The perfect date? Need your feedback!!:)

[Nicolette LeBlanc]

Hey beautiful people!
I'm Nicolette
Just looking for feedback...

In your opinion, what makes for a perfect date?

Coming for an hour or so for fun is always nice, but ideally, I'd like to get to know my clients on a deeper level. I'd like to create the ideal date experience for a man. Whether that's cooking an ambrosial meal for a man or being outdoors hiking and fishing. Anything really. I find joy in indulging on new experiences that the guy enjoyed. Is there a market out there for that?

If so, as a man, what would you set the price range at? Would you want a package deal or just an hourly rate?
If there is no market for this, what would you suggest to make an encounter more enjoyable for you fellas?
Ladies, if you've had something similar, did it work? What about it worked?
I'd love feedback to get a feel on your ideal situation.

Oxox,
Nicolette

[James1588]

Originally Posted by Nicolette LeBlanc

Hey beautiful people!
I'm Nicolette
Just looking for feedback...

In your opinion, what makes for a perfect date?

...

Well, Nicolette, the beautiful people seem to be a little slow in answering, so I'm hoping you'll allow me to act as a time-filling placeholder.

In my as-always humble opinion, what makes for a perfect date is almost entirely (99.9% +) the personality of the one you're with. Not to name names or anything -- that would be bad -- but I've been on a dinner date with Gigi the Gartered Gypsy that was just out to dinner, then back to her place, and she was such captivating company that she could have announced after dinner that the "back to her place" part was cancelled, and I would've still felt that I'd gotten a bargain. Fortunately for me, she announced no such thing. Not to name names or anything -- that would be bad -- but I once went with Elisabeth Whispers to look at antique furniture and whatnots, and I don't care the slightest bit about antique furniture or whatnots ... and still, I was seriously blissed out the entire time.

I can't tell you how to have that kind of personality. Both of the names I shouldn't have named are intelligent women, but I don't think that's all of it. I think there are some people in this world who have such a large capacity for joy that it kind of spills over on whomever they're with. And with someone like that, you can go watch the grass grow and have a great time.

[SA Angel]

In my experience there is a huge market for this. A "Clock-Free" rate works for this pretty well. Just having it advertised opens you up for men to email/pm you asking for pricing on various kinds of dates.

Make sure the things you would enjoy doing with a male partner are listed in your interests. The men that want the type of encounters you seek (without having met you previously) will read your showcase and bio to help decide if you are the right lady to accompany them on their adventures. Also maybe have a few artistic pictures of you doing the things you would want to do to catch the eye of the more visual guys.

Please don't list anything you don't actually enjoy. Seeing your pleasure in the activities is over half of his enjoyment....in and out of the bedroom.

[phoenixfire_]

In my opinion the perfect date is achievable with a client that you click with... Both of you being OK with the donation upfront & not talking about it anymore... The time isn't watched and the activities are enjoyed by both parties equally. That means you are attentive when he talks laugh flirt naturally ... It works best when you mix both of your personalities ...who you are as a escort and who you really are in real life.

Genuine conversations... Taking the extra time to find out what he enjoys & is interested in to strike a topic starter.... and honestly the best dates in our profession are the ones where you don't feel like a escort and he can't stop smiling and is hooked on you AND your service.

[~Ynot~]

SA & Phoenix you are correct. Im not sure how big the market is but I personally prefer this type of date. It does require that the two share some chemistry and enjoy similar activities. I have been doing this for a while now and have a hard time doing a normal appt. now.
Nic, i would advertize it and see how it goes.

[Nicolette LeBlanc]

Thank you so much for the feedback! It was much appreciated☺️ I'm definitely going to try some of these tips!

Btw hope everyone is having a good day!

Xoxox
Nicolette

[whitechocolate]

A perfect date would be an overnite session with plenty of time to get to know each other, make very passionate love, have a romantic dinner and several hours of kinky hotttt fun at a swingers club and then lots of cuddling

[michaelbolton]

Originally Posted by whitechocolate

A perfect date would be an overnite session with plenty of time to get to know each other, make very passionate love, have a romantic dinner and several hours of kinky hotttt fun at a swingers club and then lots of cuddling

yeah, what she said

[NINA SIMONE]

I actually just had the perfect date. Received a 2 hr booking from a retired plastic surgeon and of course I was a little intimidated, this guy has spent his life helping people improve their looks. I honestly did not know what to expect from this guy. My fears immediately vanished when in walks this handsome, fit, athletic built 50 something year young guy carrying a bottle of wine in a special package made just for me.

We had the best 2 hours Imaginable. I then get an email from him the next day and he booked me for an overnight which ended up lasting 2 days. This handsome guy not only honored my rates plus a tip, he wined me and dined me. We went hiking, to the gym for an early morning workout, and sightseeing . He was even nice enough to drive me to the airport.

After arriving home, I checked my emails and he sent me a nice thank you telling me how much he enjoyed me and our time together and he wants to fly me back out after his boat is ready in about a month to go sailing.

He also wrote me the most amazing review on TER

I am not telling you guys this to brag but to say that the perfect date will sometimes come your way when you least expect it. and, that there are still amazing respectful men out there that see us as more then a sexual object.

[JessicaKnightly]

...are the ones that are just that, dates. I prefer multi-hour or overnight engagements that are stimulating both in and out of the bedroom. I enjoy nice restaurants, because sharing fine wine, great food, with interesting and flirtatious dinner conversation is very enjoyable for both partners and it, not only sets the mood, it builds up the anticipation for later. Also, if you have time, incorporate an activity that either you both enjoy or neither of you have tried.
I've gone to sporting events, opera, sailing, polo matches, and even rollerskating with my suitors and I believe these extracurricular activities make the encounter more unique and memorable for both parties.

Like mentioned before, it's not so much what you do as the personalities and chemistry you both have. However, spending time doing activities together in a real world setting, can help make the connection and bond stronger, and that makes the sex even better.

[old-n-new]

very well put by all. i think what it all means, the best dates are-----dates!!!