You really never can tell about people. Most everyone has been respectful to me in session, even if they are ass holes on the board or were two faced. I have tried to choose very wisely. There was one here that forced BB, and he's an asshole on the board. I should have known better with him. He's been dealt with, by the way.
Another guy was an attorney who raped me. He was as nice as could be, had references, seemed very intelligent, was at a nice place. There were no indicators of anything other than that he seemed a little arrogant. I figured he was submissive in the bedroom. Boy was I dead wrong. Boom... Just like that. It happened. So, you just never know. He's been dealt with too, by the way & the reason I've been more crazier than usual the last couple of months!
I guess it depends on what a lady cares about more. Some ladies could give a shit less how a guy acts on the board. They only care about or desperately need the money.
Some women, like myself, are very proud and will not see anyone that is disrespectful to me or whom I think will disrespect me. That doesn't necessarily mean if they act ugly on the board that I won't see them. It just depends on a multitude of things I analyze before seeing someone.