Disrespectful Providers

[jtango2004]

Do your research, respect the ladies and you will be respected. If you conduct yourself in this community, like you conduct yourself in your professional and private personal life you will not run into such problems.

Everyone makes mistakes, says the wrong thing, makes appointments and has to reschedule, misinterprets others communications and/or emotions, and yes at time you will get called out.

I consider myself, and others share this feeling (I say this not out of hubris, but plain truth), as a gentleman all of the time. However, I still get corrected, told no, and sometimes catch an "ass chewing" over something I have done, have failed to do, and/or possibly said.

This is life, not everyone is going to get along like some idealistic utopia. Suck up your pride, apologize or acknowledge your part in it, correct the situation you are called out on by somehow remedying it and/or not doing it again, put on your big boy pants, don't get butt hurt, move on, and I promise things will get better! Even if the person you have had conflict with, may not be your "BFF" after the situation, at least you know you have taken the high road.

[Guest072624]

+100000000000000000000000

Originally Posted by Luxury Daphne

This is where y'all fuck up at.

When you're inquiring, go ahead and send your references in the first correspondence. That way, you're on your way to building a rapport and sense of safety.

Other than that, you're another Joe Schmo messaging her asking questions that can get her locked up if she answers the wrong person.

Want answers? Make it comfortable to have an open line of communication. Simple as that.

If she tells you specifically in the ad to ask about her services, then its safe to do so. Most providers don't have than in their ads though...

[Guest021217]

Originally Posted by Dorian Gray

Who initiated 1st contact again?

He did

[Dorian Gray]

Ok. Even w/o having Premium Access he should be able to read your bio.

He's obviously in the group of 47 that fuck up.

[GlobeSpotter]

Originally Posted by Dorian Gray

Ok. Even w/o having Premium Access he should be able to read your bio.

He's obviously in the group of 47 that fuck up.

Well....he was horny.

[Majichands]

Originally Posted by INDIAN

I wonder if you guys face this situation of some providers being disrespectful.
I have PM a provider asking if she can see me and i said my preffered activities are DFK, BBJ and MSOG in 1hr session.
She has given me a very disrespectful answer. I believe the whole point of having this site is communicate effectively and clearly and not being disrespectful and secure means of meeting a provider.
I would like to know your thoughts and if I was wrong in asking what I asked.
Well this is the first time this happened to me in years I am on this site.
Please note the provider is also a member of this site for a long time.

most men don't read the menu then ask if we do this or that and it is very frustraighting if you do not take the time to read what is already written then ask a question that is clearly already stated we tend to get a little peturbed and what you might consider as being rude we may consider it as sarcasim and if you are reading text or p.m. that is even worse cause you can not hear vocals on if the lady is smurking or mad...

Sometimes it just depend on my mood on how I would answer someone who wrote me anything about my menu JUST MHO

[Dorian Gray]

Originally Posted by Majichands

most men don't read the menu then ask if we do this or that and it is very frustraighting if you do not take the time to read what is already written then ask a question that is clearly already stated we tend to get a little peturbed and what you might consider as being rude we may consider it as sarcasim and if you are reading text or p.m. that is even worse cause you can not hear vocals on if the lady is smurking or mad...

Sometimes it just depend on my mood on how I would answer someone who wrote me anything about my menu JUST MHO

everyone should be issued a sarcasm font. I never leave home without mine.

[Guest032616]

INDIAN,
you were not out of line nor disrespectful at all.. i don't believe 99.9 percent of the reviews I read..i read them to get a good laugh. For someone like yourself who has a lot of reviews and posts and has been a member of this board for 4 years I see nothing wrong at all. You went the correct way about it by sending a PM instead of text or email. That way she can see your profile and see that you are "legit."
Nothing worse than a provider responding back that she is GFE as well..I can ask 10 different providers what GFE is and I will get 10 different responses. Your paying them (for their time, lol) and you want to know what you are going to get. . The best is when you are having a session and you tell them you want to do an activity and they respond "what the hell is that" and you respond your p411 said you do that activity. Sometimes providers don't even know what the hell they offer

[Dorian Gray]

Originally Posted by creamofthecrop

INDIAN,
For someone like yourself who has a lot of reviews and posts and has been a member of this board for 4 years I see nothing wrong at all. You went the correct way about it by sending a PM instead of text or email. That way she can see your profile and see that you are "legit."

Quoted for comic relief.

[Guest032616]

Originally Posted by Dorian Gray

Quoted for comic relief.

This is why legit is in quotation marks

[Guest022315]

Originally Posted by Sonya

Without a doubt reviews can be embellished for kudos from the boys. But you can safely say if bbbj is mentioned in every review then chances are I bbbj. Js

Originally Posted by creamofthecrop

INDIAN,
you were not out of line nor disrespectful at all.. i don't believe 99.9 percent of the reviews I read..i read them to get a good laugh. For someone like yourself who has a lot of reviews and posts and has been a member of this board for 4 years I see nothing wrong at all. You went the correct way about it by sending a PM instead of text or email. That way she can see your profile and see that you are "legit."
Nothing worse than a provider responding back that she is GFE as well..I can ask 10 different providers what GFE is and I will get 10 different responses. Your paying them (for their time, lol) and you want to know what you are going to get. . The best is when you are having a session and you tell them you want to do an activity and they respond "what the hell is that" and you respond your p411 said you do that activity. Sometimes providers don't even know what the hell they offer

The disclaimer that all hobbyist should remember especially with reviews is YMMV Ladies aren't robots so you should expect to get the exact same experience. I don't take reviews as gospel but it does sort of give an outline of whats possible.

[Prince Akeem Of Zamunda]

Originally Posted by Dorthy_Monroe

Dont be ignorant this is not a race issue smfh yall always bring race into shit when it has nothing to do with it...

U dont see Asians,right?
Then its a legit question....

A racist complaining bout questions bout race..?
Foh

[Wakeup]

Who's racist again?

[Guest021217]

Originally Posted by NubianPrince

U dont see Asians,right?
Then its a legit question....

A racist complaining bout questions bout race..?
Foh

.im not racist its a preference just like you have one when it comes to what type of girl you see.. But dorthy gets so much hell because I dont see asians but NBA girls dont get the same individual attention... I have a few asian clients & have seen many on the board... But prefer not to see them my choice... there ymmv

[TheDr]

Originally Posted by Dorthy_Monroe

... but NBA girls dont get the same individual attention

THAT'S bullshit but okay, keep thinking that. Carry on...