I like a little live porn, but not necessarily orgys or while I'm trying to focus on my partner, and I could go the rest of my life and not watch fake sex in porn with the cheesy acting......LOL It doesn't bother me if a guy wants to have it going during sex, but I, like SA did, just find some things distracting. I'm a passionate woman who loves sex and I don't need bells and whistles, but rather just a willing MAN to get me going and keep me going. I'm great at multi tasking, but prefer to focus on ONE sense at a time when sharing time with a man.
Men are often like kids in a candy store. It's so hard to make the decision on which piece they want for themselves. They walk up and down the aisles, picking one up to give it a once over and then putting it back, and continuing this practice until they walk back and forth between their final favorite picks, still continuing to doing this. Finally they pick one out, having made the tough decision and in hopes of it actually being a tasty morsel, but I'll be darned if some men don't always have it in the back of their mind, maybe they should fill their pockets with several kinds. Some even wanna dicker with counter clerk about 2 for one etc. And then there are those who just wanna gaze at another fella gobbling his precious candy up, and not only that, but wants to do so as eats his own candy.
There are very few men who know exactly what they want, go straight to the shelf that contains similar candies, picks his out, pays the clerk, and then actually sits down, slowly unwraps his tasty treat and truly enjoys every delicious yummy thing he can about that one piece of candy, savoring it and making it last for as long as it takes for him to become satisfied. For days to come, maybe weeks or months, he will delight in the memory of the time he had from the moment he chose the treat, until the moment it was over.
If I were a piece of candy, I'd be delighted when gentleman #2 chose me. I'd be thrilled to be the whole center of his world for the time he wishes me to. As that special piece of candy he made me feel I was, I'd have no desire to ever have the first kinda gent give me a second glance. I'm not really sure if many women truly would. But hey, I may be in the minority.
However ya go candy shopping, whether you are decisive, greedy, or even envious cause ya make bad candy choices, get yourself to the candy store boys.....it's always open for business.