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Originally Posted by inspector farquar
Maybe someone would be kind enough to explain to me why her hands (or mouth) should be on her lady parts and not on my man parts, and ditto for how my hands (or mouth) ought be employed?
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First off, lets just toss out any and all "shoulds." When you are sharing intimate space, there is only what comes naturally.
When someone is turned on, whether man or woman, they touch themselves. It's a natural response. If a woman is touching herself, in front of you, she is communicating that she is turned on, by YOU. Seeing a guy touch himself, in response to me, is a very powerful and erotic form of foreplay.
Also, when a woman touches herself in front of you, she is communicating something else too. She's revealing "her little secret." You could go on fumbling and frustrating the both of you trying to figure out how the apparatus works, or she can just demonstrate, exactly what she likes. And likewise, every man masturbates differently. It is very unique and special.
And of course, as has already been addressed, there is that wonderful teasing aspect to it. How long can you go before you just can't help yourself and you have to let your hands start wandering to the other person.
Try not to limit yourself with pre-conceived notions of how intimate time "should" go. You'll miss out on a lot that way.