No AA Men

[quest4sin]

I recently learned/heard that seeing this is an add is a sign that the lady has a "handler". Not sure that I care much but was just wondering if this was true?

[Wizard of Ahhhhs]

Could be a whole bunch of different reasons, quest... I'm just leavin' it at that.

[quest4sin]

I figured as much. I was just wondering if it was sort of a standard code...thanks for the feedback

[JCM800]

Moved here from the ISO forum.

[Wizard of Ahhhhs]

Originally Posted by quest4sin

...I was just wondering if it was sort of a standard code...thanks for the feedback

For some providers, that may very well be true. But other reasons prevail, as well. Have fun!

[Old-T]

Agree with the Wiz. Some guys will tell you "No AA" means the lady has a Black pimp, but that is a serious overstatement. I know a few ladies very, very well who have a "no AA" policy, and every one of them as a different reason why.

[Guest090620-1]

I don't discriminate against black men. I just don't see young ones or thug types of any race. Most women are probably just trying to protect themselves from thugs.

[equation]

Well, by the ol'clock on the wall, it's time to shake the dust off of This subject. I'll just add one thing - the ladies I used to see who would have exceptions to that rule professionally, would date (almost exclusively) black guys in their personal lives. You can draw whatever conclusions from that that you want.

[Cleo]

Originally Posted by JessicaKCRabbit

I don't discriminate against black men. I just don't see young ones or thug types of any race. Most women are probably just trying to protect themselves from thugs.

But when you post on BP, do you post "no blacks" or "no blacks under a certain age" or do you post "no thugs?" Clearly many associate "thuggish" with "blacks?" For whatever reason, that seems to be the case. Fine, it's your body & in this hobby, we all have the right to have our boundaries(discriminate) as we see fit. No one is wrong for that. But in my profession & life's experiences, I've seen as many white thugs under 35-40 as I've seen black. Yet no one posts, "no white guys," or "no white guys under 35." Just pointing out the elephant in the room. Ladies, it's your business & no one can fault you for it. The same goes for clients, you like what you like. Let's just not act like it isn't what it is. It is in fact, discrimination(racism/prejudice or whatever term you choose to use) & in this particular instance(this hobby) we have the latitude to do so.

[DallasRain]

I have an AA policy---NO ARROGANT ASSHOLES!!!

[Wizard of Ahhhhs]

Originally Posted by DallasRain

I have an AA policy---NO ARROGANT ASSHOLES!!!

THREAD WINNER!!!

[SinsOfTheFlesh]

I am thinking of at least two ladies right now who have "No AA" in their showcases, who I am also reasonably certain do not have pimps. Of course, I can't know for certain that they aren't managed, but I think it highly unlikely.

So no, I don't think an NBA policy automatically means managed. The two may go together most of the time, but one does not automatically mean the other.

[Guest090620-1]

I put no black men under 35 on my bp ad. I do make exceptions in some cases if they present themselves correctly and aren't thuggish or aggressive. I think all of us women use different tactics in screening on an individual basis, asking questions to find out who someone is or how they may treat you.. I think discrimination is wrong but some stereo types are true and we need to be careful meeting ANY stranger, the color of one's skin doesn't make one more dangerous than the other. We take real life risks everyday. Some are easier to avoid than others. Whatever we do ladies, we just need to be safe. And I gotta agree Dallas out the icing on the cake for sure! :-p

[noleftturn]

Cleo, what I like and where I spend MY money does not make me a racist or anything associated to a form of racism. People who always play the race card are usually far more racist than most.

[thebuffmantraples]

Are we talking Racism or Discrimination?

To the OP if your interest still exist please read the whole entirety of the "National Sticky" on that no AA subject.

Discrimination is a whole other subject that only pertains to how to be "Safe in the Hobby". For discussions here Jessica together with all of us use it as a tool for staying out of the lime light of you know who!?! To each their own.


As far as management goes. Its always here and everywhere if any body has some issues discussing this entity please don't read what may come of this thread! You may be to soft for the truth, either way.

The Racism thang is just not a good subject here because we end up fragmenting instead of objectively covering it for the good, ijs. Not that tough of a subject really! Some folks here a very well evolved and fucking smart too. So congrats to you fine folks.