Is there such a thing as too much?

[samantha thom]

I don't work much and don't want to. It IS really hard emotionally. I feel I need a break after a few days of having appointments to get in touch with real life. Turning emotional connection on and off can be confusing at times. Switching back and forth to this and real life is confusing. Sometimes I have a hard time having emotional connection with my friends and people outside of here. There are some days that I cannot 'feel' anything emotionally. Scary!! That's when I know I need to step back and reconnect with reality.
Men will never understand what we are going through.

[guest071618-1]

Originally Posted by Reese Foster

There is such a thing as too much in one day. For me, it is not the physical work put in but the emotional.

Connecting with several different people and personalities, a day can be heavy on the emotions. I know a lot of people claim that this is all about getting a nut and getting a $...but if you can fuck 5 guys a day and not be emotionally/mentally exhausted..then you are much better than me...lol.

In other thread, I was calculating ladies seeing 3 men a day and was getting hammered/attacked by boy or girl... Ur talking abt limit 5 a day??? Lol

[Duthgar1976]

Originally Posted by thathottnurse

When I walk to the bathroom and my pussy lips start applauding me.

i almost coughed up my lunch reading this. Woman you crazy but thats what makes you so funny.

[C@r@m3lTWIX]

Originally Posted by Adrienne Baptiste

I'm letting Luther explain this one.

I can't hear the music, but if it's "Never Too Much" Ima LMFAO!!!

[samantha thom]

Originally Posted by eng

In other thread, I was calculating ladies seeing 3 men a day and was getting hammered/attacked by boy or girl... Ur talking abt limit 5 a day??? Lol

I probably on average see between 2 - 5 PER WEEK!

[C@r@m3lTWIX]

Originally Posted by samantha thom

I don't work much and don't want to. It IS really hard emotionally. I feel I need a break after a few days of having appointments to get in touch with real life. Turning emotional connection on and off can be confusing at times. Switching back and forth to this and real life is confusing. Sometimes I have a hard time having emotional connection with my friends and people outside of here. There are some days that I cannot 'feel' anything emotionally. Scary!! That's when I know I need to step back and reconnect with reality.
Men will never understand what we are going through.

What's funny is, even in this short amount of posts, there is an obvious difference in thought.

I SPECIFICALLY wrote my thread wasn't related to a number per se, but almost every OP reply has been along that line.

Yet from providers, it has varied in a way that aroused my curiosity in the 1st place.

Now, I'm just waiting on some OP to confess how his heart breaks when he knows his ATF is about to get hit up 5 more times that day after him LOL. I've already read reviews where the first time some guys ATF runs him the wrong way after multiple sessions, now there's a "misunderstanding".

....verrrry interesting thus far.

[L.A.]

I never see more than 5 a day. That's where I draw the line.

[guest071618-1]

Hmm, i am not sure I am responding correct..

It hurts little when my ATF review get posted and review ROS sounded better than my experience.
It hurts more when the review has same date as I saw her.
It really hurts, when she saw 1 or more dicks and dicks post great reviews and I cannot see her because I am not in same town.

Feeling is funny thing...

[Guest062124]

Originally Posted by eng

In other thread, I was calculating ladies seeing 3 men a day and was getting hammered/attacked by boy or girl... Ur talking abt limit 5 a day??? Lol

I'm sure some ladies see 5 or more guys a day..more power to them..lol. In Houston I average maybe 2 a week. When I travel to DFW..of course I see more gentlemen. 5 a day everyday would be burn out for me.

[DFW_Ladies_Man]

Funny if you ask a guy this same question I bet our responses would be totally different.

[APerfectCircle]

It really hurts when you think about your ATF having other clients? That sucks man, I think you might need a break from this thing.

Don't get me wrong, I'm not a guy that just doesn't give a shit, I really like my favorite providers and care about them. But they are providers, of course they see other guys. Are you exclusive with one provider (please tell me this answer is no)? Just making sure everyone knows this isn't e-harmony ...

[C@r@m3lTWIX]

Originally Posted by txboi817

Funny if you ask a guy this same question I bet our responses would be totally different.

Originally Posted by eng

Hmm, i am not sure I am responding correct..

It hurts little when my ATF review get posted and review ROS sounded better than my experience.
It hurts more when the review has same date as I saw her.
It really hurts, when she saw 1 or more dicks and dicks post great reviews and I cannot see her because I am not in same town.

