NBA policy

[FireKitten]

Things in a lady's ad can provoke nasty responses. No AA, (for whatever her own reasons), is one of them.

[Guest110416]

Originally Posted by OldLRRP

If I saw an ad that said NOWM (no old white men) I'd move on and be thankful that I didn't waste my money.

Exactly.

If a provider posts in her ad, showcase, ect. that she has any type of policy that you do not agree with, instead of getting all huffy and puffy (like that is going to change her mind), pay her no mind and keep on looking. It is her loss, but it is also her choice. And starting a thread and complaining about it only makes you look bad. I do agree with the OP that a provider does need to be clear about all her policies up front in the ads or her profile and that way, there are no surprises that are laid upon the hobbyist after he has gone all the way across town to her incall then she springs any unwritten policy on him (SURPRISE!). And if that is case, she should be called out and a review done and attached to her profile.

[Roger.Smith]

There's a provider here that doesn't see uncut overweight men over a certain age, people got huffy about that too. People get huffy when they are part of an excluded group, it sucks but it's best to forget about it and move on.

[Prolongus]

Originally Posted by FireKitten

Things in a lady's ad can provoke nasty responses. No AA, (for whatever her own reasons), is one of them.

Can you elaborate? I can't imagine myself being any angrier showing up and the Provider telling me that she doesn't see my type vs. her letting me know in her ads and Showcase.

While we're on the subject, what other things in ads provoke nasty responses?
Very curious...

[Kimberdoll]

It is OKAY for black people to be racist against white people, dont you know that by now? I mean had a white person given blacks permission to eat fried chicken after voting recently that would have been all over the news. Had a black cop shot a white person in Ferguson no riots would have ever happened.

Get over it, and move on. Stop making it out that the person is racist. A BEST friend of mine stationed in Texas happens to be a smoking hot black man. I dont want to fuck him, no attraction. Nothing to do with his skin color, but everything to do with a personal preference in the type of guys I desire.

And by the way, the good upstanding black men are being done in by the thugs who make things harder for them. If you look at the alerts, the majority of alerts are about black men robbing, raping, etc. But God forbid anyone point that out. Ill be called racist for saying this but oh well, the worst thing that will happen is that I wont be contacted by black men. I dont care. I see white only, and I mean WHITE only. And why? Because I CAN! There are no equal opportunity laws governing the hobby, and I THANK GOD for that!

Originally Posted by Chung Tran

I did see that, someone posted the BP ad here, around April (?).. I called the # out of curiosity, asked why she didn't see Whites.. she said she had a couple of bad experiences, that's all..

if a black guy asked a white provider why she is NBA, and got the same answer, what would you think?

[Roger.Smith]

Originally Posted by Kimberdoll

It is OKAY for black people to be racist against white people, dont you know that by now? I mean had a white person given blacks permission to eat fried chicken after voting recently that would have been all over the news. Had a black cop shot a white person in Ferguson no riots would have ever happened.

Get over it, and move on. Stop making it out that the person is racist. A BEST friend of mine stationed in Texas happens to be a smoking hot black man. I dont want to fuck him, no attraction. Nothing to do with his skin color, but everything to do with a personal preference in the type of guys I desire.

And by the way, the good upstanding black men are being done in by the thugs who make things harder for them. If you look at the alerts, the majority of alerts are about black men robbing, raping, etc. But God forbid anyone point that out. Ill be called racist for saying this but oh well, the worst thing that will happen is that I wont be contacted by black men. I dont care. I see white only, and I mean WHITE only. And why? Because I CAN! There are no equal opportunity laws governing the hobby, and I THANK GOD for that!

Wow. Today on: Ignorant Rants

How long have you been waiting to post that. The OP didn't say anything about racism, in fact he seems to want women to don't see AA's to be more upfront about it. Your response says a lot about you.

[Kimberdoll]

I was quoting the Tran post. How it is acceptable for black racism. Never see a post as to why they dont see white guys or the reasons.

Yeh it says a lot about me, I have opinion and not afraid to voice it.

[Chung Tran]

I'm curious if the way an NBA policy is presented makes any difference.. obviously no is no, the policy is still there.. for example, this would aggravate me..

http://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1218651

that top line, in bold print.. might as well say "if you're black, get back"!

maybe she's been misunderstood before, and feels that presentation works best, gets any doubt out of the way.. just looks harsh to me.

[EZ.]

I think a lot of young black guys see me and assume I'm an old racist. You catch that attitude and wonder if it is just me or all white people.
When I want to take the boat out for some fishing, the first person I think of is a black guy. We went fishing together all summer. I have a lot of black friends. I wouldn't have nearly as much fun if it wasn't for them.

[Kayleehotchick]

I haven't read all the comments but for a provider it is damn if you do and damned if you don't.

Blame it on the guys who like to harass the shit out of chick who DO post their AA policy on their ads. One guy is NOTORIOUS for going ape shit on chicks who admit they see AA.

