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Originally Posted by plove35
I do get a little cringy when the disrespect starts but it is what it is....just dont particpate in drama
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The dramatic bullshit on here basically all stems from a difference of opinion. What causes the drama is mainly a couple of things on this board and it is both providers and hobbyists that are to blame:
1. Agendas - the biggest contributor of the drama on here. Agendas have many subcategories, one of those is people with vendettas for perceived slight by others or they have a different opinion about the same thing, making it a goal on here to defame when they can, many times, even going so far as putting out bogus alerts and posting hearsay info and/or just making up things out of thin air stating them as facts to further that agenda. A provider and/or her WKs making a point that a hobbyist has to be wrong in his assessment of her in a review or otherwise on a whore board which main purpose is to give opinions on providers.
2. Trolls - some members have a sole purpose on this site and that is to troll posts and either point out perceived faults or they are a keyboard warrior who has his/her fun on an adult review board talking condescendingly to others looking for a reaction. Unfortunately, those types are most of the frequent posters in this community, which is why there are so many hobbyists who are members that lurk for the most part and providers who their mainly just post ads if they post at all.
There are other factors as well, and since there are so many dynamic personalities who have different opinions on the same subject, the drama will not go away. Just think if people that had a difference of opinion could either agree to disagree and walk away or have a civil adult conversation when sharing those opinions instead of name calling and bashing those whose opinions vary.