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[busternutzs]

Carlybabes,

With your attitude you displayed in your posts and comments in your thread below titled YMMV I`m surprised you get any customers.

http://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1456923&highlight=

Two quotes from Carlybabes:

I just read that I'm ymmv well I'm human and I'm not gonna cater to a client that is rude to me of course I will make sure they get what they paid me for another reason I may treat a client different is their hygiene might not be up to par do you blame me? If I'm wrong for this then let me know

im not Gonna comprise myself or my feelings to get a review sorry that all clients don't enjoy seeing me I don't enjoy seeing all the clients I see but I don't put it on the internet

Also your lack of TCB skills seem to be lacking. Your lack of communication and disregard to my inquiries indicated to me you are not interested in getting any new customers, making any money or getting any positive reviews.

[Restless]

First off - kudos to you Carly for caring enough to ask.

I think loverboy 007 pretty much nailed it.

I just want a couple or three things:
1. Reasonably quick response to my PM,s, texts, etc...
2. A provider who at least acts like she's happy to have me in the room
3. A provider who is dressed and made up like she cares about herself

[FBSMLUVR]

Originally Posted by Restless

First off - kudos to you Carly for caring enough to ask.

I think loverboy 007 pretty much nailed it.

I just want a couple or three things:
1. Reasonably quick response to my PM,s, texts, etc...
2. A provider who at least acts like she's happy to have me in the room
3. A provider who is dressed and made up like she cares about herself

What about #4?

4. Keeping her appointments to the agreed upon and scheduled time?

[john_deere]

personally, i don't see anything wrong with carly's responses in the other thread. once you get past her communication style being a little tough to read, she didn't say anything that was unreasonable. women in this game shouldn't have to put up with any bullshit and we all know that it happens.

[scotty5830]

I know I tried MANY times to set up an appointment. Off and on for over a year. It was usually a conflict of schedule that kept us apart, but I kept trying because I REALLY wanted to see you. We finally set an a point mentioned and you cancelled as I arrived. We tried again the following week and all was great, until the appointment started. You were asleep when I arrived, and then didn't have any protection (also my fault, I know better than to go unprepared) Either way, I didn't review because I had planned on giving it another shot. Didn't feel that was a typical appointment. I have been a little gun shy to try again, but definitely willing to give you another chance.

[carlybabes]

Look guys the reason i dont respond to text in a timely manner is for some reason my phone reception isnt worth a damn where I live I have ebrnmn

[Phrasing]

[john_deere]

Originally Posted by carlybabes

Look guys the reason i dont respond to text in a timely manner is for some reason my phone reception isnt worth a damn where I live I have ebrnmn

don't take this personally, but nobody gives a fuck about your cell phone issues.

look, there's one simple rule of business - and life, really - that applies here: don't make YOUR problems into somebody else's problems.

if you have phone issues and it's costing you business, fix it!

[carlybabes]

You know I didnt say it was your problem and I Have tried to fix it changed companies changed phones my apt just gets shitty Service that comment was very rude and I've read some of your other post and it seems to me you are a rude person

[busternutzs]

Ok so you don't have good service in Amarillo. What's the reason for lack response in a timely manner in Lubbock? Poor Service as well.

I sent 3 texts in the morning of the 2nd I got one answer to my 1st text.
I sent an other text some five hours later and got a reply. Then another text and no reply.
On the the morning of the 3rd I sent another text and you replied.

Your replies were sometime along these lines Yeah, Ok and sorry I asleep.

I'm guessing here but you must have been asleep the best part of 24 hours.. Or was that you didn't care for the context of my messages?

[Texanbychoice]

Originally Posted by carlybabes

You know I didnt say it was your problem and I Have tried to fix it changed companies changed phones my apt just gets shitty Service that comment was very rude and I've read some of your other post and it seems to me you are a rude person

LoL . she called JD rude.

Carly. I don't have a dog in this fight. But the mongers who have responded have actually all been pretty nice and given you the answers you were looking for repeatedly. You asked the question. It was answered multiple times. Your choice now is simply follow the advice, have your client base fall off to the point your strictly a bp level girl, or find ankther profession.

It doesnt matter how hot your twat is. Our dollars are more sacred to us and we hate wasting them on bad experiences. Thats the major purpose of this board. Information exchange.

Want good reviews. Follow the above advise given. Any of them. They are all basically the same.

Good luck to you.

[D_Friday]

Originally Posted by carlybabes

You know I didnt say it was your problem and I Have tried to fix it changed companies changed phones my apt just gets shitty Service that comment was very rude and I've read some of your other post and it seems to me you are a rude person

Respectfully... That phone is your livelihood. Your profession begins and ends with timely communication. *If* (and it's a big if), if bad cell reception is what is costing you business, then you need to solve that problem. Whether that means a new phone, new service provider, or a different apartment location, you need to solve the problem.

You came here asking for advice, and you're getting it, in straightforward fashion. So, are you going to listen to the advice, or are you going to throw out excuses?

[loverboy007]

Carly, if I were a provider then I would listen to the advice im getting as they all say basically the same thing.

No one here is unreasonable. They get that you can't respond 24 hours a day. If you are texting me about an appt for tomorrow and someone shows up for an hour visit then not responding immediately would be expected as you have 24 hours to work out the details with me. If I am on my way to your incall and you go missing then completely unacceptable. In fact if our las t communication is im 5 mins away and your phone service is spotting at about 10 mins late you should be calling to make sure I haven't got lost not text me in a few hours to see if I still want to come. You can read hundreds of positive reviews on girls that legitimate emergencies came up but outside their control but communication with the client kept them from getting upset about the delay. However, regardless of what happens MOST importantly when the appointment does take place the expected level of servides must be consistent. Heck think back to whitney marie. She was the worlds worst at communication and it annoyed everyone but we still lined up to see her because he IOP and services were better than anyone else in her price tier. I expect mediocre service out of an 80$ bp girl. If I spend 150$ or more then it damn well better be great service, a full menu, and she better try hard to make me enjoy and want to return because there are 100 other women out there that already get that and I'll spend my hard earned money with them. If I cant find one that has the reviews that say I won't leave unhappy then I will either wait for a traveler or I will spend a tank of gas and travel to a town that has a provider that does.

[westtexasbrowser]

Remember this thread?
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?...post1056721603

It seems appropriate to interject into this current conversation.


And thus far Carly is proving the point I asserted in post #7. http://www.eccie.net/showpost.php?p=...03&postcount=7

[john_deere]

carly, nothing i've said to you has been with any sort of mean intentions. if you'd read more of my posts, you would know what they look like when i am actually rude to someone. lol. i just don't have the time or energy to spin a lot of words on these threads and i prefer the straightforward fashion. and, as you said, why should i compromise myself just to make you feel better?

when i said don't make your problem into other peoples problems, i don't necessarily mean that you're doing it intentionally. but, the cell phone thing as a perfect example. that's your problem. you are the only one who can fix it. when you use that as an excuse for not communicating with someone, then you've made that into their problem. your apartment has shitty signal? i guarantee you it doesn't have as shitty a signal has where i live… i have a zero cell phone service. you obviously have internet service however, so you could be using a pinger number. it's a free app that operates on voice over ip. it's what i do. worst case, you have to walk outside where the cell tower can see your phone.

you're getting good advice here. stop worrying about whether or not you think it's rude and start figuring out how to use it to better your situation.