References process.

[Fancylady]

I had a call me for appointment.He gave 5 references.Only 2 escorts helpful on references.Nothing from other escorts. NON reference friendly-cock blockers don't want money going to other escorts.Hobbyists don't allow cock blocker to fuc* up hobbyists FUN.

[cafriend]

Originally Posted by Fancylady

I had a call me for appointment.He gave 5 references.Only 2 escorts helpful on references.Nothing from other escorts. NON reference friendly-cock blockers don't want money going to other escorts.Hobbyists don't allow cock blocker to fuc* up hobbyists FUN.

Well... Did you see the guy?

Do you take references via P411 or Date-Check??

[Fancylady]

Originally Posted by cafriend

Well... Did you see the guy?

Do you take references via P411 or Date-Check??

Yes.Plus Screening.Last two day I have had problems getting references.Escorts don't want to help with references checks.Escorts don't want money going to other escorts.

[Still Looking]

Somebody want to see you? Did you ask him why?

[Grace Preston]

Originally Posted by Still Looking

Somebody want to see you? Did you ask him why?

I'm sure it is her charming personality.

Look-- I personally am reference friendly. Everyone knows that. But if I am home with my kids or doing things with family, I am not answering calls or checking a message board 2 out of 5 responding is actually pretty damned good. I've been around forever.. and often times I can't get a reference. Posting angry missives on the boards about it really does little other than showcase your temper at best, and perhaps a slight lack of discretion at worst.

[Stanfeld]

But if I am home with my kids or doing things with family, I am not answering calls or checking a message board

Slacker.

[CarolineDavenport]

I don't think she's being indiscreet... she didn't name any names. She's just venting about something frustrating.

I highly recommend you establish an alternate screening method. Mine is more than some guys are willing to do, but the majority are fine with it, and I feel comfortable that I will be spending time with someone who will be respectful and safe. I almost prefer my alternate screening method to references. Feel free to email me if you want a detailed explanation of mine, Fancy (I have PMs here turned off). Might give you an idea for your own.

[Pink Floyd]

I had my first Hobby date in about a year, and I was surprised when the girl, who I had seen before asked for references. Some of us guys drift in and out of the Hobby while dating civilians. I felt a little odd at the time being treated like a newby, but I appreciate her caution.

[gigi_gypsy]

Originally Posted by Fancylady

I had a call me for appointment.He gave 5 references.Only 2 escorts helpful on references.Nothing from other escorts. NON reference friendly-cock blockers don't want money going to other escorts.Hobbyists don't allow cock blocker to fuc* up hobbyists FUN.

Originally Posted by Fancylady

Yes.Plus Screening.Last two day I have had problems getting references.Escorts don't want to help with references checks.Escorts don't want money going to other escorts.

Sorry to hear this and understand your frustration. Like in anything, there is good and bad. Personally I give references as I want to keep my sister providers safe as well as my clients.

If I contact a provider and do not get a response, I let the hobbyist know so they can decide on whether to meet with her again or not.

[Old-T]

A few things I have discovered.

--Grace is not the only lady with a life outside of here. If guys allow enough time for their references to actually reply, that helps. If they have given those ladies a heads-up, it helps more. It amazes me to read some attempts to get references in a few hours and then gripe when it doesn't happen.

--I also found--as the OP implies--that some ladies are not reference friendly. I try to use ladies in one city as my references to see a lady in a different city. Doing that I have never had an issue with the reference lady feeling slighted and not providing the reference.

[Guest062114-5]

"Bad business Prostitutes bashing other prostitutes..Who cares not your business." -FL

[gimme_that]

Bad reference requests are like pimps.......

"Come see me instead baby"

Put It in My Pocket......