Referral Expectations

[N.M.]

Originally Posted by Kylie Nicole

Make sure you cover those black eyes with concealer really well tmrw! Gotta make that pimp his money!

what's funny about that ^^ is that I if I did have one, I would probably do have black eyes, you KNOW my ass would probably be getting pimp slapped every damn day

*sigh* that new bs has to be one of the dumbest shit I ever heard...

Ladies: remember always to include at least handle and phone number when asking for a reference.

[dearhunter]

Shut your whore mouth while I am talking to your pimp.........my referrals are good to go.

[GlobeSpotter]

Originally Posted by dearhunter

Shut your whore mouth while I am talking to your pimp.........my referrals are good to go.

He has you on ignore.

[dearhunter]

heh

[Raquel Ryder]

Anytime girly. ��

Originally Posted by Natalia Mori

Exactly! It has happened to me a few times, what makes it even worse is that they don't even say who they are. Like you mentioned on your comment it could be anyone. I think pms thru here or even on p411 are the best way to ask for references. It's just safer and respectful that way.

Btw thank you for always being so quick to reply Raquel, your help is greatly appreciate it.

Kisses

[bon69]

Originally Posted by dearhunter

Whore, if I want to fuck you, I will fuck you

Wow, I wonder if it really does make you feel like a man to verbally assault and threaten a woman. It is both senseless and cowardly. Where I come from a man that abuses women in any way, verbally, emotionally or physically is a spineless coward. So I'm calling you out, you are a cowardly misogynist. Apparently that's how you like your character defined.

Now OT, I had no problem as a newbie. I saw a newbie friendly provider then used her as ref. Then saw a second provider used both as references and went on from there. I guess I was lucky.

[dearhunter]

Like I give a fuck what you thinck.......how does pimp dick taste?

[Guest092816]

Originally Posted by citizen44

Lol, you know jack shit about this place if you think that.

Just as women have Mandles/WKs/etc, guys have Shandles/ATFs/etc.

The dumbass whores who risk their life for an extra 50 for BBFS do have one redeeming value. They'll sell 30 minutes on their account for an extra 25.

It would also be a mistake for you not to realize some providers are posting other providers private stuff elsewhere.

I HAVE TO AGREE WITH YOU MR. C44

[Guest062616-1]

Originally Posted by Kylie Nicole

Some of us answer quicker than others. Some ladies hobby part time or have other duties to attend to and can't answer right away. It doesn't mean they're doing it on purpose, they get to it when they can. I always try to reply as quickly as possible in hopes I get the same if needed in the future.

A lot of us don't have our phone numbers listed and we don't like when you give it out. Check the ladies' showcase to see if she has it listed before you give it to anyone else. If she doesn't, only provide her eccie handle or email. Providing the link to your ref's showcase makes the process much easier.

As you hobby more you will begin to figure out who to use as a reference and who not to use. You've seen Natalia and she answers right away so you know she's someone you should list.

Talk to the provider before you leave the session and ask her how she feels about references. I always tell my clients they can use me as many times as they'd like but only to provide my email or eccie handle. Sometimes texting her beforehand can speed things up.

Hope this helps!

I agree completely! I experience this all the time and it has given me such a bad name. I do have a day job and I'm also full-time in college, but I feel like so many guys don't understand or appreciate this. Yes, this is a hobby and I want to service ya'll when I can, but I have to take care of priorities first!! I'm sure we can all appreciate that.

I may not have my phone on me all the time, but I will always respond as son as I am checking it again! I will always respond within 24 hours!!

When screening, I ask for a phone number and at least 3 ECCIE references, but I feel like the guys think I am asking too much? I KNOW there are girls out there with much more rigorous screening methods than I have, so It's frustrating when I get resistance or angry/annoyed clients. I only ask for this information to keep myself safe.

I posted my own thread but I will post it here also, what is the best way to contact you other providers? I want to respect everyone's privacy so I don't text for reference requests, I PM. Is this the best way? What does everyone prefer?

[Guest092816]

Originally Posted by Enchanting Elizabeth

I agree completely! I experience this all the time and it has given me such a bad name. I do have a day job and I'm also full-time in college, but I feel like so many guys don't understand or appreciate this. Yes, this is a hobby and I want to service ya'll when I can, but I have to take care of priorities first!! I'm sure we can all appreciate that.

I may not have my phone on me all the time, but I will always respond as son as I am checking it again! I will always respond within 24 hours!!

When screening, I ask for a phone number and at least 3 ECCIE references, but I feel like the guys think I am asking too much? I KNOW there are girls out there with much more rigorous screening methods than I have, so It's frustrating when I get resistance or angry/annoyed clients. I only ask for this information to keep myself safe.

I posted my own thread but I will post it here also, what is the best way to contact you other providers? I want to respect everyone's privacy so I don't text for reference requests, I PM. Is this the best way? What does everyone prefer?

I completely understand hun... even though I do check my email because I get email notification I also tell the gentleman that if they want a faster response from me for a reference 2 please give the girls my number. but Not to post it on a review. I tried to respond within 1 at the most 2 hours. Also many providers don't like that. they rather you email them or PM Them.

congratulations on being in college that's something to be proud of 💖

[Guest062616-1]

Originally Posted by Azebella_amor

I completely understand hun... even though I do check my email because I get email notification I also tell the gentleman that if they want a faster response from me for a reference 2 please give the girls my number. but Not to post it on a review. I tried to respond within 1 at the most 2 hours. Also many providers don't like that. they rather you email them or PM Them.

congratulations on being in college that's something to be proud of 💖

Thank you!!!

[WolfWhistle]

Originally Posted by H.Hardhat

Lots of This^
My ex wife was bipolar and I've learned to stay' clear of crazy bitches like that.

And you don't think the hobby does not have any bipolar types???

[citizen44]

Originally Posted by Enchanting Elizabeth

I feel like so many guys don't understand or appreciate this. Yes, this is a hobby and I want to service ya'll when I can, but I have to take care of priorities first!! I'm sure we can all appreciate that.

You want sympathy but you won't take responsibility for your own actions.

Don't accept appointments if you can't 100% make it there and be on time.

You just want a free option so you can choose between goofing off and making money, and you don't care about screwing over the guys to do it.

The funny thing is, I actually ate lunch free today because of you. One of my friends scheduled an appointment with you this week. I told his dumb ass you would some how flake on him. He said no way, not after your little post and the grief you got. What did you do? You told his dumb ass that you forgot about the appointment because he scheduled it days in advance. Yeah, that's his fault right? God forbid you write it down like a responsible person. So, my stomach thanks you as that was some dam good Mexican food.

[N.M.]

^^ you have friends

[WolfWhistle]

Originally Posted by citizen44

You want sympathy but you won't take responsibility for your own actions.

Don't accept appointments if you can't 100% make it there and be on time.

There are fulltime pros and there are part-time amateurs. That's all that should be said here.