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tbts7 · 02-06-2015, 07:03 PM

I am obviously new to the hobby and I was just recently verified on p411 but still have no okays or references. I recently asked a provider in my city to set up an appointment. Her profile said she was open to members with references only. When I asked for an appointment she asked me no questions except what time and said everything was good to go. It seemed way too easy for me and has me slightly spooked out. All her ads state she requires references - is me having p411 enough to override that? Just want to make sure it's not sketch. She has many positive reviews but just want to know if I should be concerned?

fishboy · 02-06-2015, 07:30 PM

If the reviews are current I wouldn't worry too much (but that doesn't mean blame me if it goes sour!) did you access her thru p411? And does her profile there say +1 or +2? Maybe she is having a slow week. Unfortunately ya never know. You could ask her. Or maybe when you PMed her you politely introduced yourself and told her your position and she accepted that (along with p411+0 OKs). At some point you will have to just jump in the water to start to swim but understand your trepidation as I was there just a short time ago

YoHou · 02-06-2015, 07:31 PM

It should be enough, but some girls require P411+okays.

Jannisary · 02-06-2015, 08:33 PM

Some providers will advertise as "with references" or + so many OKs but if things are slow or if they feel comfortable with the situation they will see a "newbie". They don't advertise as "newbie friendly" because in reality they really prefer to see guys with references and OKs. If she has fairly recent positive reviews you should be good. Consider yourself lucky that she's cutting you a little break on the requirements, treat her nice, have a fun time and then send her an OK request after the appointment.

nanette3480 · 02-07-2015, 12:35 AM

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Originally Posted by Jannisary

Some providers will advertise as "with references" or + so many OKs but if things are slow or if they feel comfortable with the situation they will see a "newbie". They don't advertise as "newbie friendly" because in reality they really prefer to see guys with references and OKs. If she has fairly recent positive reviews you should be good. Consider yourself lucky that she's cutting you a little break on the requirements, treat her nice, have a fun time and then send her an OK request after the appointment.

I agree with you on this..

RALPHEY BOY · 02-07-2015, 11:13 AM

i know that feeling, when they respond to fast then you think, hmmm must be a pimp or set up.. if they respond to slow then you blow them off.. happy medium is the best

nanette3480 · 02-07-2015, 11:34 AM

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Originally Posted by RALPHEY BOY

i know that feeling, when they respond to fast then you think, hmmm must be a pimp or set up.. if they respond to slow then you blow them off.. happy medium is the best

When responding...I try to find a happy medium, but it doesn't always work out that way..