Feeling is funny thing...

Hey, it's all good eng....you just told the ladies your dick has a human attached to it....nothing wrong with that huh?

BigTX, here's the deal to me: I absolutely know you're right, and gentlemen can express themselves on that. But, the obvious condition is all your clients won't be the type of hot chicks you like. Now, let's assume that NONE of the clients you may see will be the type of hot chicks you like. Nooooooooooow how many could you see in a day? I'd be all day limp d!ck m*therfvcker.....I'd have play mind tricks with myself to FIND something attractive............anything .....dayum that ear looks hot!

Frankly, for the ladies I think this would be HARDER if they saw a bunch of good looking guys everyday, especially on the emotional side. Sex = feelings, otherwise ATF wouldn't mean shit here. I've already read a thread here were providers chimed in about how for many of them this is in part "personal" to them. Whatever part that is brings some emotion for them, and thats what I think the ladies who've chimed in about it are getting at here....as if they couldn't speak for themselves LOL.

All of this is why I brought it up....

[GingerKatt]

It's very personal to the provider. We all have different physical and fiscal needs. As well as an emotional limit. I find that my needs are best met by only seeing 3-5 clients a week. On rare occasions it's more, but very rarely more than one per day. But that's me. Some providers have many financial obligations like child support, car payments, credit card payments and other monetary obligations that I don't have. And some providers have strong bodies that are able to accommodate more clients. As long as she's on top of her game, it's her business and it really doesn't matter, IMO.

[TheEccie214]

Originally Posted by eng

Hmm, i am not sure I am responding correct..

It hurts little when my ATF review get posted and review ROS sounded better than my experience.
It hurts more when the review has same date as I saw her.
It really hurts, when she saw 1 or more dicks and dicks post great reviews and I cannot see her because I am not in same town.

Feeling is funny thing...

Careful here hoss, realize what you're saying but these ladies are renting you their time, it's not match.com. The reality is many ladies here suck and fuck more than one guy a day, week, etc. and it's for money, not love or a relationship. As for an ATF, the conversation and sex may be great, and she may ask you to do something like go eat and such but watch how quickly she goes away when your pay day goes away. If you're feeling pangs of jealousy when you see someone else had fun with her the same day you need to watch yourself. As far as comparing the fun you had with theirs, pretty sure that's worth about nothing (unless they were doing bare anal then ATM and you were after him, that'd be nasty as guessing you kissed your ATF).

And for those that say they wonder how many guys she's been with that day or week? Careful, this isn't your sweet 16 year old girlfriend. If you can't handle the true answer don't ask the question. I love sluts so if she tells me she swallowed a load or got fucked well earlier that day it'll make me pop like a bomb.

[guest071618-1]

Originally Posted by TheEccie214

Careful here hoss, realize what you're saying but these ladies are renting you their time, it's not match.com. The reality is many ladies here suck and fuck more than one guy a day, week, etc. and it's for money, not love or a relationship. As for an ATF, the conversation and sex may be great, and she may ask you to do something like go eat and such but watch how quickly she goes away when your pay day goes away. If you're feeling pangs of jealousy when you see someone else had fun with her the same day you need to watch yourself. As far as comparing the fun you had with theirs, pretty sure that's worth about nothing (unless they were doing bare anal then ATM and you were after him, that'd be nasty as guessing you kissed your ATF).

And for those that say they wonder how many guys she's been with that day or week? Careful, this isn't your sweet 16 year old girlfriend. If you can't handle the true answer don't ask the question. I love sluts so if she tells me she swallowed a load or got fucked well earlier that day it'll make me pop like a bomb.

Thank you for ur advise...
i think I know the limit I need to be.. Of course I cross that limit before and cannot guarantee I will never cross again. I have been hurt before by provider but that was mutual separation. Dangerous part about me is I just go with the flow and just let it be... If I think abt where she been and limit my feeling during session, I don't think I will enjoy much.... If I just look for sex, I would just go find street walker or bp... not high end providers... If provider, I see is not same,, I just don't see her again...I usually keep in contact with my ATF,,and I enjoy and hope she does too...during the session, I pay her so I own her,, just like my employer owns me during my work hours...but after the session we are good friend or companion...wtever happens, I am just let it be...