Emotional Involvement in Regards to Whores and the Boards never takes one where they want to be

[Whispers]

The word "whore" is a descriptive one that deserves no emotional attachment. If you let it affect you in a negative manner than you have issues you need to deal with because far more think of the word in regards to the profession than might use it in your presence.

I am sure you have read reviews of your time with guys (don't verify that) that were overly descriptive and dehumanizing but were in fact an accurate reflection of time spent. The ladies here are "still human beings and deserve respect" right? Yet the reviews are popular and wrote for the guys,

My problem here is the "motivation" behind many of the guys that "defend" the whores here. In many it is shallow and only done seeking approval and attention....

It is also the premise that the ladies are incapable of defending themselves which is even more an issue because of the fact that the ladies here represent the "professional" side of the relationship...

Do you want to be defended by someone SIMPLY because you are a lady without regards to whether or not you are right?

Because many find that to be belittling and demeaning as well.

[JohnnyYanks]

Originally Posted by Whispers

... My problem here is ... seeking approval and attention...

That's quite well documented.

But, hey, acknowledgement of a problem is the first step to fixing it. So good job (even if it was subliminal - your subconscious is clearly crying out!)

[Ms. Milani]

By no means am I offended by the word whore. I am a whore and a proud one at that.

I haven't seen much white Knights lately but I have seen people bashing, humiliating, and dehumanizing others. And now the Co ed has over 3 pages of it. Now my question to you is what if a whore is being bashed for something she actually didn't do? Is it really that hard to believe that we aren't all cheap hookers waiting to steal every client's money? Why do you automatically view the worst in whores and get upset if someone mentions the good? That's a lot of negative energy you're holding on to. We aren't all bad whores. And some guys see that and respect that. If they want to speak up for us then it's their choice. Forgive me, because I just cannot understand why it bothers you so much.

And to answer your question on why some choose not to defend themselves is because their reputation speaks for itself. You know how reputation are spread? By word of mouth, reviews, comments, etc. The entire meaning of this board is to share information on whores. Getting mad at gents for speaking good of whores (even when others bash them) is still technically sharing information. Or perhaps I misunderstood the meaning of this board.

[JohnnyYanks]

Originally Posted by Malaya Milani

By no means am I offended by the word whore. I am a whore and a proud one at that.

I haven't seen much white Knights lately but I have seen people bashing, humiliating, and dehumanizing others. And now the Co ed has over 3 pages of it. Now my question to you is what if a whore is being bashed for something she actually didn't do? Is it really that hard to believe that we aren't all cheap hookers waiting to steal every client's money? Why do you automatically view the worst in whores and get upset if someone mentions the good? That's a lot of negative energy you're holding on to. We aren't all bad whores. And some guys see that and respect that. If they want to speak up for us then it's their choice. Forgive me, because I just cannot understand why it bothers you so much.

And to answer your question on why some choose not to defend themselves is because their reputation speaks for itself. You know how reputation are spread? By word of mouth, reviews, comments, etc. The entire meaning of this board is to share information on whores. Getting mad at gents for speaking good of whores (even when others bash them) is still technically sharing information. Or perhaps I misunderstood the meaning of this board.

Nicely said, Miss MM. I appreciate your passion.

Might I be so bold as to inquire - have you cast your vote yet (sounded like a "harpoon" vote to me)? If not, please add your voice here: http://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1286901

[Still Looking]

I never use the "W" word. I prefer hooker / escort / ATF.

[JohnnyYanks]

Originally Posted by Still Looking

I never use the "W" word. I prefer hooker / escort / ATF.

[Whispers]

Originally Posted by Malaya Milani

By no means am I offended by the word whore. I am a whore and a proud one at that.

I haven't seen much white Knights lately but I have seen people bashing, humiliating, and dehumanizing others. And now the Co ed has over 3 pages of it.

Most of what is currently in CoEd is oriented towards only a handful of people that have gone out of their way to seek the negative attention they are getting. The many pages of it are the result of the conflict they sought.

Now my question to you is what if a whore is being bashed for something she actually didn't do?

You would have to read my opinions in cases where those situations come out. In most cases it is a matter of he said/she said and although it is against guidelines I believe those type of threads should be limited only those parties with actual knowledge of the event. 100s of women post in the forums I post in where they can and only a couple tend to get singled out for a specific remark towards them

Is it really that hard to believe that we aren't all cheap hookers waiting to steal every client's money?

I don't believe that at all. Nor do I understand why you would feel that way unless you are being targeted with that in mind. I think the mistake you and others make is that you feel comments towards one are meant as an overal opinion of you as well.

Why do you automatically view the worst in whores and get upset if someone mentions the good?

I don't.... I have several good friends that are whores and not a month goes by that I do not find myself having dinner or drinks with them meeting new ones every month.... I host as well as go to parties, get sought out and answer questions all the time that people tend to understand.