But I agree, ladies SHOULD state that in the ads clearly but to some, it's not worth the headache.

Sorry you have to go through this.

[Randall Creed]

Originally Posted by Kayleehotchick

I haven't read all the comments but for a provider it is damn if you do and damned if you don't.

Blame it on the guys who like to harass the shit out of chick who DO post their AA policy on their ads. One guy is NOTORIOUS for going ape shit on chicks who admit they see AA.

But I agree, ladies SHOULD state that in the ads clearly but to some, it's not worth the headache.

Sorry you have to go through this.

Oh, you mean like...being DAMNED for being black? God, doesn't it suck? People judging you, assuming the worst of you and stuff. Maaaan, yeah that sucks, especially when you know you haven't done anything or isn't like what they prejudge you for.

Blame on guys who harass the shit out of chicks, eh? Do you mean like that black guy on youtube who harasses and prank calls escorts? Yeah, what a bastard. But wait, a dozen other white dudes do it, too.

That's funny that, while the white guys do it...and MORE of them do it, it doesn't negatively affect the whole race. But that ONE BLACK guy doing it, and......ohhh, all blacks MUST be like this guy.

I've said over and over, I UNDERSTAND these ladies' plight. What y'all do isn't easy. I'm NOT going to add to that by prank calling you. But I gotta get judged by that one black idiot in Nebraska who will.

Yeah, I used to rant and rave about this, getting in too many one on one battles, where dumbasses would take ONE LINE out of context and I gotta waste a week retorting.

What about the guys who harass the providers INTO being NBA? That goes on, too. They call them asking if they see n*****s, and threatening their business if they do. None of these fucks will admit that, because they're little dick, chickenshit bastards with shallow, bruisable egos.

My point is, too many guys make the business difficult for ladies, and not all of them are black. Funny thing about that is, we're the ONLY ones paying the price for it.

[cinnamonshark]

Well, I have to say it is based on a provider's personal taste. My opinion is if they say that, and you are an AA male, then find one that will see you.

But, on the flip side of this, what if some of our lovely ebony providers started adopting a "No White Males" policy? I sure hope not! I'm hoping to see Sexy Erotic Morgan sometime.

[!!Sexy Erotic Morgan]

I do not understand the issue with providers and black men. The vast majority of my clients are white, it's like 85/15, and the black guys I have met here and on Eros have been no different in there session etiquette than the white ones.

I dont understand how so many girls are encountering these vicious thugs so often, that it is a constant concern. If a guy sounds like a straight up hoodlum on the phone, don't give him your address.

Some of these girls need to realize that the reason they are getting calls from scary criminals is because their advertising appeals to them. Really you should not have to say who you do and do not see and you should not get many calls from men that you would not see. Your clients (or the guys calling trying to be) are a reflection of you. Scary black men with no money do not see me and think I am obtainable, so they don't call me. There are much better, more subtle ways to weed out the riff raff than writing "No black men" on your ad and you are not doing your job well enough if you arent taking a little time to learn them. You are losing money from good black clients and white clients that think you are dumb and inconsiderate for writing that.

NBA policies probably go both ways, but it's best not to waste time thinking about it. There are plenty of girls that see all races and I am not sure you are missing a whole lot.

[!!Sexy Erotic Morgan]

Aww you are sweet CinnamonShark! I hope to hear from you one day!!

[BigDBone]

Originally Posted by Kimberdoll

It is OKAY for black people to be racist against white people, dont you know that by now? I mean had a white person given blacks permission to eat fried chicken after voting recently that would have been all over the news. Had a black cop shot a white person in Ferguson no riots would have ever happened.

Get over it, and move on. Stop making it out that the person is racist. A BEST friend of mine stationed in Texas happens to be a smoking hot black man. I dont want to fuck him, no attraction. Nothing to do with his skin color, but everything to do with a personal preference in the type of guys I desire.

And by the way, the good upstanding black men are being done in by the thugs who make things harder for them. If you look at the alerts, the majority of alerts are about black men robbing, raping, etc. But God forbid anyone point that out. Ill be called racist for saying this but oh well, the worst thing that will happen is that I wont be contacted by black men. I dont care. I see white only, and I mean WHITE only. And why? Because I CAN! There are no equal opportunity laws governing the hobby, and I THANK GOD for that!

Originally Posted by daty/o

Not to hijack this thread, but this is very true. 50 years ago, interracial marriages were frowned upon. Nowadays, they are not only accepted; they are commonplace. Mine was mixed. We are literally breeding out racism. Shit! What will we fight about?

Things have changed in the past 50 years, but really not much. It's more open, interracial couples and friends just hanging out are more in the view. It's tolerated, and in public it is PC, politically correct to grin and bare it and not say too much. Behind closed doors racist bigots will say whats on their minds. Don't think its about race here, well maybe a little, some of our lovely ladies maybe racist. I have asked a few NBA ladies why not, and even went out to lunch with a few, and had a good time. Look for theses types of post for years to come. What gets me though is the stereotype.