This is my official RETIREMENT thread... (This is old, She is not retired- NYr)

[threepeckeredbillygoat]

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Well Mother Fucker! Honeymoon Over?

And he sounded like such a sweetheart



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[KittyLamour]

Originally Posted by threepeckeredbillygoat

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Well Mother Fucker! Honeymoon Over?

And he sounded like such a sweetheart



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He was real sweet at first... oh well, it was great sex I can't regret it.

He should've bought me another phone though. IJS.

[L.A.]

Welcome back. Looks like you have quite a few people that posted in this thread that indicated they regretted not seeing you when they had their chance. Now is their chance!

[Guest070818-1]

Originally Posted by L.A.

Welcome back. Looks like you have quite a few people that posted in this thread that indicated they regretted not seeing you when they had their chance. Now is their chance!

^ Yeah, but Kitty's phone is in retirement until further notice.

[playerplano]

Maybe there is a lesson to be learned here for those who want to retire.

Change your number first so the very sweet ATF client can't call and shatter the blossoming romance. Also I expect their will always be the temptation to make some quick and easy money. Nothing can stop that but you , of course but if you have a new number and no clients can call or text you it might be easier to resist.

Kitty I'm sorry it didn't work out for you. Everyone wants to be happily ever after.

[TheEccie214]

Originally Posted by grean

Well this will teach me to wait....You were so close to the top of my to do list. good luck

Originally Posted by angusranch

Good luck Kitty....I'll be wondering about those lips!!

Originally Posted by Stallion81

I wish I'd gotten to know you.

Originally Posted by SNL9933

Damn it...another provider I had a mental note to meet with ...but now is gone.

Now is your chance. She listed her new phone number so you can get right on it.

[KittyLamour]

Originally Posted by playerplano

Maybe there is a lesson to be learned here for those who want to retire.

Change your number first so the very sweet ATF client can't call and shatter the blossoming romance. Also I expect their will always be the temptation to make some quick and easy money. Nothing can stop that but you , of course but if you have a new number and no clients can call or text you it might be easier to resist.

Kitty I'm sorry it didn't work out for you. Everyone wants to be happily ever after.

So true, the phone was definitely a constant source of contention between he and I. Guess he just had all he could stand. No biggie... I upgraded to a sexier new phone anyways.

I'm over it now, he's still bitching about what a hooktard loser I am, that taking calls and discussing sex with other men is still technically cheating, even if you don't actually have physical contact. He's started calling me "Hey Pornstar!" I told him i never did any but he told me he's calling me that because I agreed to the PSE.

I give up on the happily ever after crap... More like life is what happens when you're busy making other plans...

XOXOX!

[Melissa Madyson]

Originally Posted by KittyLamour

So true, the phone was definitely a constant source of contention between he and I. Guess he just had all he could stand. No biggie... I upgraded to a sexier new phone anyways.

I'm over it now, he's still bitching about what a hooktard loser I am, that taking calls and discussing sex with other men is still technically cheating, even if you don't actually have physical contact. He's started calling me "Hey Pornstar!" I told him i never did any but he told me he's calling me that because I agreed to the PSE.

I give up on the happily ever after crap... More like life is what happens when you're busy making other plans...

XOXOX!

That this has happened to you... I too have been in the hobby for a long time, and I realize that a client will say anything to try and get you to only see him exclusively. That way they stop paying or donating to you. It is a trick, don't fall for it!!!

I suggest if you truly want to retire, then work hard and start really saving monies in a savings account, invest in an Edwards Jones account, file taxes on your income, open an LLC for your business, and go legit with it.

Clean up your credit if it isn't already. I did just that. I am saving every penny for when that day comes I can buy a house. My credit is now in recovery, I have a nice savings in the bank, I am truly working towards retirement in the next 10 years or less depending on the economy... And there is always the off chance an excellent RL guy may meet you not in the hobby but in the RW, and whose to say, he may just be the break you need to give it up once and for all...

A lot of ladies in the industry never save a penny for hard times, or think of tomorrow because they think the money will always come easily, but what ladies don't understand that with age and time, the money isn't always as it once was.

We have to make compromises to still make the income we need to live off of or live a certain lifestyle. EX: When we are younger, we may see 3 clients a day at $300 a pop, but when we get older and more worn so to speak, we may have to see 4 clients at $200 to make the same amount ect. Well you get my drift I hope...

But whatever you choose I wish nothing but the best for you!! Good luck Ms. Lady, and May God continue to bless you!!

Sincerely,
M.M.

[Luke Skywalker]

Originally Posted by KittyLamour

I absolutely don't want to do this... but I made a mistake. I rushed into something I shouldn't have.

Last night my phone went off and the comment was made that I must not have really retired. I replied it was probably my son. He said well let's see... snatched my phone opened the text and it was one of my sweet regulars saying he felt like he could talk to me about anything and wanted to try a pse session.