A problem with many of the guys that jump to the defense of a "whore" is that they are the same guys that are getting in the way of the free flow of information. They pervert as well as stifle the review process often driving off new members that decide it's not worth the hassle.... the board is about information.... NOT just the good information or the information people THINK is relevant..... it's about ALL the information anyone has to offer that is relevant about the lady.

That's a lot of negative energy you're holding on to. LOL! No one that has ever met me seems to think I hold on to negative energy.... I assure you I do not.

We aren't all bad whores. And some guys see that and respect that. If they want to speak up for us then it's their choice. Forgive me, because I just cannot understand why it bothers you so much. I explained it above....

And to answer your question on why some choose not to defend themselves is because their reputation speaks for itself. You know how reputation are spread? By word of mouth, reviews, comments, etc. The entire meaning of this board is to share information on whores. Getting mad at gents for speaking good of whores (even when others bash them) is still technically sharing information. Or perhaps I misunderstood the meaning of this board.

The biggest thing you do not understand is how WKs often get in the way of information flowing freely and without being censored......

Many years ago I wrote an honest and accurate review of a lady that included activities that her reputation indicated she did not do. Her WKs raised a fuss and a MOD was one of them and the review was erased from that board. The owner contacted the lady who verified that everything IN the review was accurate.... The MOD was dismissed and the review was re-posted and the WKs went even crazier....... That was the first MOD that was relieved of being a MOD over the years as a result of my willingness to standup and fight for the right of information to flow freely......

That type of activity still goes on and in many cases guys that get bombarded by PMs from other guys actually edit their reviews to suit what they want...... Many guys that review are afraid to post NEGATIVE reviews.......

It tends to be many of the same guys in every city.....

There are hundreds of threads here that I never offer an opinion on..... But certain members that regularly get in the way or seek to engage in over zealousness I do tend to say something about

[JohnnyYanks]

Originally Posted by Whispers

... as a result of my willingness to standup and fight for the right .....

A true Man of the People!

I believe I speak for many when I say, Thank You for your Service.

[Precious_b]

Originally Posted by Whispers

The word "whore" is a descriptive one that deserves no emotional attachment. If you let it affect you in a negative manner than you have issues you need to deal with because far more think of the word in regards to the profession than might use it in your presence.
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I find it says alot about the character of a person who will refer to women with an emotionally void word but will not refer to themselve in the same way.

Some would say they are debasing the women to make themselves look like a mightier than thou person.

MM, good post. Myself, I don't see a woman for the fact they are a "whore" alone. I like to see a person who is more rounded than that as an individual. That is not the main objective of this Board. Just like finding a girlfriend or using the site as a dating service are not objectives here and not what this site is for.

But sometimes, when doing ones' research on who to visit, you can find more than a woman who will do more than just accept you coming over for BCD as a client/server. You can actually make a few acquaintenances who might even become friends.

You never know where you will find a friend.

I know alot of Hobbyist and Providers that have found friends here.

And that doesn't go against what this site is.

[Little Miss Cuntcakes]

Did yalls manstrations sync up or what?!
We're all whores. You men included.
WHORE is just a fucking word. Get over it.

This is a public forum. We are all entitled to our views and opionions. And have said choice to voice it if we choose. No one is above anyone on this motherfucker. Its social network, if you think otherwise. You have bigger issues than most and should reevaluate your priorities.
Play nice bitches.
-Jae

[Guest081519]

Originally Posted by Little Miss Cuntcakes

Did yalls manstrations sync up or what?!
We're all whores. You men included.
WHORE is just a fucking word. Get over it.

This is a public forum. We are all entitled to our views and opionions. And have said choice to voice it if we choose. No one is above anyone on this motherfucker. Its social network, if you think otherwise. You have bigger issues than most and should reevaluate your priorities.
Play nice bitches.
-Jae

Well said whore.

Sincerely,

A whore

[blasphemouse]

It's okay guys. The Super Bowl is on. Which one is winning?

[Milfhunter1]

Call me what you want, I could care less. "Escort" to me sounds more respectful, than whore.

[Dave734]

I'm not made of wood.
Even if it's a hobby, I can't deny in any way that I am interacting with another human being... and I do believe in the golden rule.

Overall, I like to think that overwhelmingly, the girls I've met here have been awesome with me and I really have very few bad experiences. Sometimes some people may piss you off for little things, but in the end time tells if the other person wishes to move on or give the professional relationship another chance.

[NavyManSA2004]

Originally Posted by inspector farquar

... says the tard with 13000 posts! And LONG ones like this one. Hey, Camille, that a MONTH's worth of my posts (last night excepted) - am I right?

I'll start a poll: who read beyond the 1st paragraph?

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