Minor rant

[n0way0ut]

I think if one posts in the "weekend lineup," for example, or posts some other ad, it'd be great if you actually monitored your PMs and responded to them. I get it if you're booked, but a quick reply saying just that, as opposed to just ignoring the message, might be the difference between trying next time you're in town and "not worth the trouble." Communication. That is all.

[smithlane]

Originally Posted by n0way0ut

I think if one posts in the "weekend lineup," for example, or posts some other ad, it'd be great if you actually monitored your PMs and responded to them. I get it if you're booked, but a quick reply saying just that, as opposed to just ignoring the message, might be the difference between trying next time you're in town and "not worth the trouble." Communication. That is all.

Awwww......Communication skills apparently aren't on the final exams at provider college....Lol

Just kidding and I feel your pain.

[mrredcat43]

It usually means they're VERY high volume

[deacon15pd]

I agree... I have pm's out there from the last time one was in town and now I see she is back in town with no answer!!

[n0way0ut]

Yep You send a PM that says "Hey, I see you're in town, message me when you have time please," you should expect a reply. I typically do that, and have even sent texts saying "hey, sent you a message on ECCIE, holler when you get it" or whatever. I wish I could say MOST providers on here communicate well - but it's probably 50/50. Props to the ladies who DO actually respond and dont' leave us hanging.

[Guest123018]

Originally Posted by n0way0ut

it'd be great if you actually monitored your PMs and responded to them.

She might be monitoring them and replying to them in a timely manner. However if someone is on your IGNORE list then they never receive the PM from the individual.

Just a thought ....

[HobbyPilot]

Originally Posted by n0way0ut

Yep You send a PM that says "Hey, I see you're in town, message me when you have time please," you should expect a reply. I typically do that, and have even sent texts saying "hey, sent you a message on ECCIE, holler when you get it" or whatever. I wish I could say MOST providers on here communicate well - but it's probably 50/50. Props to the ladies who DO actually respond and dont' leave us hanging.

You might have better luck being more specific than "message me when you have time". I usually like to include at least the day, if not the exact time and services I'm interested in along with desired length of visit. She then knows where, when and what I'm after. I assume if I don't hear back, one of those things didn't align with her schedule/services and move on to the next selected candidate.

I find good TCB to be much more important than body type or looks. I'd rather see a plain looking provider, 20 pounds heavier than her showcase portrays with great TCB skills when I'm ready, than chasing that perfect 10 for weeks on end with poor TCB skills.

[n0way0ut]

Good point, the pair that I experienced this with were only in town for a couple days, so figured they knew I was referring to days they were in town. Maybe not.
On the " ignore" list, I did not know that was a thing, so I don't have anyone on mine – I don't know these providers, so hope I'm not on theirs!

[jwood]

Who was it!?

[mrredcat43]

Use p411, I have found that TCB is much better by ten fold

[Guest123018]

Originally Posted by n0way0ut

the " ignore" list, I did not know that was a thing,

Yes it's such a thing.

Originally Posted by n0way0ut

so hope I'm not on theirs!

Im not saying this is your situation but you never know

[n0way0ut]

Originally Posted by jwood

Who was it!?

Don't want to put her name out, I'll pm you.

How bizarre is that... I sent you the PM, and she replied to my last message (from 3/9) 15 minutes later... I am not sure what to think about that.