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bigd88 · 09-01-2014, 06:44 PM

Me and a girl that I have been dating off and on are wanting to have a threesome with another girl. We've done this once before and had a lot of fun. She is really wanting to do it again sometime soon, but we are having trouble finding someone to join us. She's not really up for getting a provider to do it. Any suggestions on where to find someone that is into joining us? We're not really into trying a full couple swap, just another girl joining us. Have any of you had luck finding someone like this?

Urban Dahlia · 09-01-2014, 07:00 PM

Why is she against the idea of a provider being with the two of you? Is it the mo**y factor, or is she just turned off by the idea of being with one of us?

Because I don't know how people find stuff like this anymore outside of calling an escort, or good luck just falling into your laps one night while you are out drinking lol.

Guest030219 · 09-01-2014, 07:14 PM

I think providers are just true sex experts. They have definitely taught me a thing or two, so maybe she feels a little, idk, under-skilled, and may not want that, even though I know the provider wants everyone to leave happy. The gf just needs to be assured she will have as much fun, and oh, btw, you're a lucky guy to even be in this situation. GL.

Urban Dahlia · 09-01-2014, 07:26 PM

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Originally Posted by MrOral69NPT

I think providers are just true sex experts. They have definitely taught me a thing or two, so maybe she feels a little, idk, under-skilled, and may not want that, even though I know the provider wants everyone to leave happy. The gf just needs to be assured she will have as much fun, and oh, btw, you're a lucky guy to even be in this situation. GL.

Wow I never thought of it that way. Yeah, that does make a lot of sense then. I'm always more worried that the woman will be disappointed in my skills. I never figured that she would be worrying about her own abilities. That's interesting.

Also...
I never have thought of myself as a "sex expert" before lol. I'm more of a "Jack of All Trades, Master of Nothing" kind of gal lol Ha Ha.

SexyKaylen · 09-01-2014, 08:03 PM

I just had a Threesome ...lol

I love them. I would love to get my mouth on you and you girl... Yes sir. yummy

DallasRain · 09-01-2014, 08:26 PM

threesomes/foursomes/fivesomes...it is ALL good!!!!

{but for a truely unique experience,I suggest getting a provider.....especially one who likes adding some "different" types of fun to the mix!}

Guest030219 · 09-01-2014, 08:39 PM

Dahlia, I say sex experts as in proving the best experience in the bedroom for us. So far I have been able to experience just about everything I have dreamed of, except the FMF, had it planned today but nature sucks.
And for the OP to say she was ok before but hesitant with an escort, just my opinion.

i'va biggen · 09-01-2014, 09:34 PM

Is me myself and I considered a threesome?

bigd88 · 09-01-2014, 10:08 PM

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Originally Posted by SexyKaylen

I just had a Threesome ...lol

I love them. I would love to get my mouth on you and you girl... Yes sir. yummy

That sounds like a party!

luvinkdgrlz · 09-01-2014, 10:15 PM

Have you tried adultfriendfinder.com? I've seen several bicurious ladies on there looking for a female playmate, some of which state they are open to a couple...

bigd88 · 09-01-2014, 10:26 PM

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Originally Posted by luvinkdgrlz

Have you tried adultfriendfinder.com? I've seen several bicurious ladies on there looking for a female playmate, some of which state they are open to a couple...

I thought about trying that, but I know that I have a family member on there. I really don't want them stubbling across our profile. Think Plenty of Fish or any other site might be good?

BobInKC · 09-01-2014, 10:43 PM

Maybe set something up with a provider that you know she would like and make it look like a chance encounter? I've done something along those lines before.

SexyKaylen · 09-02-2014, 09:21 AM

It would be great

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Originally Posted by bigd88

That sounds like a party!

FrankieP · 09-02-2014, 10:12 AM

Bobinkc has a good idea there. Set it up in advance to meet at a bar, the provider could "pick up on you" and away you go!

cuddlyteddybear · 09-02-2014, 01:18 PM

Kinda hinky to deceive your GF into being with a provider when she has said she's reluctant or hesitant.

Plus, a provider might be a bit hesitant to play along knowing you're hooking up by deceit. Not trying to be harsh, but just adding a perspective you might not have thought of with the "little head."

Good luck.