I don't think OUTING is right.
I never said it was right.
I wish I could share my protest thread from the ladies room.
Not just over Fancy's ban; But much over
lack of consistency.
Pretty fuckin hard to "obey the speed limit" when you don't know what the precise limit is, right?
And FYI, I don't agree with outing, but on Eccie; Outing can be as simple and as easy of a mistake as writing one word.
Example:
"Hey
John."
See, I am sure someone named John, or someone who knows a man named John may very well try to RTM my post.
And that is not what I would define as a malicious outing.
There can be accidental outings; Another example is if a provider wrote a warning incorrectly. And accidentally wrote too many letters versus asterisks.
But now we have EXAMPLES and a template to follow;
So there may be NO CONFUSION.
Properly masking all information will prevent outing;
And there were no guidelines before.
We were told to "make sure you mask."
But what was masking defined as?
It was not.
There were NO GUIDELINES previously in the ladies area.
I am curious....
Do you men really think that ECCIE is the end-all-be-all of where your real life information is shared?
You do realize there are blacklists?
You do realize there are screening services?
You do realize that HOOKERS usually share this information when SOMETHING BAD HAPPENS TO THEM?
Ok, pot, meet kettles.
Just to clarify where I stand on this....
I don't like subterfuge;
So I am speaking painfully clear without any song & dance...
Only YOU can protect your information;
It would be wise to do so.
It would also be in a man's best interest when he proceeds as a client to behave as a well mannered one...
You don't expect the gloves to not come off when hookers are done wrong or suffer abuse, do you?
Now aside from alerts/blacklists.... with that being said, yes, there are MALICIOUS bat-shit-cray-cray vicious hookers, just like there are vicious "clients"- (fucktards, however...) and people will out other people.
Example: Gamy & Wreckshop.
Hooktard.
Fucktard. (Psycho.)
Both outing. Both wrong.
As were any of the ladies who failed to mask properly; Albeit there was no guideline to follow THEN.
There is NOW.
Outing is outing, and no, noone wants their information blasted, in whole or in part, or even a First name; However up until this little fiasco, it was DONE.
Numerous times.
Yes, it was.
Am I throwing Infoshare under the bus and all the ladies in the bus with it?
If my being honest is doing that, then YES.
I can admit when I am wrong or see wrong doing; Although, I never shared a name in infoshare. I did share.... an email... OMG....
Other than wreckshop's link to his profile page & the email address the outing info was sent from... to me.
(That's what happens when you send REAL WORLD INFO TO MY DAMN INBOX!)
I followed the proper procedures; contacting the victim(S) and mods.
Then made an alert.
But dammnnit...
Maybe I should go back & check my alert...
I may be an outing bitch too, if I didn't "mask" his email properly....
Ah hell..(Too late to edit now!)..... Wait, wait.
That was before the guideline! WHEW!
What a relief!
Guess it's "all good."
You want a bone to chew on, chew on that.