Setting the mood....

[DallasRain]

I LUV LUV LUV candles....as many as possible without my room table looking like "sacrificial alter"...lol

[KCQuestor]

Sometimes I like a brightly lit room with providers.

1) Most women in my real life prefer darker, more romantic settings. (Amy Schumer has a funny joke about why women like that -- "Aww, you think it is because I don't want YOU to see ME?") So when I see a provider, it just feels *dirty* to do it with the lights on. That's hot.

2) But then with some providers, having the lights on makes it feel more "matter of fact" and less "romantic", which can suit the mood sometimes. "Let's just get naked and have some fun." I've found that to be the case when I have had strippers over. It's just us having a good time. Why turn off the lights?

3) When I see a provider, I want to SEE her. She is beautiful (as all women are), and I am paying for that experience.

4) There's the occasional roleplay session. If we are a professor and his sexy student doing it in his office, the lights are on. If we are the pro football player and the sexy sports reporter doing it in the locker room, the light are on. If we are... nevermind, now I need a shower.

[Ceri Chanel]

I love a candle lit room with soothing music in the background. Nothing is sexier!
But I do agree that a pounding fuck session with all the lights on can be just as sexy with the right person!

[kc810m]

If I'm with someone new I want the lights on, not super bright but enough to see what I'm enjoying. I'm very visual, so seeing those curves/skin/features...mmmmmmmmm!!

^^^^
Ceri, I would definitely have to have the lights on with you!!

[SweetSuzanna]

I LOVE the new "candles" that are fake...just turn them on and they flicker dimly like real candles!
no worries about burning the place down....just turn them off when you are done. they last forever and come in different sizes and colors...i want some with red flames...sexy

[stacy in kc]

Some side lightening is great, from a lamp or fireplace.
Harsh ceiling light with no other source of light can be worse than no light at all.
I discovered long ago(but not far far away) that with a side lamp at eye level
The eyes can be seen more clearly and to me that plays a huge role
When it comes to sexual attraction.