Toying with quitting the Hobby

[oilfieldscum]

Psychological advice for a john on a shmb by other johns and tricks!

[Russ38]

Originally Posted by oilfieldscum

Psychological advice for a john on a shmb by other johns and tricks!

It's great ain't it.....

[Guest030816]

Excuse me sir, but I am "not cool with being called a Trick or a John"
Homage Zanzibar.
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[zero2010]

Take the break...I did for six months. Beat my cock to death for a while got back on the horse a couple weeks ago had best session I can remember. Now I'm on another break. Spend much less $ and enjoy sessions more.

[Asianhobbyist]

Originally Posted by zero2010

Take the break...I did for six months. Beat my cock to death for a while got back on the horse a couple weeks ago had best session I can remember. Now I'm on another break. Spend much less $ and enjoy sessions more.

This is good advice. Just rotate civies and pros and you get the best of both worlds. Variety and freshness. Can't eat at McDonald's all the time and can't eat caviar everyday either.

[KaitlynDior]

Originally Posted by cr76

I've been toying with quitting the hobby. I have had lots of fun an spent some time with lost of beautiful girls, but lately I just haven't been I I it as much. I don't know if I got my fill or life priorities taking over , etc. so anyhoo, I have been toying with quitting, maybe getting some help. Whatever to know if anyone tried quitting before - exp, know friends that quit and never look back. I may stay in the game too, but it's been dwelling on me or a while.

I will miss you if you leave

[pyramider]

He will be back.

[Jon Bon]

Just a change of scenery that should help.

[Guest030816]

Originally Posted by KaitlynDior

I will miss you if you leave

No way I could quit after that statement!!!
But I have a weakness for young hotties.
Good Luck to you whatever you decide to do.

[Mexxxican Warrior]

Originally Posted by KaitlynDior

I will miss you if you leave

Translation: I will miss you and you and you and you

[landon]

To the OP: Perhaps the time has come......(aka GTA 5 last mission).

Take a break from the hobby and see if you can make it cold turkey. Perhaps you can get by on 1-2x month or quarter. Try to get the annual number of sessions down to 24. Don;t be just doing a punch list for something you may not really need especially if spending money. Establish a budget to avoid financial ruin (especially if your career craps out before planned like it has on a lot of people nowadays) based on dollars per month or sessions. Don't listen to some gung ho hobbyist. Try to get by on as few sessions per month as possible. Don't be afraid to say no / give excuses / runaround (out of town) to providers pressuring you to meet.....

There are a number of no good reasons to be a hobbyist: Financial ruin via sex addiction, STD's (HIV can result in death), getting a stripper, provider, sugar baby pg, negative affect on marriage. The money you spend on the hobby is gone for good vs if it was invested. There is no Tricorder which will tell you if a provider is infected. Your career could crap out before you realize and you wake up in a panic / major depressive episode thinking if only you had spent x instead of y dollars on the hobby.

Some Guidelines:
1. Take a timeout, huddle the team, talk with the assistant coaches and see what call you really want to make.
2. Do everything Covered. Remember your paying women money for sex who have god knows how many partners. Your spending money (gone for good) on something that has the potential to kill you.
3. Remember your paying for sex that could be very dangerous. Perhaps a burger and a beer to consider what your doing.
4. Your considering quitting the hobby is like a warning bell going off for you. Heed it.
5. Condoms can break so screen who you do. If something about the gal does not look right, run.
6. If your a strip club or sugar dating hobbyist and your being pressured to make some kind of huge contribution or advance for services not rendered - run, don't worry if you lose the girl. So she drops you bc she can't rip you. good riddance. Just walk away.
7. The budget you set now for hobbying might be something a few years you consider excessive or addiction with anxiety attacks, panic attacks asking "how could I have done that" or "what was I thinking."
8. See a provider who allows you to take photos for your own personal hobbying photo album. These can be downloaded on your own password protected flash drive.
9. Try to concentrate on one or two go to girls - this reduces risks, etc. Having one girl who is available just about whenever you want her is best. Perhaps she is an x stripper who sees a handful of customers (or just does her husband and you) or a Sugar Baby off SA.
10. Find out what you prefer: Professional Escorts, Strippers, or women off Sugar Dating sites. Its not like you have to do your recruiting in one area. I have very specific preferences, expectations, and avoidances both in the woman I am seeing and her performance. Finding one I consider heisman level in all areas important to me can be tough. There are lots of walkons I encounter at Strip Clubs or SD sites. But can they make the team.