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Old 05-01-2015, 06:33 AM   #16
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Is there some reason you can not help someone who needs a hand without expecting something in return? Why not tell her she is worth helping, and simply do so, with no strings attached?

If you want to sleep with her, ask her out on a date because you find her sexually attractive. She just might go out with you. If you're married and there is no open agreement to have sex with others, oops! Ya shoulda indicated ya wanted that before ya got married...lol

If ya just wanna give her money to have sex with her, then tell her that too. Especially, if you are married. Be honest about your intentions and what you really want. Try not to be offensive by choosing your words as wisely as ya can, unless you find a Cyreno De Burgerac for this kinda thing...LOL

Lying about your intention is the worst you can do. Leaving out details about who you are and what you want from her is as bad as lying about it. This is why there are professional women who do this....lots and lots of different appealing choices. No need to drag her into this world if it isn't your heart's desire to lead a lady here. If ya believe it's the best she can do and you're doing a good thing for her, then do what your gut tells ya to do. You are the only one who will have to live with your decision, how you handled it, and what comes from it.

Good Luck!

Maxi that the perfect response! And it comes at a great time. As you can see I have tons of reviews. I see a lot of new HOT providers. Sadly I have over done it. Lately I have been feeling depressed that I never took the time to see old ladies. You know classy ones just like you. I'm out of hobby money as I blew my budget. I was wondering if you could help me out and perhaps offer me a "FREE" no strings attached session. One or two hours should do it. It's kind people like you that make a difference in the world. I look forward to hearing back from you ASAP!
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Old 05-01-2015, 07:52 AM   #17
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Might be for the challenge to see if he has enough game to play it off.
Then he's doing it wrong...life, that is...

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Because he wants to fuck her.
Yeah...I can fuck chicks too...and I don't have to worry about seeing them again, talking to them again, or pretending to care about what they say or do...
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Old 05-01-2015, 08:14 AM   #18
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Then he's doing it wrong...life, that is...



Yeah...I can fuck chicks too...and I don't have to worry about seeing them again, talking to them again, or pretending to care about what they say or do...

If you read the threaders posts you would say he has lived life and understands well the opportunity before him. He was just sharing for the good of him and us.

On topic. If the girl has two jobs, kids, head of house hold? She is just mismanaging money! Give her advice.
If you give her money without knowledge she will blow the money, enableling sound familiar? Give her advice and money to grow something right!?!
Then choose what kind of relation you want?
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Old 05-01-2015, 08:58 AM   #19
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If you read the threaders posts you would say he has lived life and understands well the opportunity before him. He was just sharing for the good of him and us.

On topic. If the girl has two jobs, kids, head of house hold? She is just mismanaging money! Give her advice.
If you give her money without knowledge she will blow the money, enableling sound familiar? Give her advice and money to grow something right!?!
Then choose what kind of relation you want?
I read his post and he seemed clueless. Came here to find out what to do.

What makes you think he is good with money? Just because he is old?
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Old 05-01-2015, 09:25 AM   #20
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I read his post and he seemed clueless. Came here to find out what to do.

What makes you think he is good with money? Just because he is old?

Didn't opine about his ability to manage money. Just that he realized the opportunity was there.
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Old 05-01-2015, 12:00 PM   #21
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Honestly, it sounds like she is ripe for a sugar daddy arrangement. It does sounds like she needs some mentoring to get her finances in order. Most civvies will feel more positive about being a SB versus a one off.

Tread carefully and respectfully.
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Old 05-01-2015, 12:40 PM   #22
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The rain on the parade marshall's have obviously missed me. Thanks, boys! LOL

Lucky, thank you! Obviously, my qualities have little appeal to a couple of gents who can not feel anything other than an orgasm. I have hope for them though. And, I do hope it goes your way. Why some gents have a problem with Others getting advice, only goes to show what they actually do or do not know. It's like looking through clear glass at times. Ya know?

SL, ya just couldn't handle it, hon. Even if you do often make me laugh out loud, I know that I'd never ever ever get the kind of pleasure from you, that I have discovered in others, but am flattered you asked. Continue in the hobby, or go fly a kite by yourself. I can see that in your future, but not me, hon. Not ever me. I believe in being firm about keeping things in perspective with gents I would never be tempted to share anything other than a laugh with from a distance, but I know you're not offended and how you'll bounce back in no time from being denied my personal charms, cause you got it ALL figured out! Best of luck, hon. And thank you again, for the laugh.
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Old 05-01-2015, 12:58 PM   #23
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Honestly, it sounds like she is ripe for a sugar daddy arrangement. It does sounds like she needs some mentoring to get her finances in order. Most civvies will feel more positive about being a SB versus a one off. Tread carefully and respectfully.
Best, and only workable answer presented.

Although wu & sl do continue to amuse.
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Old 05-01-2015, 01:37 PM   #24
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The OP should just get her committed to a slap & tickle date, then walk away, and buy coffee elsewhere.
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Old 05-01-2015, 05:32 PM   #25
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Is there some reason you can not help someone who needs a hand without expecting something in return? Why not tell her she is worth helping, and simply do so, with no strings attached?

If you want to sleep with her, ask her out on a date because you find her sexually attractive. She just might go out with you. If you're married and there is no open agreement to have sex with others, oops! Ya shoulda indicated ya wanted that before ya got married...lol

If ya just wanna give her money to have sex with her, then tell her that too. Especially, if you are married. Be honest about your intentions and what you really want. Try not to be offensive by choosing your words as wisely as ya can, unless you find a Cyreno De Burgerac for this kinda thing...LOL

Lying about your intention is the worst you can do. Leaving out details about who you are and what you want from her is as bad as lying about it. This is why there are professional women who do this....lots and lots of different appealing choices. No need to drag her into this world if it isn't your heart's desire to lead a lady here. If ya believe it's the best she can do and you're doing a good thing for her, then do what your gut tells ya to do. You are the only one who will have to live with your decision, how you handled it, and what comes from it.

Good Luck!
Totally agree--- and when the scenario that the OP presents, happens in RL, it is such a turn off. Who knows, maybe she would like a SB situation, but I can say that if it were me, you would lose my friendship. Women like to be thought of as something other than a pussy. JMO though!

First time ever I agree with Wakeup. ha ha!

Good luck, however you decide...
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Old 05-01-2015, 05:54 PM   #26
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Lucky 1, get ye over to the Sugar Daddy forum, and study until your eyes pop out of your head.

http://www.eccie.net/forumdisplay.php?f=1359
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Old 05-01-2015, 05:56 PM   #27
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Maxi that the perfect response! And it comes at a great time. As you can see I have tons of reviews. I see a lot of new HOT providers. Sadly I have over done it. Lately I have been feeling depressed that I never took the time to see old ladies. You know classy ones just like you. I'm out of hobby money as I blew my budget. I was wondering if you could help me out and perhaps offer me a "FREE" no strings attached session. One or two hours should do it. It's kind people like you that make a difference in the world. I look forward to hearing back from you ASAP!
Damn it, SL! Quit joking around like that!
You almost had me loosing faith in the economy.
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Old 05-01-2015, 07:22 PM   #28
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To the OP, get yourself to the Sugardaddy forum and READ! You have a potential SB just waiting for you.
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Old 05-01-2015, 09:44 PM   #29
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There's always a possibility that she may try stripping, then move onto providing utr. If she hasn't already gone on to doing body rubs on BP by now.
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Old 05-01-2015, 10:32 PM   #30
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My advice: Don't shit where you eat. Or rather, drink your coffee every day.
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