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Originally Posted by lance58
I'm sorry HL, but a provider who uses eccie as a dating site is just a gold digger. She's looking for a man with money she can spend. If she was looking for a monogamous relationship, she certainly wouldn't date a hobbyist since she knows that he is going to cheat on her.
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Why be such a cynic?
- Perhaps she's looking for someone who is not judgmental.
- Perhaps sexual monogamy is not a desired trait, for either her or him.
- Perhaps what she really wants is someone who'll share her journey through life.
- Perhaps wants an emotional relationship, w/o regard for sexual issues.
- Perhaps she's looking for someone to take care of her as she ages.
Come to think of it - I'm looking for the same things. Not likely to find this in the civilian world. Hell, eHarmony won't even accept my application.
(Applications for the position are being accepted via PM.
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I know a few committed relationships that started as client-provider relationships. They are committed to each other in a caring way, but do not insist on monogamy. Actually, they refuse to accept it. They have lasted the test of time, years longer than my second marriage. So it is possible.