I know it bothers you but not her perhaps. I'm not a bad man.
I have a daughter too. You and I could spend all day sharing coffee and stories or any other beverage you wish about life and so on. I understand that you want to shut your mind to what you know and what you want to shield from her.
I would tell you to sit down with her and share openly what you have learned but you are wise enough to be the the mother you are. But you should tell her that I'm a great guy and she should talk to me too.
LOL.