Determining the quality of a reference

[Gorgeous_Boriqua]

Originally Posted by Sonya Playmate

^^Do y'all know when to stop?

Sweeeeeet Sonya Playmate

Baby wait…

I didn't mean for my post to be taken as weighing in on any argument that was going on.

***I did mean to encourage men to realize - accept - and embrace their own whoredom*** lol that… is … all.

I'm all about the love and good vibes
And I love you Baby xoxox Love me still?
Again please - no one - think that my initial "submission" joke had anything to do with a conflict between two other people. Usually, I try to defuse stuff like that with humor, when I find something irritating enough to add my two pennies to a subject … I Let's It Be Known Krystal Clearly.

Kiss xoxo

[Sonya Playmate]

No worries GB...

Getting back on topic of the thread is a lot better..

Don't you think? xoxo

[Gorgeous_Boriqua]

Originally Posted by Sonya Playmate

No worries GB...

Getting back on topic of the thread is a lot better..

Don't you think? xoxo

Submission-ing me girl?



Yes.. otay - Yes My Lady - Yes! Yes! - Anything you wish xoxo Kiss kiss

[Mokoa]

Let's keep the discussion focused on the thread's topic.

Quality Of a Reference

[funguy130]

Originally Posted by Gorgeous_Boriqua

Submission-ing me girl?



Yes.. otay - Yes My Lady - Yes! Yes! - Anything you wish xoxo Kiss kiss

[jennamc]

Not to disrupt the fun, but as far as giving/getting a reference...

When I am asked for a reference, I typically tell the provider a basic physical description of the hobbyist, his approximate age, and if there were any peculiarities. For instance -- Guy A is very generous and likes to give gifts, Guy B is a big fan of face fucking, Guy C was extremely talkative during the act, Guy D made me feel uncomfortable because of xyz reason.

When I ask another provider for a reference, I generally want to know: is he safe to see? Did you actually see him, and would you recommend I take the time from my schedule to see him?

But I have to admit, I am not a very good girl because often times I don't check my references. Oops.

[Perfect Playmate]

Some ladies that have been on this site for years I will not even accept references from. It is all about a ladies reputation. If they respond to reference checks them self. A lot determines a good reference in my book. That is why I ask for 2-3... I will not give a reference if I can not verify a lady. Who knows who it could be!