Just found out :(

[SouthernDude127]

Just found out just a few moments ago that one of my closest friends from work passed away this morning in ICU. He was on his way to recovering from surgery of a tumor (I suppose) but took a turn yesterday.

Though he was my friend, I considered him as a family member. He was one of those guys who did anything for you without complaining or saying no. He was a very young 60 years old.

[GlobeSpotter]

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[SouthernDude127]

Really dude? At least you could show some sympathy.

[Guest041216]

Sorry for your loss hun he sounded like an awesome friend! Keep your thoughts positive he is in a way better place!

[SouthernDude127]

Thank you JJ! That means a lot.

[DallasRain]

So sorry for your loss...

I wish ya a happier week!!!

[SouthernDude127]

Thank you Dallas! You have been so nice since last April and especially after my car accident. lol

For being such a queen, I bow to you!

[Marshpirate]

Sorry Dude. Prayers out.

[Nicolet]

Not to be a noodge, its difficult to offer sympathy to someone grieving for a dear, close friend one minute, and then next he wants someone to sit on his face.
Different people grieve differently, maybe?

[SouthernDude127]

First off Nicolet, don't judge a book by its cover. I have met Dallas before and she has helped me out outside of the hobby with support and encouragement after my car accident and I respect Dallas Rain as a person for doing that.

Secondly, there is nothing wrong with a distraction after a rough day. So yes, it is normal for someone who wants a distraction after a difficult

[SouthernDude127]

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[Nicolet]

I wasn't judging, and if I am not mistaken, I offered condolences to you after your accident as well.
I had a very close friend who was a member here pass away a few years ago and it was extremely painful to lose him. So much so that I left the board for a while.
As I said, people must grieve differently.

[DallasRain]

My sweet friend....just cherish the memory!!

I still grieve for my dad who passed away ten years ago...especially the holidays are hard!
{when I go to his grave next week,it will be the first time in four years...it is still painful to go there}..but I promised my mom I would go help her decorate his grave for spring.

[Guest123018]

Sorry for your loss

[LA Man]

Originally Posted by Nicolet

Not to be a noodge, its difficult to offer sympathy to someone grieving for a dear, close friend one minute, and then next he wants someone to sit on his face.
Different people grieve differently, maybe?

Nic when I'm down one of the first things I want to pic me up is companionship. Endorphins always make one feel better.

Add the thought of one sitting on my face and a smile comes. Hmmm I recall vividly how that looks when you sit one my face.

Sorry for the loss.