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i'va biggen · 04-11-2015, 02:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Savannah Moon

Still looking for one.. or have I exceeded the age limit!! I would love to unleash all of my NAUGHTY on one PASSIONATELY DESERVING MAN MMMMHMMM

No keep looking....

Mizzou82 · 04-11-2015, 03:54 PM

no matter how you shake it out, it is a guy you would not hang with or prolly have sex with if there wasn't $ flowing. My understanding is there are many form of SD/SB, not all of which expect the SB to quit providing or be monogamous. It takes a lot more trust than provider/client, whatever the rules you agree to. I would be curious to know how you defined the situation from the start, or if you did at all.

Guest013121 · 04-11-2015, 09:09 PM

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Originally Posted by LoveWomen

Question for Gemma:

What does your SD think of.you continuing to see clients while he is supporting you, or does.he.know?

No.disrespect intended, but is there an "understanding" about your work?

Who says I'm seeing clients?

Savannah Moon · 04-11-2015, 09:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Gemma34

Who says I'm seeing clients?

RIGHT ON!!

royamcr · 04-12-2015, 01:49 AM

I've been hanging out on SA for a month or so for some new scenery. Interesting for sure.

My latest LOL is this 44yo girl that is very pretty. Early on she wanted to meet at a hotel, but her text messages read horribly, could barely make out what she was wanting... So I just blew her off. A week later she said her gas was gonna be shut off and needed money. Again, eh, haven't even met you and hitting me up for $$... No thanks. It wasn't a lot, but still. I didn't hear from her for a few weeks, and out of the blue she messaged me on SA. Said to text her since she couldn't find my number (might be a good thing)... I waited for a day or so and said f it, shot her a text, she sent a couple pics. It was late and I kinda was thinking about going to meet her. Then she laid it on me, $800. I instant LOL'd her back. She said usually it is 500-1000 and she went in the middle. Ok..... So I am sitting here wondering is that a month? that wouldn't be too bad. O hell no, thats a week with 1 meet per week for an hour. I LOL'd her back again and she said most guys don't even balk at that. Whatever... Hope she loses my number again.

royamcr · 04-12-2015, 01:59 AM

By far the most interesting girl was a 39 y/o chick that has been in prison since she was 17. It doesn't take a genius to figure out what she must have done since you don't get that kind of time for robbing a convenience store, even armed robbery.. Since I knew what kind of crime I was looking for I did some searching around that 1993 year. Now this is very early internet days so not much if anything out there news wise. But then I found it. Plead Guilty to 2nd degree murder. Some long time kansas citians might remember the news, but it was long before I moved here. There wasn't much info on the original charges since it never went to trial, but that probably would have been a death penalty if it went to trial. So 2nd degree and jail was her best option. She seemed nice and just made a big mistake as a minor...

(Note to self: Hide the knives when she is around)

royamcr · 04-12-2015, 02:14 AM

Another interesting story is a girl that lists herself as living in North KC. Come to find out she lives in Richmond. Not a long ways away but not very convenient for a quick romp. Cute short girl, sent me some naked pics for sending her a pizza and mountain dew. lol. So then it came, water bill was due and power was gonna be shut off. Not a huge amount maybe $400 total, probably would have just paid it if she was closer. But her with no car and kids to take care of it seemed like a situation that would never pan out. If I was going to do it I at least wanted to know a little more about her. I don't know if she let it slip but she used a unique name in one of her messages, different than her screen name. I searched facebook for that name in Richmond and her page came up. Wouldn't you know, engaged to a 450lb black guy. Wow.... I'm like what the f is he doing to help out???? I sures the fuck am not going to send money so he can sit on his fat ass in front of a TV eating chips all day. In a round about way the next day I asked "what's <name> gonna do if his TV goes off with no power"? I got a response like "who???", but she knew then I knew more than she wanted me to know about her situation. Investment so far 24$ for pizza.... To be continued... maybe.

Unique_Carpenter · 04-12-2015, 02:35 AM

Thanks Roy

Unique_Carpenter · 04-12-2015, 02:51 AM

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Originally Posted by Gemma34

... it's something that falls into place. It's something like a relationship with extra added benefits...

Agree

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Originally Posted by i'va biggen

.. you are better off with a provider you hit it off with

But is that not a variation?

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Originally Posted by Nero Wolfe

... A successful relationship seems to be fairly rare and takes an effort from both sides.

Agree

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Originally Posted by Savannah Moon

Still looking for one.. or have I exceeded the age limit!! I would love to unleash all of my NAUGHTY on one PASSIONATELY DESERVING MAN MMMMHMMM

(no such thing as an age limit)

Here's a thought, I've seen more than a handful of "definitions" over the last two pages. I would think the four I quoted above are the closest to an appropriate understanding.

Guest022016 · 04-12-2015, 03:32 PM

Honestly, it doesn't seem to pay off...significant pay cut. I highly doubt anyone would be willing to match my current income or exceed it and seems like there would be control issues, as well, which isn't appealing to me. You do have to work harder as a regular provider but well worth the independence. Some ladies can be a good SB but I would be terrible at it (even though it seems appealing at times) besides I like the variety of being a provider and not having to answer to anyone. Pros and cons to everything...I'd weigh them out prior to making an agreement.

Unique_Carpenter · 04-12-2015, 04:19 PM

Thank you Sara,
Thus, it only works in selected situations where both folks have matching expectations.

royamcr · 04-12-2015, 04:31 PM

I think Sara hit it on the Variety part. So a guy wants a Sugar Baby, how long is he going to be happy with just one? Can he afford 2 or 3 and fully fund all three living expenses while maintaining the illusion of only having one SB? On the flip side, can a SB afford to have one SD to rely on for living expenses? That's called putting all your eggs in one basket... If a SD loses a SB, its not that big of deal, life goes on. If a SB loses a SD, that's her living going away so it is a big deal.

macguy50 · 04-12-2015, 05:13 PM

Olivia to your question about how to approach the subject with a client, I appreciate a girl I have been seeing regularly letting me know she is interested in me as an SD. I have had a couple of great ones, and also a couple of epic fails. If I connect with a woman as a client I will consider something more permanent. It can be good for both people.

macguy50 · 04-12-2015, 05:17 PM

Oh and I use Ashley Madison mostly to check out the SB hopefuls. Only one has panned out as a keeper, but the rest are entertaining stories ;-)

Mizzou82 · 04-12-2015, 06:08 PM

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Originally Posted by MissSaraXXX

Honestly, it doesn't seem to pay off...significant pay cut. I highly doubt anyone would be willing to match my current income or exceed it and seems like there would be control issues, as well, which isn't appealing to me. You do have to work harder as a regular provider but well worth the independence. Some ladies can be a good SB but I would be terrible at it (even though it seems appealing at times) besides I like the variety of being a provider and not having to answer to anyone. Pros and cons to everything...I'd weigh them out prior to making an agreement.

Aren't there agreements where you still provide but lock up so many sessions, nights out, or whatever a month for a lower rate than by the hour?