Is it Appropriate to contact a friend who doesnt know you know shes a provider??

[Guest071217-1]

No way.

[pleasher46]

Originally Posted by Seeking ~P

Let the past be the past

Originally Posted by AlexisMoore

Bad idea for several reasons
1. She may not want to play or see anybody that she knows in real world. So her shooting you down could be a huge blow to you. And may not end well.
2. She's a provider. We love our guys to have fun, play, give pleasure, etc. But when feelings get involved, we tend to Let go of those guys. Why? Cause jealous guys makes for bad business. And this is her business.

If you like her so much, see if maybe she would feel comfortable seeing you first. Let her decide. And please, don't just book an appointment and show up. Could freak her out bad.

Yes Im beginning to see the negitive twist... I would soon begin to miss the time we use to spend having lunches together and our playtime as friends. It would all go bad fast.. If she declined to see me because we had been friends it would hurt me. If she did see me it would hurt soon after as It began to sink in I was now no more importent to her than I am any other provider. ( dont get me wrong iv been friends with providers before, but it stays client first casual, friend 2nd).. It kinda sucks.. So close but yet so far.. She doesnt even know Im in Houston. Think I better listen to the providers on this one as you girls may know better whats in a fellow providers heart. And I dont want to freak her out or cause her to fear having her ad up anymore either.

[Russ38]

Feelings? WTF are those? Go for it dude.....

[pyramider]

Don't listen to the naysayers. They are all just jealous of your good fortune. Make an appointment and plow that kitty ...

[ElisabethWhispers]

Horrible idea. I would hate it if an old boyfriend, or sometimes lover, came out of the shadows (knowing my real everything) and said, "Hi, Elisabeth! I know who you are and I know what you do!"

Once I discovered that my fainting didn't lead to a heart attack and that I'm still alive, I would be pissed off. Not happy. Slightly scared, according to who the heck you are, and then some.

Not a good idea. Let the past be the past. Smile to yourself that you have some hidden knowledge of another person.

And be the better man (Take the high road? Any number of platitudes apply here.) and let this one go. Don't contact her.

[Camille Fox]

Originally Posted by ElisabethWhispers

Horrible idea. I would hate it if an old boyfriend, or sometimes lover, came out of the shadows (knowing my real everything) and said, "Hi, Elisabeth! I know who you are and I know what you do!"

Once I discovered that my fainting didn't lead to a heart attack and that I'm still alive, I would be pissed off. Not happy. Slightly scared, according to who the heck you are, and then some. (...)

... especially when she finds out you could be PMing her name around... If you haven't yet, don't. It would be really weird if someone I know from the RW were PMing ppl on the board after discussing our relationship prior to me being a provider...


In this day and age where ppl can keep in touch with old friends through Facebook and the likes, if you guys are no longer in touch, there's a good reason for it. If you do want to try to reconnect without being creepy, just send her a friend request or something...

Camille

[pleasher46]

Originally Posted by CamilleFox69

... especially when she finds out you could be PMing her name around... If you haven't yet, don't. It would be really weird if someone I know from the RW were PMing ppl on the board after discussing our relationship prior to me being a provider...


In this day and age where ppl can keep in touch with old friends through Facebook and the likes, if you guys are no longer in touch, there's a good reason for it. If you do want to try to reconnect without being creepy, just send her a friend request or something...

Camille

I have had repeated request to PM her name and also to give intials.. I have refused any and all request for this out of repect... everyone needs to be clear on this. stop asking

[Guest030824]

Just set a session with her don't bring out your past together. Just show up at the door and pretend you don't remember her. Than write a long review with details this has the makings of a great drama. Perhaps this may be made into a movie.

[pleasher46]

Originally Posted by pleasher46

I have had repeated request to PM her name and also to give intials.. I have refused any and all request for this out of repect... everyone needs to be clear on this. stop asking

Think iv already accepted That it would be better to not see her.

[Russ38]

Smh at you tards.....this could have been solid gold entertainment for days....now I gotta figure out something else to do at work all this week.....

[Tetas]

To heck with all the naysayers!
You KNOW the girl, hit her up on facebook, post on her wall that you saw she's hooking now and ask for an appointment!
Jeeze, you guys make this shit so hard when it ain't gotta be!

[GlobeSpotter]

It turned out good for the last guy.

He's not sharing handle .... cuz she's fat.

[Guest030824]

NO keep her name to your self. Just schedule a date with your handle. She may not remember you after she rotated through all of those guys as a civie.

[Russ38]

^^^^^ True shit.....I run across chics all the time that I know I fucked 'em, just don't remember if I paid them or if they were civilian.....either way it's inconsequential, just create a diversion an GTFO....problem solved.....

[Guest061814]

If you know her name and you can't find her some legitimate way, then your e either not looking very hard or she really doesn't want to be found..

I have people finding me on FB and linked in all the time. I either respond or ignore. No biggie.