getting reference

[Guest110923]

Originally Posted by hobbycub

Which is why I sent her my info...... A "Yes, I verified you" would have been better than sending my home and work address

Im not going to lie.. that is a little creepy lol

[ShockerSteve]

Originally Posted by hobbycub

I went the verification route with a well known provider on here and she sent several messages back. "This is where you work" "This is where you live" showing me just how much info she dug up on me. Felt like I was being stalked.

I think that's an exception-that is a little unprofessional. Maybe known but that's not what I'd call "reputable." You can see in the national forums an occasional provider gone stalker but it's not commonplace. Proof further 411 and date-check is the way to go til you establish yourself.

[shayla84]

I'm always willing to break in newbie but I do all for some info, but always delete after session and I'm safe, iv broken in a lot of newbies!!!!

Don't listen to the dummy telling you to go to bp, I know I don't as well as many girls don't take bp refs, not to mention that's the easiest way to get into trouble you don't want to find your self in sweets...

[livn2do]

KC, spend the cash on P411 and Date Check initially. BP is not the place to start.
Once you are established on P411 and see a few known and verified providers and have established yourself as a hobbiest the world is your oyster. You can let that shit expire once you're known.

Word of advice. I understand the allure of BP. Hell even some well known providers use it when traveling but stick with the tried and true providers. Providers like Kay, Dallas, Renee, Andrea...I could on on but you understand. Yeah you'll pay a little more but the pay off is well worth it in the long run, not only in the level of service you will receive but in discretion as well. Quality trumps quantity every day of the week.

Don't be one of those assholes who spends the money to see to a known provider once and expect her to continue to give you a reference forever. Loyalty works both ways.

There are a lot of great people in this game. There are a lot of assholes as well. Be one of the good guys.

[dsmcurious]

Thanks for this post and the answers you guys have provided.
I've had the same questions after lurking on this site for quite some time. I even sent a pm to a gorgeous young lady...hope I didn't make her uncomfortable by asking in that way.

[Guest091515-1]

Let Shayla verify you and break you in. You'll have a good reference and a limp, exhausted dick.

[dsmcurious]

Originally Posted by pssymnchr2

Let Shayla verify you and break you in. You'll have a good reference and a limp, exhausted dick.

She is beautiful, but her Showcase states that she is no longer taking new clients in Iowa. Gotta respect her wishes and not ask for special favors. Thanks for the suggestion though, much appreciated.

[DallasRain]

well babe....I can break ya in really good ...lol!

[ShockerSteve]

The women active on eccie are legit. If one offers its valid...I'd rather break in with a shayla or Renee or Dallas or Kendall because they can show you a great experience in addition to helping you with other providers-you still have to pass screening but those are very safe ways to go.

If you want a different look then i stand by join d-c one month, see someone legit, and have them get you on p411 at the reduced newcomer rate-the best girls are on 411, hands down...

If you're looking for cheap thrills take your chance on bp but you won't have fun-you don't know what you're doing you're not gonna be able to put her at ease and you'll end up wondering what all the fuss is about.

Stick with verified providers here. Pm them and tell them your situation and follow their screening requirements - it is their safety after all- if that doesn't work d-c and if that doesnt work it could be you're not ready for the plunge. When you're uncertain, uncomfortable, and paranoid most girls sense it. If they can't allay your fears they'll move on there's no time for indecision.

[DallasRain]

YEP I am from Texas and we have a saying that is popular if you cannot do something one way...There is more than ONE way to skin a cat!

[topcat123124]

Yeah Dallas but what is the one way everyone knows