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Originally Posted by goud2geaux
I have researched online and asked providers first hand about reasons for "NBA" policies. I don't wish to gripe or convince anyone to change. Some of it I totally get, some is total bs. If a woman does not want to see me for any reason, be it race or otherwise, I don't have a problem with that. Neither one of us will have a good time in that situation.
I think it would be helpful if hobbyists could filter out providers with "NBA/No AA" policies. A couple days ago I made arrangements to see a girl. Drove 30 min to the hotel, met her on 18 floor as instructed, and when I saw her she goes, "You're black?" I ask, is everything ok, is there a problem? She states, "I don't do things with black guys." There were some other offensive comments (not by me as I never spoke another word, just walked away) that I'll keep to myself. Now I know better than to take certain things personally, but had she made it clear beforehand (like in her ad or screening), I would never have called her.
I imagine this may not an issue for a large part of the community. Just wondered what the staff and community at large thinks about my filtering idea. We are able to search for providers by their ethnicity so I think we should be able to search by ethnicities accepted/excluded by them.
I'm not sure of the ethnic breakdown hobbying community and suspect that this issue may not affect the majority.
Am I asking too much? Or do I just need to post in requests that I'm looking for an "AA friendly" provider whenever I "get that feeling" lol.
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ABOUT REASONS???
I don't believe you are so naive as to really believe that any woman, or man, needs any reason whatsoever to provide anything to you because of your race, or not because of your race.
This is not an equal opportunity game. The service that the ladies provide does not require that they give you a service.
Sorry, but I have had several ladies tell me that they are very proud of the fact that they do not provide service to AA ever, and they say it with pride that they would NEVER FUCK A N***ER?
If they can tell you are AA over the phone, a lot of the girls will not see you. Fucking is still very personal.
That is the way the world is, at least sometimes; don't ask me why.
Do not come back and accuse me of racism. That is an easy out for you. I am talking about the way things really are. There are thing you cannot change.
"Are you asking too much?"
You must be a very young idiot to not know about discrimination, or you are just pulling our leg. Ha, Ha, Ha! Not funny.
By the way I marched for your civil rights in the 1960's. We are not talking about the girls, or my views of AA. We are talking about you pretending not to understand the world as it is.
In 1956, myself and about 16 other kids walked out of a a restaurant that refused service to the one black kid who was with us. I understand the world. Get your head out of your ass, and understand that you have no rights when it comes to anyone accepting you.
Each of us, regardless of race, must each earn our own acceptance from others.
So what else are you doing wrong?
Shall we now talk about how the fat boys receive rejection from some of the ladies?
JR