A Providers Carreer.

[Raquel de Milo]

I was looking at the thread "Best providers 35 Plus age bracket" and I thought about posting a comment- "I'll make a reservation to be added to the list in 10.5 years". I began to think about that. I realize that I have been providing for almost 10 years now (yes, that means I was very young when I entered the hobby life) I will be 25 this year! I have many 5 year and 10 year goals and one of them is to continue being a successful escort, even closer to perfection. I do want to invest in other sources of income, but even then I don't see myself leaving the hobby because I enjoy it too much.

There are some providers that only enter and spend a short time in the hobby for a quick way to establish things in the real world.

How do you view this type of provider, if she openly expressed her reasons for being here and her goal of how long it will take?
Guys, does it affect your decision on seeing her in any way

Other providers stay in the hobby for a long time either because they really like it or they don't have any better options. The positive side would be that she will gain perfection over time. The negative side is the possibility to become jaded.

How do you view a provider that has been around for a long time?
Is there any amount of time that is just too long?
Guys, how much does the amount of time a provider has been in the hobby influence your decision to see her?

I have been told a few times by gents in the hobby that they want to see me, but will wait till I am 30... "The no one under 30 rule" lol.
I see myself in the hobby for at least 20 years because by then I will be just 35 years old... and I hear that's when sex is at it's peak for women, why would I want to stop then.

So that's 25-35 years I see myself being a provider, what do you think of that?
Ladies, how long do you expect your time in the hobby to be?

[Hole N One]

DAMN you started at 15!!!

[Raquel de Milo]

Originally Posted by Hole N One

DAMN you started at 15!!!

Shhh not the topic lol

[Guests021916]

Raquel, I know you and so I suppose my response will not be as generic as you might prefer. I personally like to know the lady I see. I think with time a comfort and a friendship develop. I do not think there is an expiration date. I do think the lady has to work really hard to keep it feeling fresh and well, unjaded. I can't imagine how you can do this as a provider. If you have a steady diet of anything you would start to hate it. As you get older your looks have to compete with the younger girls. Certainly service will offset this a lot.
I tell you what goes through my mind. I have to wonder if a older lady can continue to enjoy sex
after so many partners and years in the hobby. It is important to me that my partner enjoy the sex. I suppose illusion of passion means just that "illusion." It has to be more difficult to pull off as you get older. If you don't feel it do you fake it??
You get some of the more important aspects of mature providers. Your incall is nice and neat.
It feels safe. You smile a lot and are friendly. I have always felt welcome. You try to remember me and what I like. these are signs of a mature provider.
The illusion of passion must stay there. I have meet some very nice older ladies that want to "service you". They are good at it. Is it the memorable experience that passion leaves,, No.
Can you stay interested in sex like you have been with me (or at least convinced me you were haha)? If you can you will be fine. Maybe a few more flirty pm's haha

[Prime Time]

I like em' young, dumb, and full of cum. A hooker 401k from Fidelity would ensure an early retirement.

[TinMan]

How do you view this type of provider, if she openly expressed her reasons for being here and her goal of how long it will take?
Guys, does it affect your decision on seeing her in any way


I like women who are honest about who they are and what they want. Now, if they say, "I really hate fucking guys for money, but I'm good at it and the money is great", then I won't see them, but I kind of dig the chicks that really do see this as a means to an end, and are executing on that plan.

How do you view a provider that has been around for a long time?
Is there any amount of time that is just too long?
Guys, how much does the amount of time a provider has been in the hobby influence your decision to see her?


In and of itself, it doesn't influence me at all. Now, if the time "in service" results in the lady being high volume, low service, that's another thing entirely.

My ATFs have tended to be ladies that found a place for the hobby in their daily lives, eventually stepping back to a small number of old friends, perhaps dropping back into the eccie scene when they are a little short of cash or just want a fresh slate of clients.

[modus]

Originally Posted by Raquel de Milo

How do you view a provider that has been around for a long time?
Is there any amount of time that is just too long?
Guys, how much does the amount of time a provider has been in the hobby influence your decision to see her?

I think there is a hobbyist for every type of provider. The volume of interested hobbyists is dictated by many different factors. For the over 35 crowd I think there is a mixture of reasons why guys will see a provider and probably more than I've listed.

• Online personality/activity
• Professionalism
• Body type
• Price Point
• IOP/BCD activity

For me I don't care how long the provider has been around. I just care that from what I can see that she has taken care of herself (physically and mentally) and that she is good at what she does (BCD, conversation, and professionalism). Age and time in the business is less of a factor for me.

[gntman]

Originally Posted by TinMan

but I kind of dig the chicks that really do see this as a means to an end, and are executing on that plan.

Frankly I am sad for the provider who started in her 20's and has to continue into her mid 30's and beyond because she has no other income stream, or because there is a pimp who uses her for his own income stream, or for whatever reason she has not found a way save a dime. As they age and become less desirable they are 'forced' into charging less to compete with the new flavor of the month and the sexual activity becomes more and more like work instead of the fun gig it was when they were in their 20's. It's a never ending spiral down.

A woman who does this as a means to financial independence (college, Tech training, etc) in the Real World and actually achieves it gets my respect. Especially the moms out there who owe it to their little ones. Their ambition to 'be somebody' actually turns me on more because it shows in their attitude. On the other hand a provider using the Sugar Daddy route to RW independence just to sponge off of him does not..