My guy turned 5 shades of red. Smashed my phone to death, called me every name but my own and left me high and dry.

I really wanted the happy ending too. Sorry for wasting thread space. I can't afford to retire.

Please don't be mean anyone. I've got hobby experience out the wazoo but when it comes to matters of the heart I am clearly not that wise, I've been alone a long time.

My new phone number is 214 730 2509

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I hate when people mistreat electronics.

[Bluesplyr]

this is epic and hilarious....or maybe sad. probably all. lets just say it is the usual pattern with this individual.

[TheEccie214]

Originally Posted by Melissa Madyson

That this has happened to you... I too have been in the hobby for a long time, and I realize that a client will say anything to try and get you to only see him exclusively. That way they stop paying or donating to you. It is a trick, don't fall for it!!!

I suggest if you truly want to retire, then work hard and start really saving monies in a savings account, invest in an Edwards Jones account, file taxes on your income, open an LLC for your business, and go legit with it.

Clean up your credit if it isn't already. I did just that. I am saving every penny for when that day comes I can buy a house. My credit is now in recovery, I have a nice savings in the bank, I am truly working towards retirement in the next 10 years or less depending on the economy... And there is always the off chance an excellent RL guy may meet you not in the hobby but in the RW, and whose to say, he may just be the break you need to give it up once and for all...

A lot of ladies in the industry never save a penny for hard times, or think of tomorrow because they think the money will always come easily, but what ladies don't understand that with age and time, the money isn't always as it once was.

We have to make compromises to still make the income we need to live off of or live a certain lifestyle. EX: When we are younger, we may see 3 clients a day at $300 a pop, but when we get older and more worn so to speak, we may have to see 4 clients at $200 to make the same amount ect. Well you get my drift I hope...

But whatever you choose I wish nothing but the best for you!! Good luck Ms. Lady, and May God continue to bless you!!

Sincerely,
M.M.

This should be required reading for every new provider. Unfortunately we don't get smart until it's too late.

[Kendall4U]

I'm sorry Kitty. Men are stupid. Let's throw rocks at them.
Seriously MM had really great advice. Take heed. Chin up doll, this to shall pass.

[blowmypop23]

Every relationship has challenges but a provider-John relationship has challenges to the max. First of all it will be full of jealousy and insecurity. "Are you seeing providers again"? "Are you providing"

Common sense should have told you to delete all contact with your former life and you should have disabled your account. If you are truly out of this life then there is no reason to communicate with hooks and johns.

Dudes want what they can't have so now that you announce of course multiple people want to fuck you so your shit is gonna go off. If you really truly expect to have a normal happy relationship then you have to do your part to make it normal. There is nothing normal about you talking about sex with other dudes and getting calls and texts for sex.

lastly, you met this dude 5 minutes ago. In reality the only think you know about each other is what you've shown each other in that 5 minutes and of course this life style.

[Guest070818-1]

Originally Posted by Melissa Madyson

That this has happened to you... I too have been in the hobby for a long time, and I realize that a client will say anything to try and get you to only see him exclusively. That way they stop paying or donating to you. It is a trick, don't fall for it!!!

I suggest if you truly want to retire, then work hard and start really saving monies in a savings account, invest in an Edwards Jones account, file taxes on your income, open an LLC for your business, and go legit with it.

Clean up your credit if it isn't already. I did just that. I am saving every penny for when that day comes I can buy a house. My credit is now in recovery, I have a nice savings in the bank, I am truly working towards retirement in the next 10 years or less depending on the economy... And there is always the off chance an excellent RL guy may meet you not in the hobby but in the RW, and whose to say, he may just be the break you need to give it up once and for all...

A lot of ladies in the industry never save a penny for hard times, or think of tomorrow because they think the money will always come easily, but what ladies don't understand that with age and time, the money isn't always as it once was.

We have to make compromises to still make the income we need to live off of or live a certain lifestyle. EX: When we are younger, we may see 3 clients a day at $300 a pop, but when we get older and more worn so to speak, we may have to see 4 clients at $200 to make the same amount ect. Well you get my drift I hope...

But whatever you choose I wish nothing but the best for you!! Good luck Ms. Lady, and May God continue to bless you!!

Sincerely,
M.M.

Amen!

[DSK]

Originally Posted by KittyLamour

Hey, he was good looking too. IJS

You are handling it well. My armchair analysis is that he was looking for a way out. Perhaps he thought he could handle it and thought oh shit.

It probably takes an older guy who doesn't want more kids to handle a relationship with a provider. When I was younger I would have wanted my girl all to myself. Nowadays, I only care that I'm not restricted - for her, she can do what she wants. The inheritance goes to my kids no matter what. They are probably the only people I'm capable of truly loving.

Anyway, best of luck to you!!