Life of a "sex worker"...

[Mzungu]

...as explained by a self described "sex worker". She is a stripper, not an escort, but I think she understands the psychology of it pretty damn well.

http://www.robot-hugs.com/strip/

[kidrock]

Very interesting read....
I would share my thoughts as well but I think it would just be hypocritical...

[pyramider]

People that bitch about strip clubs, escorts, and porn that usually practitioners. Thinck about where the largest porn collection is ... the Vatican. How many preachers have been caught with providers, or in compromising positions?

[Flyboy182]

I think that's spot on. Guys who get this are gonna enjoy the hobby a lot more. Those that don't are gonna get very frustrated and continue referring to the girls they want in derogatory terms...because the girls won't play without pay. It's been going on for thousands of years.

Accept that you are buying the experience she wants to create, which when well matched to what you want is gonna make for a lot of fun. I hope that's how most "Eccie guys" see things. If not maybe there should be a verification process for "us" also?

Nice post. A viewpoint that is helpful in my opinion.

[Guest100816]

i pay for the illusion of passion,which is great,a real girlfriend would,nt just wait around a week or two for you to get horny...i like gfe w/o the headache of having a relationship..

[MrGiz]

Way too many people hung-up on the taboo of sex work... it's just a fucking job. Better than some... worse than others. The best are strong minded females who know exactly what they're doing, and why.

[Hatty242]

From my experience there is a small group of men that really don't like women but want to have sex with them, but they can't unless they pay for it and they resent that. Plus, some people are just nasty soul-sucking cynical types - and they seem to think the world owes them something. Specifically they feel they are entitled to sex and feel that it should be free. They don't feel they should commit anything - their attention, love, support, or (as in sex workers) cash. That's why they don't have girlfriends. No one wants to date them. So they see sex workers but deep in side they know that the only reason someone spends time with them is for the money and they resent that and therefore disrespect them to somehow feel superior. I doubt it works.

Wow, I could be a shrink! I just saved myself $100K in college tuition! I'm available for hire! any takers? hello? hello?

Ok, maybe not.

It was still a fantastic post. My personal view is that I suspect that sex work is an incredibly difficult profession on all kinds of levels. The cost is not out of line with most other professions: lawyers, psychologists (the real ones), dentists.

However, I can honestly say that I've always had a better time with a provider than with a dentist. Just sayin'....

[Ginger Doll]

Originally Posted by Hatty242

From my experience there is a small group of men that really don't like women but want to have sex with them, but they can't unless they pay for it and they resent that. Plus, some people are just nasty soul-sucking cynical types - and they seem to think the world owes them something. Specifically they feel they are entitled to sex and feel that it should be free. They don't feel they should commit anything - their attention, love, support, or (as in sex workers) cash. That's why they don't have girlfriends. No one wants to date them. So they see sex workers but deep in side they know that the only reason someone spends time with them is for the money and they resent that and therefore disrespect them to somehow feel superior...

Where did you find Blad's diary?

[JustCause]

Originally Posted by Ginger Doll

Where did you find Blad's diary?

[MOCHAakaMOCHA]

Some of those men are married to so add in that's also why their wives won't sleep with them (because some of them are women hating d-bags with terrible personalities).

Originally Posted by Hatty242

From my experience there is a small group of men that really don't like women but want to have sex with them, but they can't unless they pay for it and they resent that. Plus, some people are just nasty soul-sucking cynical types - and they seem to think the world owes them something. Specifically they feel they are entitled to sex and feel that it should be free. They don't feel they should commit anything - their attention, love, support, or (as in sex workers) cash. That's why they don't have girlfriends. No one wants to date them. So they see sex workers but deep in side they know that the only reason someone spends time with them is for the money and they resent that and therefore disrespect them to somehow feel superior. I doubt it works.

Wow, I could be a shrink! I just saved myself $100K in college tuition! I'm available for hire! any takers? hello? hello?

Ok, maybe not.

It was still a fantastic post. My personal view is that I suspect that sex work is an incredibly difficult profession on all kinds of levels. The cost is not out of line with most other professions: lawyers, psychologists (the real ones), dentists.

However, I can honestly say that I've always had a better time with a provider than with a dentist. Just sayin'....