What separates the UTR pro from the forever ad posting pro?

[Windinhishair]

I could be guessing incorrectly but I assume most if not all providers would prefer just having enough steady high paying regulars that they could easily coast UTR .

It's a given that newbie providers need to advertise and build up a rep and client base.

The question:

Some providers are easily able to build a stable of "Bucks" (s'cues the pun) and vanish.
Some do so very quickly upon entering the scene while others build up their collection over a year or two before vanishing.
We might see an occasional ad now and then just to replace drop offs.

Meanwhile other amazing seasoned providers with all great reviews are still forever having to advertise and stay in the public eye to pay the bills.

What is that "Thing" that separates the two?

[Claire She Blows]

The thing? Being horrible at saving money. And liking expensive things. It's difficult to walk away from something shiny at the store when in your head, "that'll only cost me an hour" or "three hours would totally make up for me buying this." I'm a terribly impulsive shopper and I don't like cheap shit.

And then there are those who are in no hurry to leave, feel no shame in being a provider, who enjoy this way of life. Just give me all the dick, please.

[NikkiWhite]

Everyone is different and we all have varying goals or definitions of success in this industry.

I usually assume and this is just an opinion that UTR providers have real world jobs or children that are old enough to catch on to what mommy is doing, or even just to many friends or relatives to take the chance of meeting to many new clients. Probably just supplementing income.

For me personally this is my only job outside of being a mom at the moment and my child is way too young to put the pieces of the puzzle together so advertising often and taking new clients weekly is not an issue for me. Seeing just repeat clients where I live could certainly pay my bills (mind you im in expensive ass California paying twice as much rent for an apartment than people in Texas pay for their effn home mortgage) but I wouldn't have much in the way of savings or emergency funds.

Taking more clients now and advertising regularly is helping me get to a point financially when I can eventually become more UTR without downgrading my lifestyle, then eventually retire when I feel I can't fib too my child anymore and have to get a real job again.

[NikkiWhite]

Originally Posted by Claire She Blows

The thing? Being horrible at saving money. And liking expensive things. It's difficult to walk away from something shiny at the store when in your head, "that'll only cost me an hour" or "three hours would totally make up for me buying this." I'm a terribly impulsive shopper and I don't like cheap shit.

And then there are those who are in no hurry to leave, feel no shame in being a provider, who enjoy this way of life. Just give me all the dick, please.

Lol I thought I was the only one who saw price tags this way!

"That vs bra is only 15 mins of sucking dick I totally can afford that!"

[Guest010218]

Ms Nikki,

I tried ot send you PM but your inbox is full. Please PM me when you can.

[Bob McV]

as many reasons as there are stars in the sky.

I love the utr ones that complain about it being slow. Toss out an ad I say I'll look desperate and I don't want to deal with the flood of PMs (Ie: the non-bcd part of the job)


On the other end, I think there are a few that advertise weekly+ because if they don't their senile regulars will assume they quit.

[Whispers]

Originally Posted by Windinhishair

What is that "Thing" that separates the two?

I've made the comment a lot of times that the really great girls in the mix run their ads, make their money and we seldom or never see them post.


I'm gonna break providers into 3 categories of full service providers in order to offer my opinion.


The Young and Physically Fit!

#1 cause of Ads being posted at every opportunity as well as threAds is addiction. Addiction can take form in a variety of bad habits and often drive the need for more and more money......

#2 cause of Ads being posted at every opportunity as well as threAds is some deadbeat guy in the background in the form of a non-working SO, Pimp or other form of management.

I don't think a lot of the girls in this category stick around UTR.... I think they make their money and get out...usually because of some guy they want to keep...... or they get caught and get out..... The few that stick around UTR tend to be rare in having a well defined goal and find a few of the right guys to stick with....


The BBW, Almost BBW and I'm just curvacious ones.....

#1 cause of Ads being posted at every opportunity as well as threAds is a desire for attention and loneliness.

#2 cause of Ads being posted at every opportunity as well as threAds is "growing" competition in a limited market

Those in this category that stick around UTR find a few of the right guys to stick with.... More than other categories I believe these girls tend to form exit plans and execute on them better than others.... I've seen/heard of more of these gals completing education programs and starting careers than the other two....


The more mature older ones......

#1 cause of Ads being posted at every opportunity as well as threAds is a desire for attention and loneliness.

#2 cause of Ads being posted at every opportunity as well as threAds is the shrinking of their potential client base as their desirability wanes over the years.

I think #1 and #2 are too close to call

#3 cause of Ads being posted at every opportunity as well as threAds is addiction. Addiction can take form in a variety of bad habits and often drive the need for more and more money...... Claire's self described shopping habit for example.

Those in this category that go UTR find a few of the right guys to stick with.... Those that get out marry their way out...... Not necessarily someone from the community....

I believe there are a few exceptions to each of the three groups as I defined them in offering my opinion.

[Whispers]

Originally Posted by NikkiWhite

Lol I thought I was the only one who saw price tags this way!

"That vs bra is only 15 mins of sucking dick I totally can afford that!"

LMAO!


and then there are the really creative and practical thinkers!

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by Whispers

LMAO!


and then there are the really creative and practical thinkers!

I'm sure glad "we" don't need bras.

[atxhrny]

Originally Posted by Claire She Blows

The thing? Being horrible at saving money. And liking expensive things. It's difficult to walk away from something shiny at the store when in your head, "that'll only cost me an hour" or "three hours would totally make up for me buying this." I'm a terribly impulsive shopper and I don't like cheap shit.

And then there are those who are in no hurry to leave, feel no shame in being a provider, who enjoy this way of life. Just give me all the dick, please.

Love that kind of honesty. So, so sexy.

extra credit for "and I don't like cheap shit"

[Claire She Blows]

Originally Posted by atxhrny

Love that kind of honesty. So, so sexy.

extra credit for "and I don't like cheap shit"

[flinde]

Originally Posted by Still Looking

I'm sure glad "we" don't need bras.

speak for yourself my friend

[knotty man]

im the same way with providers
i see a "shiny one" and im i like "fuck the electric bill, i got candles!"

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by flinde

speak for yourself my friend

Originally Posted by knotty man

im the same way with providers
i see a "shiny one" and im i like "fuck the electric bill, i got candles!"

[Ebony Jasmine Love Austin]

Ya'll are a pretty funny bunch.
I mean every thread has me cracking up tonight.

XO