Originally Posted by TinMan

My ATFs have tended to be ladies that found a place for the hobby in their daily lives, eventually stepping back to a small number of old friends, perhaps dropping back into the eccie scene when they are a little short of cash or just want a fresh slate of clients.

Right on TinMan. I think dfwgigi is an example of a lady who got it right. She provided well into her 30s and then retired last year. Even at the end she seemed to enjoy every meeting like it was our first, always making it a little different every time, with little things like sexy outfits, new toys, different order of activities, etc. But all along her goal was to get out. Over the years she managed to save a little at a time, bought a house, built some equity, and then retired. I'm sure many of you who have been here a while know other ladies who got in, achieved their goal and then returned to RW.
With regard to a lady who has to return temporarily to providing due to Real World misfortunes... I'm okay with that as well a someone who is successful in RW but likes to have a side of 'fun' occasionally.

[Say What]

RdM,

I have had all out nasty PSE sessions with younger and older providers. I have had great GFE sessions with both groups as well. I've also had so-so sessions with ladies from both.

As long as she is safe, stable, and here by her own choice, she has my respect. We all hobby for different reasons. The fact that I'm here means I have NO RIGHT to judge anyone else for being here. Twenty minutes or 20 years, financial or emotional needs, I don't judge.

Just be safe and have fun. The fact that you're asking these questions does say something impressive about you though. Very insightful.

[pmdelites]

Raquel de Milo,
very interesting topic!!
my answers would be pretty close to what TinMan and modus posted.

when i meet a provider for the first time, i'm conducting an interview of sorts to determine if i want to consult/visit w/ her in the future.

if a provider implicitly/explicitly states that she is here mainly to rake in the cash, i interpret that to mean [rightly or wrongly] that she's more into cash and not delites. thus, she's way less appealing to me.
if a provider is here because "this is all i've done, i dont know how to do anything else", i interpret that to mean [rightly or wrongly] that her horizons are pretty narrow about where she wants to be in 1, 3, 5 yrs down the line. again, she's way less appealing to me.

• one dallas area provider told me [during a social gathering] about all the money she made (250k in a yr), the two homes and 5 cars she bought for herself and her siblings, and more. plus during our initial encounter, she was on her phone when i got there, constantly looked at the hotel room clock, and was on her phone when i got out of the shower. ... buzz kill!!
• one n.e. new jersey provider told me [when asked what kind of sexual activity she really enjoyed] "i dont like sex at all. i'm just doing this to make enough money so me and my son can move to florida." very uninspired sexual activities, closed eyes, watching the clock, "you come yet?" ... buzz kill!!
• one dallas area provider told me [during first 10 mins] that this is all she's done, was living out of extended stay motels, was having problems w/ her care, etc. mostly just laid there while i did my thing ... buzz kill!!

i dont want to hear about that or experience that kind of stuff on the first or any encounter ... not only buzz kill, but she'll fail the interview.

however, if the provider knows that this is a means to an end and has a way to achieve those ends, and/or she really truly enjoys intimate, passionate, deliteful encounters, great.

but i still dont want to hear about her life plans on the first encounter - takes the intimacy, passion, and delites out of the encounter.

if she was all that and i enjoyed my time, i'll let her know and eventually schedule another session. it might be 1 week, 1 month, 6 months, or a year.

and once i have visited w/ a woman several times, then a discussion of life, goals, hobbies, family, friends, etc. can be interesting. but again, in my opinion, it shouldnt be the focus of the first or any encounter. for me, this is about intimate, passionate, deliteful encounters.



now, i'l toss it back w/ a twist for you and other providers to comment on.

How do you view a hobbyist who openly expresses his reasons for being here [like what sort of activities or body type or encounter he wants. or that he's hobbying as a divorce rebound or cos he's in-between girlfriends]?
Ladies, does it affect your decision on seeing him in any way?
i've often mentioned what i'm after.

How do you view a hobbyist who has been doing this for a long time - 5 yrs, 10 yrs, 15 yrs, 30 yrs? Is there any amount of time that is just too long?
Ladies, how much does the amount of time a hobbyist has been hobbying influence your decision to see him?
and i've often mentioned that i've been doing this a long time.

[pmdelites]

Originally Posted by Say What

RdM,

I have had all out nasty PSE sessions with younger and older providers. I have had great GFE sessions with both groups as well. I've also had so-so sessions with ladies from both.

As long as she is safe, stable, and here by her own choice, she has my respect. We all hobby for different reasons. The fact that I'm here means I have NO RIGHT to judge anyone else for being here. Twenty minutes or 20 years, financial or emotional needs, I don't judge.

Just be safe and have fun. The fact that you're asking these questions does say something impressive about you though. Very insightful.

say what, i pretty much agree w/ that.

i can understand why a woman would be here mainly for financial needs and not for delites [i've visited w/ a few like that].
i dont judge her or her choice.
however, that's not what i want, so she's not for me for repeat visits.

[Bestman200600]

If she works in the hobby and spends her time with men that she likes to see then she has a chance to enjoy her work while she is making money. The best of both worlds.

[Guest062114-5]

Raquel...thanks for such an interesting topic. Great to read you views and thought. Also illuminating to read some of the gentle men's views on providers longevity.

[Luke Skywalker]

Raquel... I'll do you for the next 10 years ., how does that sound?