Cathrine - Vi - Valerie... I got outted :( now what do I do?

[Guest021217]

My conclusion of the OP

[Duthgar1976]

I think this guy needs a slap in the face with a metal chair swung by the Hulk.

[dentonman27]

I just wish she'd post a link to the porn video she claimed to be in...

[mustang2020]

Originally Posted by dentonman27

I just wish she'd post a link to the porn video she claimed to be in...

Seconded.

[dmcleod]

She's opened a channel on pornhub with hidden camera videos of several of her escort clients. It's not hard to find.

[Guest070818-1]

Originally Posted by dmcleod

She's opened a channel on pornhub with hidden camera videos of several of her escort clients. It's not hard to find.

Dayum!

So the covers got pulled off somebody's ass . . . Twice!

[corona]

11 videos so far...

[sweet.treat69]

Originally Posted by corona

11 videos so far...

So I was up late browsing ECCIE and stumbled across this hot mess of a thread.. Let me start off by saying a few positive things in spite of the OP's situation.. Nobody deserves to be outed. I'm sure if/when someone has the misfortune of those circumstances, they would certainly not want their family to know and in the process, shame them. Sorry that happened to you.

Maybe starting over somewhere new is best for you. Even just in another city 50-100 miles away. After taking some time off and hanging up your shoes as !VI! you can do it. You have to let things die down and let folks forget about this for a while.

DEFINITELY take down your face pics, stop posting on BP until you get an official name change and new pics, and go UTR on here.. Creating threads that are still easily linked back to you aren't the best idea either, I would say. If you can afford it or know a decent therapist, seek counseling for some of your issues before you make any more rash decisions.. Maybe even a life coach. Things can't get any worse.. Only better... If you work at it. It seems to me the OP just said "fuck it" and went balls out without any kind of discretion or common sense.

However... Couple of things wrong with this whole scenario that could've been avoided-

- DON'T SHOW YOUR FACE!! If you show your face even once on the internet, it's there forever. Sometimes you have to go years and years back, but.. it's out there. Same goes for videos. Once they're on the 'net, you will never get those back.. And if you involve others in your photos/videos.. You're pretty much fucking them over for life too.

- WHY ON EARTH OUT YOURSELF??!! NEVER. EVER. Use any kind of real name/real life association tied with this hobby. Even e-mails or screen names that have your initials, college mascot, favorite car, GOD FORBID YOUR REAL NAME, etc, might ONE DAY, some how, possibly, be tied to you and your past... Leaving a dirty trail of bread crumbs.

I think, IMO, the OP was irrational and emotional posting this thread.. Probably out of shock, disbelief, despair.. Who couild even imagine what she was feeling.. BUT it could've been handled better.. Privately,.. Between her and her family/friends..

Posting videos to porn sites where your real life info can easily be searched, along with your handle and the name of this site, is such a huge mistake. I think most girls don't even realize how much of an impact it could make on their lives and families. I saw some videos where even clients are involved in the videos, WITH their faces on camera. That shit will haunt you. Possibly even destroy families and careers.

This hobby can be fun and enjoyable for the time being but once you're ready to get out and have a normal life.. What will you do when your past and pornos come to bite you in the ass?? I would hate to be that person.

Good luck OP. Hope you will eventually take some advice from this thread to turn things around or make a new comeback or turn over a new leaf and start a new chapter in your life. Somehow I doubt it. But wish you the best.

[TailChaser5000]

I wonder how many more videos she has. How many other ladies do this as well?

[broes]

She told everyone on no uncertain terms that she filmed sessions in case anyone got rough. Anyone on any of those vids deserves it as punishment for being a moron. She warned you and you ignored it. Chickens coming home to roost.

[TinMan]

She hasn't been on this site since the 29th. The account on the site hosting the videos was opened after that, and all the vids were uploaded in the last few days. Is it her? Is it the guy who caused her to post this thread?

No telling, but by not following advice given in this thread she made it very easy for even the casual observer here (or a suspicious SO) to connect the dots and discover the identities of at least some of her clients.

What's the punishment for that?

[Guest092216]

There's someone hiding and recording some of those videos. They keep moving and adjusting themselves.

She has said she was recording sessions before and no one cared because she's young and loves creampies. It never ceases to amaze me what girls can get away with when men think with their dicks and not their brains.

The secret recording and posting online is outting. Blatant and reckless outting. Not only has she done it. She announced to the community she was doing it. And they still let her back. Which mods/admin made that call? Because y'all shouldn't have let her back after she already said she was doing that shit to people.

[WolfWhistle]

Originally Posted by THN

She has said she was recording sessions before...... Because y'all shouldn't have let her back after she already said she was doing that shit to people.

Not all eccie reviewers and lurkers thoroughly read showcases and posts so I am certain that there are plenty of clients (especially from backpage) that walked into the situation not knowing what was up with the recordings. Big Brother wasn't much of a Big Brother after all.

[TinMan]

Originally Posted by THN

There's someone hiding and recording some of those videos. They keep moving and adjusting themselves.

She has said she was recording sessions before and no one cared because she's young and loves creampies. It never ceases to amaze me what girls can get away with when men think with their dicks and not their brains.

The secret recording and posting online is outting. Blatant and reckless outting. Not only has she done it. She announced to the community she was doing it. And they still let her back. Which mods/admin made that call? Because y'all shouldn't have let her back after she already said she was doing that shit to people.

Trust me, many of us cared. That's why we're sleeping fine at night, not having to ask ourselves, "what was I thinking ?!?"

[Guest092216]

Originally Posted by Wolfwhistle

Not all eccie reviewers and lurkers thoroughly read showcases and posts so I am certain that there are plenty of clients (especially from backpage) that walked into the situation not knowing what was up with the recordings. Big Brother wasn't much of a Big Brother after all.

You're absolutely right that she had other ways of getting clients. Backpage, Craigslist, whatever. Eccie and p411 have been considered "safer" because of higher standards of accountability and info exchange.

Gina booted her off p411 because she's a danger to the community. Eccie bans people who are a danger to the community as well. Yet for some strange reason, this girl announced that she was video taping her clients secretly and was still allowed to advertise and post here. If this site is so concerned with the anonymity of its members (as in, a 1yr ban for posting a phone number incorrectly) I just can't understand why someone who admitted to video taping her clients without their consent is acceptable to the powers that be.

But wtf do I know and wtf do I care. I'm just here to fuck for money and laugh at idiots.

Originally Posted by TinMan

Trust me, many of us cared. That's why we're sleeping fine at night, not having to ask ourselves, "what was I thinking ?!?"

Because you're not an idiot.