respect by their own actions towards us before we revert to some childish perception.

However, you being a self righteous Drumph supporter, republican, tea bagger and troll none of that matters. Yes, I'm assuming, based on my own perceptions of your personality, and I'd bet I am right! 'Course, no question, no contest on being the troll. And I ain't fucking up!

I approve this message!




Miguel de Cervantes

P.S. Why exactly is your agreement to anything important to anybody in this forum? Narcissism is a treatable condition. Although a lifetime of commitment for a Drumph supporter, republican and tea bagger.

[lovelydonn]

Hanging out with their buddies , men become CRUDE PIGS!!!!! There are surely crude ways to describe your "tools" too!!
Using this type of language in the presence and towards our Ladies is highly disrespectful and socially unacceptable!!!! You in a open social KC forum now as a guest may I remind you!!!!
We don't referrer to our Ladies like that here in KC!!!!! It might be OK in Texas but that is not the way we talk about our Ladies here.!!!! You can always go to the Men's Lounge and look for buddies to share your crude talk in private!!!!!

[Whispers]

Originally Posted by lovelydonn

Hanging out with their buddies , men become CRUDE PIGS!!!!! There are surely crude ways to describe your "tools" too!!
Using this type of language in the presence and towards our Ladies is highly disrespectful and socially unacceptable!!!! You in a open social KC forum now as a guest may I remind you!!!!
We don't referrer to our Ladies like that here in KC!!!!! It might be OK in Texas but that is not the way we talk about our Ladies here.!!!! You can always go to the Men's Lounge and look for buddies to share your crude talk in private!!!!!

I appreciate your input and considering that in 6 yeas this is only your 12th post feel honored to have enticed you to participate!

You certainly are an example of the kind of guy that supports them in their denial of what they are.

Outside of those here that share your viewpoint and the women in denial can you say that

1) Were you to describe to any of your family members that a man on a website referred to the prostitutes you know as "whores" and it offended you would any of them share your opinion?

2) Were you to describe to any of the people you work with that a man on a website referred to the prostitutes you know as "whores" and it offended you would any of them share your opinion?

3) Are you a church going man? Were you to describe to any of fellow parishioners that a man on a website referred to the prostitutes you know as "whores" and it offended you would any of them share your opinion?

The reality is that here in the US, outside of those in denial within these communities they are all just whores.

[JRLawrence]

Originally Posted by Whispers

The term can be applied in both manners. Because the engage in prostitution the women that advertise and are reviewed her are "whores" by definition. Instead of referring to what they do as prostitution it could be said that they are whoring I guess.....



I don't understand the context of your statement regarding who they charge or don't charge. Is a Dr that is not treating a patient and instead having dinner still a Dr? Yes. So a whore remains a whore.....

What we have here is failure to communicate!

Everyone knows that words may have an impact beyond their specific meaning. Some also have an emotional meaning.

For example, take the term red rose:

Donotion: it is a red flower with a green stem
Connotation: it is a symbol of passion and love.

For example, take the term "niger" or "nigger"

Donotation: The term means black; until about the 1950's that was what it meant, there was nothing derogatory about it. Nigger is a noun in English meaning black, a variation of the Spanish noun negro: from the Latin adjective niger - for the color black. For example, in Acts 13.1 (In the Bible for those who don't know.) The prophet or teacher Simon is called Niger - which meant black at the time, with no disrespect.

Conotation: We are told today that the political correct way to address African Americans is to use something besides "nigger" because the word is an insult. Certain people want to remove the word from the works of "Mark Twain", which is ridiculous because it was a perfectly acceptable term at the time the books were written. Changing older books is a form of propaganda.

Today, it would be unwise to use this older term to address anyone. The meaning of the word has changed because the connotative, or implied, meaning has changed.

Your use of the term "whore".

Everyone here understands that your intent is to be disrespectful and insulting to the ladies - because you enjoy being insulting and disrespectful. When you are corrected, you just continue your constant torrent torment of innuendo, gossip, lies, and half-truths.

Watch it my friend, before some one rewards you with an innuendo.

JR

[Mina Harker]

Originally Posted by Peter Devlin

Careful with labels.

All are variations on "people". I'll go as far as distinguishing males and females, but even there the real difference is a matter of plumbing. I'll take 'em one at a time, and endeavor not to fear and hate.

Assigning labels is a slippery slope. Caution. What you diminish "out there" is diminished in you. Your world, your experience, even your health.

I think I'm in love with Peter.