Hardliner - I think it's just the nature of our little secret group per say..
While in theory it would be nice to say, hey let's all get together...
There are some men and perhaps some women that maybe shouldn't be invited?
Ie: men who have never met a lady, men who are blacklisted from most ladies phones, men who would take photos and plaster them on the interwebs. Wouldn't it be nice if we could all just behave?
Even though no activities would be taking place, it's still a group gathering.. And some type of screening should be done and not really a public date & place. At least if it's wants to be taken seriously.
Escorts and hobbyists getting together, no matter how much or little conversation that will happen is still technically a m&g. So, disregard my starting a new thread post. This is why I just stick to showing up at these things when I can. I'm obviously not set out to be a planner of said events.