Hobby babies?? Have you ever heard of one.

[Guest021817-2]

Ya' know, the only thing I read about this thread was the Title, then saw the OP... Fuggin drramaz...

Pass....

Party on Garth!

[Guest061814]

Actually, the way most guys get identified is because they are creatures of habit. They will contact the same type of provider, will return to the same places, etc.

I knew of one case where the Girl only knew the guy played for a college football team and they gave her a program, she picked out a few and they sent those guys paternity papers.

[Guest061814]

Originally Posted by Raw dog

A street name?? Really. "He lives on Main your honor". He is white too. Come one. I would love to be in that court.

Oh and in a big city too like they got time for that shit with killings and shooting and drugs going on.

A street name!!

"Your Honor he was on Main Street the day I conceived".

"He said his my was Joe too"

Um, I said Family Court. There are prosecuting murders or drug dealers in family court.

What is funny is that in Criminal or Civil Court, the guys that sue strippers and providers and only have the dancer name and a description.

But they manage to serve those dancers.

It's really pretty easy to track down just about anyone with very limited information...

[Ivysparks25]

I wont see you if I don't know who you are, if some one hurts me Im as sure as shit knowing who that person is. Just saying.

To answer you question that provider needs to be smart and do plan b as soon as possible.

[JustCause]

Originally Posted by hgritstoo

?.. If the gal is vengeful, smart, and bat-shit crazy.....you could be in trouble.

Or married.

[Rec1166]

I had a UTR provider I started seeing the week I moved to Texas. Saw her maybe three times, one of which was while in FTW for a training class. She came to visit me, and then crashed the night instead of making the drive home. Anyway, she send me a text about a week later asking if I could have kids. I replied, "no, got a vasectomy", plus the fact that we always used condoms, and never broke one to my knowledge. Anyway, she narrowed it down to three guys and one of them took the bait. She just had the child last month, a baby boy.

[ICU 812]

"Safe Sex" is the concept that is missing here.

If both parties use precautions this won't happen. If you as a Hobbyist are not using condoms for penetrative sex acts, you are more than one kind of a fool.

[pyramider]

Originally Posted by MeloraFoxx

It makes me sad to see all the suspicion that goes on regarding providers. I'm not naive enough to assume that every girl in the hobby does things just like I do, but sometimes these threads make me cringe.

Perspective from the other side: My tubes are tied, so I don't have to worry about pregnancy, but even so, I still take all the precautions I can. I'm a grown woman, it's my responsibility take good care of myself. This includes condoms, regular monthly testing, and if it were necessary, plan B, and a procedure in the worst case scenario. I haven't spoken with any providers in real life, but in the online community, I can tell you that the women I have spoken with want about as much drama as you do, which is none. I personally do not give a hoot about who you are beyond verifying that associating with you isn't going to end up with me facedown on a jogging path getting dusted for fingerprints.

Looking at it from a business perspective, I would make more money off of a good reputation and repeat "business" than any sort of scamming or fuckery that results in court BS and a human life. If I were looking to pin down a husband, this wouldn't be the way I went about it. From any other perspective, I ask the men that I see to be respectful and treat me well, and give them the same in return. I'm sure the wrong side of this business could make you misandrist and bitter, but I love men, I love sex, I love variety and adventure, and I love the freedom that the hobby gives me to spend my days with my kid and live comfortably. These men help pay my bills, we both get laid, and then we all go back to our lives without causing each other trouble, who in their right mind would complicate that arrangement?

Just so you know, we're not all the same, and we're not all out to scam you.

Tubes have been known to become reattached and a baby born. I have worked with several women with tied tubes that became pregnant 11-16 years after the procedure.

[Guest061814]

"hobby babies" sound so much more adorable than "trick babies".

Maybe I do want to have one of these little hobby babies. They sound like they should come in a build it yourself kit. From Hobby Lobby. That must be why Hobby Lobby is against birth control. Promoting more Hobby Babies.

[Mary Ann]

I'm fixed, on a daily regimen of birth control pills to control my monthly, and I use condoms. Problem solved. Moving on......

[Unique_Carpenter]

Originally Posted by Your Naughty Muse

... in Criminal or Civil Court, the guys that sue strippers and providers and only have the dancer name and a description.
But they manage to serve those dancers.
It's really pretty easy to track down just about anyone with very limited information...

The investigators that my atty uses for finding and service have a nice track record. It's been maybe 6 years since they couldn't find someone. And, every public place has cameras nowadays.

I think the key thing in this thread, and some of the gals alude to it (thank you btw), is to simply date a gal that's a professional. Seriously, how can you have fun if you're paranoid.

[Guest061814]

Unique Carpenter, will you make a Hobby Baby for me? I'm sure you have all of the necessary tools to assemble one.

Pretty please?

[Solitaire]

Originally Posted by Unique_Carpenter

... simply date a gal that's a professional. Seriously, how can you have fun if you're paranoid.

I think that is the missed point in this thread. This is really an "I dont wanna be screened" rant, loosely disguised as a "she could get you for child support" rant.

And I suspect its also an attempt to strategize BBFS with no consequences to himself, and with no respect for the other party... almost sounds like he hopes to leave a little HB, and that he will be off the hook.

"Professionals" WILL screen, to avoid these types of scenarios. Those that reject screening tend to create these types of scenarios.

[Unique_Carpenter]

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
Exactly. Thank you Solitaire.

Originally Posted by Your Naughty Muse

Unique Carpenter, will you make a Hobby Baby for me? I'm sure you have all of the necessary tools to assemble one.
Pretty please?

How can I say no to such a gracious request. And, I suspect that Muse is smiling, so the fee's already taken care of. So yes. We just have to discuss primary custody.
But, we have to be carefull, as certain situations, if not protected, might cause HB's nose to grow long. And then other guy's on this board might be thought to be one of HB's parents.

[Raw dog]

Originally Posted by Solitaire

I think that is the missed point in this thread. This is really an "I dont wanna be screened" rant, loosely disguised as a "she could get you for child support" rant.

And I suspect its also an attempt to strategize BBFS with no consequences to himself, and with no respect for the other party... almost sounds like he hopes to leave a little HB, and that he will be off the hook.

"Professionals" WILL screen, to avoid these types of scenarios. Those that reject screening tend to create these types of scenarios.

Spoken by a provider.

And as for screening that's a joke. Please!!

I had a provider say I need 2 references before she would see me, well I didn't have that and won't provide that if I did. But I expressed my desire to see her. Well the reference thing went out the window and the only thing that was required of me was to make the first move. Lol.

This thread was about "Hobby Babies" the pink elephant in the room. But all I seem to have gotten was some stuff about strippers.
And to say this if you give a stripper your personal info you deserve to be in court.

If I met you through an web site advertising yourself and what you do I might see you but we're not friends. Give good service. Protect yourself. But if you decided to do a little extra for a little extra, or if the condom breaks! Your on your own on that one cool!

Just being real. And to the stand up guys the "white Knights" one day you will learn.

When I first got started in the hobby a guy told me to remember one thing


1. ALL ESCORTS LIE!

Stick to that and you would never get mess over.